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Friend to Friend March 28, 2018

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For many this week is Holy Week. That means by Sunday morning we will be hearing a great deal about resurrection. There will be talk of a tomb, a stone being rolled away, and new life emerging. Yet, for people unaffiliated with the church or somewhat skeptical, the resurrection story of Jesus is simply a great myth or a fairy tale with a grand ending, and that’s about all. If the life of this radical rabbi from the Middle East, who our entire religious movement is named for, is going to have any lasting impact on our current lives, we must continue to learn how to see resurrection in our present condition not just as something that happened 2000+ years ago.   

Throughout my spiritual life, I have had many people ask me if I believe in the resurrection of Jesus. Most were the theological privileged trying to question my faith and see if I was a “true believer” or at least made from their same mold.  Often my affirming answers would trail long, and I enjoyed firing challenging questions back at those asking. I think in my mind I was always trying to find a way to answer the question that made sense both when I thought about it and actually said it.   

Then in 2009, I attended the “Poets, Prophets and Preachers” conference in Grand Rapids, Michigan. One of the main speakers for this event was writer, philosopher, storyteller and public speaker, Peter Rollins. Rollins, who is from Belfast, was just hitting American audiences at this time. His controversial message, as his website indicates, “sets aside questions regarding life after death to explore the possibility of life before death.”

As Rollins closed his last session, he caught the audience off guard when he said the following,

“Without equivocation or hesitation, I fully and completely admit that I deny the resurrection of Christ. This is something that anyone who knows me could tell you, and I am not afraid to say it publicly, no matter what some people may think…”

Briefly we all sat in shock with Rollins’ boldness, but before people had a chance to protest or leave the gathering, he continued.

“I deny the resurrection of Christ every time I do not serve at the feet of the oppressed, each day that I turn my back on the poor; I deny the resurrection of Christ when I close my ears to the cries of the downtrodden and lend my support to an unjust and corrupt system.

However there are moments when I affirm that resurrection, few and far between as they are. I affirm it when I stand up for those who are forced to live on their knees, when I speak for those who have had their tongues torn out, when I cry for those who have no more tears left to shed.”

Rollins’ explanation left me weeping and changed. For the first time, I truly knew what the resurrection of Jesus meant and the impact it has on our world. May the resurrection of Jesus impact your world in the same way this week.

Easter Blessings, 

Bob


Joys & Concerns

 

We had a great turn out for the March for our Lives in Indy last Saturday! Thousands of people came out to show their support, despite the snow. Some of us and our signs even made it onto local and national news! We also had a chance to meet Senator Joe Donnelly. Thanks to all who braved the weather and came to represent First Friends!

 

Last Sunday we celebrated Palm Sunday with our traditional “Hosanna” while our kids danced in with palm branches. Thanks to Kathy R for capturing these wonderful shots of our Meeting for Worship!

 

Youth group had a great time last Friday evening at SkyZone Trampoline Park.  We had 16 jumpers as well as several of us adults enjoying the action from comfortable chairs in the lobby.  Upcoming events include helping in the woods this Saturday morning, youth group with Aaron and Michelle T and Ben W on April 8th and a trip to Connor Prairie for the Follow the North Start experience on April 20th.  Please let Beth H know if your youth (6th - 12th grade) would like to join us.

 


Quaker-Affiliated Organizations

 

IFCL Legislative Update -- Indiana Friends Committee on Legislation has been hard at work at the Statehouse, attempting to translate the social concerns of Friends into legislative action.  Here are summaries of legislation that received particular focus from IFCL this past session: http://www.quakerifcl.org/legislative-issues/2018-ifcl-legislative-summary/ Following each bill is a notation indicating whether IFCL supposed or opposed, and current status. 

IFCL had notable victories in stopping two predatory lending bills (HB 1319 and SB 420); expanding mental healthcare access (HB 1007) and funding for community mental health centers (HB 1141); resourcing suspected victims of human trafficking (HB 1191); and incremental progress towards eventual redistricting reform (SB 326) and a meaningful hate crimes bill (SB 418), among others.  The breadth of accomplishments that will have a real-world impact is what separates IFCL from other lobbying organizations.

Many of the bills that did not become law this year will likely resurface in the future, for example HB 1022, which would have repealed the current law that requires a person to obtain a license to carry a handgun in Indiana, and SB 33 regarding firearms in houses of worship (both opposed by IFCL).  In light of the recent March for Our Lives and Pastor Bob’s message this past Sunday, now is a great time for Friends, through IFCL, to have a direct impact on how their elected representatives address vital issues of statewide and national importance.   To echo the call and response during the March for Our Lives rally at the Statehouse -- "What does democracy look like?"  "THIS is what democracy looks like!" -- your involvement with IFCL can be what democracy looks like.  If you are interested in relating our Quaker testimonies to the shaping of responsible decisions by our state government, please reach out to the office at office@indyfriends.org, or visit the IFCL website at www.quakerifcl.org.

 

AFSC’s Gaza Unlocked: Hearing in the Heartland is a special opportunity to learn more about the crisis in Gaza and connect with others working to end the blockade. The event is modeled after a congressional committee fact-finding hearing. You’ll hear from expert witnesses who will share seldom-heard stories from Gaza about the impacts of the blockade and raise critical questions about U.S. policies in the region. Hearing in the Heartland is free and open to the public. After the hearing, join us for a ticketed dinner and celebration of Palestinian culture, featuring food, music, dance, and poetry. We hope you will join us on Saturday, April 21st, 1-5pm at the Indianapolis Central Library, 40 E St. Clair St. For more information or to buy tickets for the dinner, visit http://gazaunlocked.org/heartland.

 

Save the Date: FCNL Anniversary Celebration ~ Join the Friends Committee on National Legislation at Earlham College in Richmond on the afternoon of Saturday, May 12, 2018 for a 75th anniversary celebration. The theme will be “Returning to Our Roots” as the celebrate 75 years working for the world we seek. We will share more information as it becomes available. If you have questions, you can contact Anna McCormally at Anna@fcnl.org or (202) 903-2522.


Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities



Join us for our Easter Celebrations!
Sunday, April 1st

10:15 Meeting for Worship
Children’s Easter Egg Hunt after the Children’s Message
Easter Brunch following Worship

 

Support our Ministries with Automatic Donations ~ We welcome any Friends that would like to set up their contribution as an automatic debit. This can be helpful for folks that don’t have checks and don’t want to have to remember to bring a checkbook to the Meeting. In order to do this, you will first need to contact your bank (in person or via the website) and set up online automatic payments (also commonly called “Bill Pay”). Once that is set up, you can add First Friends as a payee by typing our name and address into the system, and choosing how much you’d like to contribute, and how frequently. Your bank will automatically send a check to us at the specified frequency. After it’s set up you don’t have to do anything else! We are grateful for everyone’s continued support of ministries here at First Friends.

 

Spring Cleaning in the Woods:  Put on your work gloves and join us in the Woods this Saturday, March 31 @ 9 AM!  We will freshen up the Woods for Spring! One team will cut back the switch grass, others will weed around the fountain area and others will pull out some more of that invasive honeysuckle.  Our Woods is becoming a haven for local and migrating birds. Come enjoy the fellowship of working with others to care for creation. If you have questions: email office@indyfriends.org. Our next Woods work day will by May 19th, so mark your calendars!

 

Garden Plots ~ Spring time is around the corner and the community garden is gearing up! Please reach out to the office at office@indyfriends.org if you are interested in having a garden box and participating in the organic community garden. Fresh produce and flowers are calling your name!

 

The Ordinance Film Screening & Discussion ~ Join the Indiana Assets & Opportunity Network, an initiative of Prosperity Indiana and the Indiana Institute for Working Families, for a screening of The Ordinance, a documentary that examines the payday and auto title loan industry while also following a small Texas town fighting for change.  After the screening, members of a coalition of consumer advocates will lead a discussion about the film and answer attendees' questions about the payday industry in Indiana. Coalition members include Erin Macey, Indiana Institute for Working Families; Glen Tebbe, Indiana Catholic Conference; Bill Chapman, Indiana Friends Committee on Legislation; and Marie Morse, HomesteadCS. The event will be held Tuesday, April 3 6:30-8:00pm at 1845 W. 18th St., Indianapolis.

 

We are in need of volunteers for the Mid North Food Pantry! ~ Several of our “regulars” will not be able to volunteer at the food pantry on Wednesdays April 4th and 18th and May 2nd.  If you are in town and available during any of these dates, please consider volunteering. The food pantry is located at 3333 N. Meridian St., Indianapolis, and is open from 10am-2pm. You are welcome to stay the whole time or part of the time as you are able. Please contact the office if you have any questions at office@indyfriends.org. Thank you for your service!

 

Financial Education Class ~ Join us this spring, Thursday, April 5th for the Dave Ramsey Financial Peace University class! Want to learn how to better handle your money, budget, and dump debt? Then this is the class for you! The class will be hosted by Sam R and her sister. This class has made a HUGE impact on her life and her financial plan for the future and can do the same for you! Click here to sign up or copy and paste the link below. Also, you're welcome to contact the office if you have any questions at office@indyfriends.org. This will be a 9-week class held at East Tenth United Methodist Church, 2327 E 10th St, Indianapolis, IN 46201.  
https://www.fpucentral.com/classes/1061655/registration
 


Rise Up Singalong! The next Sing Along with Jim K and Dan H will be April 20th, the third Friday of the month, at 7:00 in the parlor. Those who have Rise Up Singing and Rise Again, please bring them. We are planning a song list ahead of time and will have enlarged copies of the selections for those who lack books. You are welcome to invite friends. We had sixteen singers in March for a delightful evening.

 

Education Training ~ The Christian Education Committee will be holding a training session on Sunday, April 22 from 11:30-1:15 in the Parlor. We will view a presentation by Julie Burk from the Indiana Autism Society on tips and strategies on how to teach kids on the autism spectrum as well as discussing our Sunday School and Children’s Worship curriculum. We will provide lunch and childcare for those with kids. Everyone who may be interested is invited. Since we have several children in our faith community that are on the spectrum, it could be very beneficial to attend this training so we are better equipped to provide a positive experience for all of our children. Please let the office know if you plan to attend: office@indyfriends.org
 

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Friend to Friend March 21, 2018

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I am reading a book called A People’s History of Christianity - The Other Side of the Story by Diana Butler Bass for my class at ESR.  She examines the question that many outside the Christian faith ask - I don’t have a problem with Jesus, but what happened after Jesus?  How did our Christian faith and tradition develop after Jesus?  What did that early faith community look like when it was being persecuted by the Romans?  And how did Christianity change after Constantine declared Christianity the official state religion in the Roman Empire in 380 AD?

The Bible is the most important book in my life and because of that I invest the time and effort to study and wrestle with the Scriptures.   The words of the early Christian leader Origen of Alexandria (184-253 AD) speaks to my condition in studying the Bible.  He felt that the study of the Bible and the spiritual practice of prayer were intertwined.  And he searched for the "wisdom hidden" under the literal words. 

In that context, the more I study the life of Jesus in the Bible, the more aware I am of how radical his call is to us and how difficult this call is to embrace in our world today.  Jesus didn’t come to set up a new religion but to transform Judaism.  Jesus wasn’t interested in setting up doctrinal and faith statements to establish a new movement called Christianity and to provide the guidance to set up its hierarchical structure (which is often how the Bible is used in modern Christianity).  Jesus proposed a new way of life for people living in a chaotic world in the Roman Empire.  Jesus’ entire ministry was about transformation of the heart to a way of love, non-violence, acceptance, equality, humility, community and sacrifice.  And the early Christian community embraced this message of Jesus as these early Christians were called the "People of the Way”.  I like the quote from one of the early Christian defenders, Justin Martyr (100-165 AD) “We who formerly…valued above all things the acquisition of wealth and possession, now bring what we have into a common stock, and communicate to everyone in need; we who hated and destroyed one another, and on account of their different manners would not live with men of a different tribe, now, since the coming of Christ, live familiarly with them, and pray for our enemies.”  This was the beginning of Christianity and these early Christians were willing to lose their life not for a belief system but for a new way of living.  How has our 21st century Christianity come so far from this original idea?  Are we reading the Bible more to determine our theological positions on doctrine and less on the passion, energy and zeal for living in the way of Jesus?  Has Christianity become too aligned with power and position and seeks purity of belief versus acceptance and embrace of all? 

Bass highlights a term of generative Christianity that does not reject tradition but can find new discoveries in the early Christian church around meaningful spiritual practices and social justice.  A re-emerging Christianity that is not new but has always been the beating heart of Christian history.  She says that “Whereas militant Christianity triumphs over all, generative Christianity transforms the world through humble service to all.  It is not about victory; it is about following Christ in order to seed human community with grace.”  In these troubled times in our world, I am hopeful for renewal of the People of the Way that take Jesus and the Bible seriously in how we are to transform our community.  That is the challenge for each of us individually as well as collectively in our faith communities.

Beth


Joys & Concerns

This past Saturday, a few friends gathered at Coburn Place to set up an apartment for a new resident that will be moving in soon. We went shopping in the furniture store and pantry in the basement for all the decorations and kitchen wares. We cleaned the apartment first and then began decorating. It was fun picking out furniture, bedding and dishes for this new resident. Coburn Place is the only transitional housing available in the state for victims of domestic abuse who are homeless. The residents are allowed to stay there up to two years rent free while getting their lives back on track. First Friends has supported this mission for several years now by donating items and for the past two years we have purchased an apartment. Thanks to Jim and Carol D, Amy P, Kathy and Bill F, Rebecca L, and Jody L for all of your help. If you would like more information about Coburn Place, please visit www.coburnplace.org.


Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities


We hope to see you this coming Palm Sunday at Meeting for Worship. Beth Henricks will also be selling chocolate, coffee, tea, and olive oil to support youth group.

 

Support our Ministries with Automatic Donations ~ We welcome any Friends that would like to set up their contribution as an automatic debit. This can be helpful for folks that don’t have checks and don’t want to have to remember to bring a checkbook to the Meeting. In order to do this, you will first need to contact your bank (in person or via the website) and set up online automatic payments (also commonly called “Bill Pay”). Once that is set up, you can add First Friends as a payee by typing our name and address into the system, and choosing how much you’d like to contribute, and how frequently. Your bank will automatically send a check to us at the specified frequency. After it’s set up you don’t have to do anything else! We are grateful for everyone’s continued support of ministries here at First Friends.

 

Women at the Well – Discussion for Women ~ For several months now, the women of First Friends have been asking for their own Threshing at the Tap. We are proud to introduce Women at the Well- a gathering of women who ponder current issues and topics, where differing views are discussed, no decisions are made, and food and drinks are enjoyed. It will take place every fourth Thursday of the month, and our next gathering will be on Thursday, March 22, 7pm, at Flatwater (832 E Westfield Blvd, Indianapolis). Join other women of First Friends and enjoy a wonderful night of conversation together.  

 

March For Our Lives Gun Violence Rally ~ Come and join us for a local Rally for Hoosiers Concerned about Gun Violence this Saturday, March 24. This is a rally in support of the fight against gun violence in our state and our country, being held nationwide. This event is led by youth and students. The event in Indianapolis will start at 11:00 a.m. at the Indiana Statehouse.  If you’d like to carpool with us, meet at the Meeting at 9:45 a.m. Please visit https://marchforourlives.com/ for more information.

 

The Absurd Cross: Escaping the Tyranny of Certainty & Satisfaction ~ See Peter Rollins and GraceUnlimited at Christian Theological Seminary (1000 West 42nd Street) on Saturday, March 24, 7:30 PM – 9:30 PM. At any moment we might be undone by the feeling that this world is absurd. In response, we shore up all manner of religious defenses that promise to keep the void at bay. In contrast, Peter Rollins argues that there is a religionless heart to Christianity that overturns the tables of meaning, clears out the temples of tidy answers and drives out the sellers of certainty. We will hear a gospel with the incendiary ability to break down our defenses against the abyss, so that we might confront it face to face. Join Rollins and GraceUnlimited as they sensitize themselves to the scandal of this gospel message—a message that promises personal and political transformation only when we embrace a life beyond meaning, beyond certainty and beyond satisfaction, a life freed from the frenetic pursuit of wholeness, and from all the demons hidden along that path. For more information and to purchase tickets, visit https://goo.gl/MvxTN1.
 

 

Oak Leaf: Meeting for Reading: Turtles All The Way Down by John Green will be held Tuesday, March 27th at 7 pm in the Parlor. All are welcome! Cindy K will be leading the discussion.  If you'd like to read ahead for next month, the April 24th title will be: A Full Life: Reflections at Ninety by Jimmy Carter

 

Spring Cleaning in the Woods:  Put on your work gloves and join us in the Woods on March 31, 2018 @ 9 AM!  We will freshen up the Woods for Spring! One team will cut back the switch grass, others will weed around the fountain area and others will pull out some more of that darn invasive honeysuckle.  Our Woods is becoming a haven for local and migrating birds. (See Brad Jackson’s birding observations).  Come enjoy the fellowship of working with others to care for creation. If you have questions: email  Mindy- mcs16zoom@gmail.com or Mary- mary.blackburn4@gmail.com. Our next Woods work day will by May 19th, so mark your calendars!


Join us for our Easter Celebrations!
Sunday, April 1st

10:15 Meeting for Worship
Children’s Easter Egg Hunt after the Children’s Message
Easter Brunch following Worship
 

Garden Plots ~ Spring time is around the corner and the community garden is gearing up! Please reach out to the office at office@indyfriends.org if you are interested in having a garden box and participating in the organic community garden. Fresh produce and flowers are calling your name!

 

The Ordinance Film Screening & Discussion ~ Join the Indiana Assets & Opportunity Network, an initiative of Prosperity Indiana and the Indiana Institute for Working Families, for a screening of The Ordinance, a documentary that examines the payday and auto title loan industry while also following a small Texas town fighting for change.  After the screening, members of a coalition of consumer advocates will lead a discussion about the film and answer attendees' questions about the payday industry in Indiana. Coalition members include Erin Macey, Indiana Institute for Working Families; Glen Tebbe, Indiana Catholic Conference; Bill Chapman, Indiana Friends Committee on Legislation; and Marie Morse, HomesteadCS. The event will be held Tuesday, April 3 6:30-8:00pm at 1845 W. 18th St., Indianapolis.

 

Help a Nurse Practitioner ~ Janice H is a First Friends attender working at Hawthorne Community Center and is trying to help a lovely Chinese-American client named Sophie find a primary care physician office or similar setting for her family nurse practitioner preceptorship.  This is her capstone practicum and she has lots of prior clinical experience and has worked the last seven years in out-patient surgery at IU Health.  She has a BSN from Purdue.  The doctor who has supervised her prior clinicals is on maternity leave.  Her university (Chamberlain) leaves it up to the student to arrange her practicum and her employer has not provided any leads that were fruitful.  The requirements of the supervisor are minimal:  1) a 5 min. online evaluation of the student at four weeks and end of practicum (eight weeks).  2) Completion of 125 HOURS of clinical experience with primary care patients, preferably between April 30 and June 20, 2018.  Preceptor can be an MD, NP, or PA.  If you can help or even provide a referral to someone who might be willing to help, please contact Janice at jhise@hawthornecenter.org or 317-443-6458 or leave a message at work: 317-637-4312 X 125 and she will call back.

 

Financial Education Class ~ Join us this spring, Thursday, April 5th for the Dave Ramsey Financial Peace University class! Want to learn how to better handle your money, budget, and dump debt? Then this is the class for you! The class will be hosted by Sam R and her sister. This class has made a HUGE impact on the her life and her financial plan for the future and can do the same for you! Click here to sign up or copy and paste the link below. Also, you're welcome to contact the office if you have any questions at office@indyfriends.org. This will be a 9 week class held at East Tenth United Methodist Church, 2327 E 10th St, Indianapolis, IN 46201.  
https://www.fpucentral.com/classes/1061655/registration
 


Education Training ~ The Christian Education Committee will be holding a training session on Sunday, April 22 from 11:30-1:15 in the Parlor. We will view a presentation by Julie Burk from the Indiana Autism Society on tips and strategies on how to teach kids on the autism spectrum as well as discussing our Sunday School and Children’s Worship curriculum. We will provide lunch and childcare for those with kids. Everyone who may be interested is invited. Since we have several children in our faith community that are on the spectrum, it could be very beneficial to attend this training so we are better equipped to provide a positive experience for all of our children. Please let the office know if you will be able to attend: office@indyfriends.org.
 


Save the Date: FCNL Anniversary Celebration ~ Join the Friends Committee on National Legislation at Earlham College in Richmond on the afternoon of Saturday, May 12, 2018 for a 75th anniversary celebration. The theme will be “Returning to Our Roots” as the celebrate 75 years working for the world we seek. We will share more information as it becomes available. If you have questions, you can contact Anna McCormally at Anna@fcnl.org or (202) 903-2522.



AVP Annual National Gathering ~ All are invited to join the Alternatives to Violence Project (AVP) annual conference held this year at Earlham College in Richmond. It will be on Memorial Day weekend, May 25-28. If you’re interested in registering, please visit https://www.regonline.com/builder/site/Default.aspx?EventID=2022849. In an attempt to bring their work to high school students, AVP is also trying to raise funds to help send some of their students to the conference as well. They have included in the program a youth panel discussion which their students will participate with youth from AVP programs in New Jersey and New York. They have invited the Peace Learning Center to be a part of this as well. This is an exciting opportunity for the students. It costs $100 to send one high school student to the entire weekend conference where they will have the opportunity to meet and learn from experienced AVP facilitators from across the country. If you’re interested in donating, please visit https://avpindiana.org/.

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Friend to Friend March 14, 2018

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Theologian Walter Wink once wrote, “Violence is the ethos of our times. It is the spirituality of the modern world.” Sadly, I am starting to believe this more and more as I listen to my children speak casually of lock-downs drills, live-shooter-evacuation plans, “Run, Hide, Fight” directives, and their growing fear of “When will it happen at my school?”

I was stilled on Tuesday as I watched a slow-motion video of seven thousand pairs of empty shoes which were placed on the lawn outside the US Capitol to represent every child killed with a gun since the Sandy Hook Massacre. It’s hard to believe that April 20th is the 20-year anniversary of the Columbine High School shooting in Colorado. Where have these 20 years gone? What have we done to stop this violence? What horrific atrocities we’ve endured.

To even think that our children have to take up the cause and plan a National Walkout Day (March 14) to try and get the attention of politicians, school administrators, and the national public, is beyond comprehension. 

As well, it is bewildering to consider the fact that my family and I believe it to be a priority to spend our “family day” next Saturday at the March for Our Lives (from 11am-2pm at the Indiana Statehouse). We will be joining other children, youth, teachers, colleagues, and families as we together take to the streets of Indianapolis (and cities all across our country) demanding that our lives and safety become a priority, and that we end gun violence in our schools and communities.

Sadly, gun violence and mass shootings are only one manifestation of the violence that is permeating our lives and world. Quaker Parker J. Palmer wrote:

“Violence is done when parents insult children, when teachers demean students, when supervisors treat employees as disposable means to economic ends, when physicians treat patients as objects, when people condemn gays and lesbians ‘in the name of God,’ when racists live by the belief that people with a different skin color are less than human.”

Is it any wonder why violence has spiraled out of control? It is evident at so many levels.

Sadly, for most people, nonviolence does not come naturally. The seeds of nonviolence are planted deep within each of us. I believe it is far time we began cultivating and nurturing those seeds, whether that is marching with our children or simply treating our neighbors kindly. If we are going to reverse our current condition and create an ethos of peace, we must be willing to develop and hone our skills to promote nonviolence. Even though our daily actions may not make the evening news, living out our Quaker values in our homes, workplaces, and schools is the way we begin to create an ethos of peace. It is in the daily where change begins.

Grace and peace,

Bob


Joys & Concerns

A Big Thank-You to our food pantry volunteers last week:  Phil K, Ray G, Christie M, Beth S, Bill and Kathy F, Carol and Jim D.  Thank you for your service!


Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities
 

Youth Group this Sunday ~ Calling all youth! We will hold a combined Youth Group in the basement after worship this Sunday, March 18. It will be led by Aaron & Michelle Thornburg who will be talking about their trip to Belize and about service work. Please RSVP if you plan on coming, as we plan on providing lunch. You can RSVP with the office at office@indyfriends.org. 
 

Christ in the Passover ~ All are invited to Christ in the Passover, presented by Jews for Jesus. It is being held this Sunday, March 18 at 6:00pm at Epworth United Methodist Church, 6450 Allisonville Rd. Attenders will be able to observe as Ofer Levy from Tel Aviv, Israel re-creates the traditional Passover service and explains how it foreshadowed Jesus’ death and resurrection. Ofer Levy will also be happy to answer questions after the demonstration. This presentation has been done in over 38,000 churches since 1973. This event is free and open to the public. If you have questions, please call 317-251-1481.


Garden Plots ~ Spring time is around the corner and the community garden is gearing up! Please reach out to the office at office@indyfriends.org if you are interested in having a garden box and participating in the organic community garden. Fresh produce and flowers are calling your name!

 

Threshing at the Tap: (def.) a gathering of men who mull over current issues or topics, where all points of view are heard, no decisions are made, and beverages are enjoyed.

Threshing at the Tap takes place every third Thursday, 7pm at various breweries in greater Indianapolis. We will meet this Thursday, March 15 at Thr3e Wise Men Brewing Co. in Broad Ripple (please note the location change)! We have the "Conference Room" already reserved under "Bob Henry." See you there!

 

Volunteers Needed for Coburn Place ~ Please join us this Saturday, March 17 at Coburn Place from 9-noon for a work morning. We will be doing some fun projects to help the residents. Coburn Place is the only transitional housing available in the state for victims of domestic abuse. Each resident has their own fully furnished apartment rent free for a period of up to two years. When they leave Coburn Place, they take their whole apartment furnishings with them. Coburn Place is located on the corner of 38th and Park and the address is 604 E 38th Street. Please join us at 9am this Saturday and learn more about this wonderful place. If you want to carpool, please notify the office asap and we can arrange to meet at about 8:30. If you are driving yourself, the entrance is on the Park and you will need to tell the gate keeper that you are with First Friends. If you have any questions, please contact the office at office@indyfriends.org. If you would like more information about Coburn Place, please go to www.coburnplace.org.

 

Women at the Well – Discussion for Women ~ For several months now, the women of First Friends have been asking for their own Threshing at the Tap. We are proud to introduce Women at the Well- a gathering of women who ponder current issues and topics, where differing views are discussed, no decisions are made, and food and drinks are enjoyed. It will take place every fourth Thursday of the month, and our next gathering will be on Thursday, March 22, 7pm, at Flatwater (832 E Westfield Blvd, Indianapolis). Join other women of First Friends and enjoy a wonderful night of conversation together.  

 

The Absurd Cross: Escaping the Tyranny of Certainty & Satisfaction ~ See Peter Rollins and GraceUnlimited at Christian Theological Seminary (1000 West 42nd Street) on Saturday, March 24, 7:30 PM – 9:30 PM. Even in the midst of our daily routines, we can be painfully aware that our world is precarious. At any moment we might be undone by the feeling that this world is absurd. In response, we shore up all manner of religious defenses that promise to keep the void at bay. In contrast, Peter Rollins argues that there is a religionless heart to Christianity that overturns the tables of meaning, clears out the temples of tidy answers and drives out the sellers of certainty. Here the supposed “good news” that we can be all that we can be, is exposed as bad news. In its place we will hear a gospel with the incendiary ability to break down our defenses against the abyss, so that we might confront it face to face. Join Peter Rollins and GraceUnlimited as they sensitize themselves to the scandal of this gospel message—a message that promises personal and political transformation only when we embrace a life beyond meaning, beyond certainty and beyond satisfaction, a life freed from the frenetic pursuit of wholeness, and from all the demons hidden along that path. For more information and to purchase tickets, visit https://goo.gl/MvxTN1.

 

Help a Nurse Practitioner ~ Janice H is a First Friends attender working at Hawthorne Community Center and is trying to help a lovely Chinese-American client named Sophie find a primary care physician office or similar setting for her family nurse practitioner preceptorship.  This is her capstone practicum and she has lots of prior clinical experience and has worked the last seven years in out-patient surgery at IU Health.  She has a BSN from Purdue.  The doctor who has supervised her prior clinicals is on maternity leave.  Her university (Chamberlain) leaves it up to the student to arrange her practicum and her employer has not provided any leads that were fruitful.  The requirements of the supervisor are minimal:  1) a 5 min. online evaluation of the student at four weeks and end of practicum (eight weeks).  2) Completion of 125 HOURS of clinical experience with primary care patients, preferably between April 30 and June 20, 2018.  Preceptor can be an MD, NP, or PA.  If you can help or even provide a referral to someone who might be willing to help, please contact the office at office@indyfriends.org.
 

Spring Cleaning in the Woods:  Put on your work gloves and join us in the Woods on March 31, 2018 @ 9 AM!  We will freshen up the Woods for Spring! One team will cut back the switch grass, others will weed around the fountain area and others will pull out some more of that darn invasive honeysuckle.  Our Woods is becoming a haven for local and migrating birds. (See Brad Jackson’s birding observations).  Come enjoy the fellowship of working with others to care for creation. If you have questions email the office at office@indyfriends.org. Our next Woods work day will by May 19th, so mark your calendars!


Join us for our Easter Celebrations!

Sunday, April 1st
10:15 Meeting for Worship
Children’s Easter Egg Hunt after the Children’s Message
Easter Brunch following Worship
 

The Ordinance Film Screening & Discussion ~ Join the Indiana Assets & Opportunity Network, an initiative of Prosperity Indiana and the Indiana Institute for Working Families, for a screening of The Ordinance, a documentary that examines the payday and auto title loan industry while also following a small Texas town fighting for change.  After the screening, members of a coalition of consumer advocates will lead a discussion about the film and answer attendees' questions about the payday industry in Indiana. Coalition members include Erin Macey, Indiana Institute for Working Families; Glen Tebbe, Indiana Catholic Conference; Bill Chapman, Indiana Friends Committee on Legislation; and Marie Morse, HomesteadCS. The event will be held Tuesday, April 3 6:30-8:00pm at 1845 W. 18th St., Indianapolis.

 

Financial Education Class ~ Join us this spring, Thursday, April 5th for the Dave Ramsey Financial Peace University class! Want to learn how to better handle your money, budget, and dump debt? Then this is the class for you! The class will be hosted by Sam R and her sister. This class has made a HUGE impact on the her life and her financial plan for the future and can do the same for you! Click here to sign up or copy and paste the link below. Also, you're welcome to contact the office if you have any questions at office@indyfriends.org. This will be a 9 week class held at East Tenth United Methodist Church, 2327 E 10th St, Indianapolis, IN 46201.  
https://www.fpucentral.com/classes/1061655/registration
 

Education Training ~ The Christian Education Committee will be holding a training session on Sunday, April 22 from 11:30-1:15 in the Parlor. We will view a presentation by Julie Burk from the Indiana Autism Society on tips and strategies on how to teach kids on the autism spectrum as well as discussing our Sunday School and Children’s Worship curriculum. We will provide lunch and childcare for those with kids. Everyone who may be interested is invited. Since we have several children in our faith community that are on the spectrum, it could be very beneficial to attend this training so we are better equipped to provide a positive experience for all of our children. Please let the office know if you will be able to attend: office@indyfriends.org.
 

AVP Annual National Gathering ~ All are invited to join the Alternatives to Violence Project (AVP) annual conference held this year at Earlham College in Richmond. It will be on Memorial Day weekend, May 25-28. If you’re interested in registering, please visit https://www.regonline.com/builder/site/Default.aspx?EventID=2022849. In an attempt to bring their work to high school students, AVP is also trying to raise funds to help send some of their students to the conference as well. They have included in the program a youth panel discussion which their students will participate with youth from AVP programs in New Jersey and New York. They have invited the Peace Learning Center to be a part of this as well. This is an exciting opportunity for the students. It costs $100 to send one high school student to the entire weekend conference where they will have the opportunity to meet and learn from experienced AVP facilitators from across the country. If you’re interested in donating, please visit https://avpindiana.org/.
 

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Friend to Friend March 7, 2018

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I spent the last week on vacation in Orlando visiting my brother and sister in law along with my old neighbor and good friend Penny.  It was a wonderful week of relaxation and recharging in the warmth of the Florida sunshine.  One day I was at the pool reading a fascinating book by John Dominic Crossan called God and Empire for my class on Peace and Social Justice.  I looked up in the sky and saw the word LOVE boldly proclaimed against the bright blue backdrop.

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I did a double take and then smiled and felt the warmth of this message cover my body and mind.  This unexpected reminder in the sky connected to my readings of Crossan examining a significant question - Is God violent?  Do we believe in a God of non-violence or a God that uses violence?  There certainly is a lot of violence in the Bible, including the New Testament book of Revelation which describes the rapture, the second coming of Christ, and a new heaven and earth.  Religion has been the basis of many of our wars and violent acts in our world.  Is God behind all of this violence?  Or is God in the word LOVE and seeks for all of us to embrace non-violence as our way of life?  This is a difficult path as violence is embedded in our civilization.  But Jesus calls us to this radical life and says numerous times to us that we need to create a new Kingdom here on this earth.  Jesus describes this new Kingdom as one of love, justice through peace and non-violence. He sacrificed his life for this principle.   It is the basis for our Christian religion.  And yet it seems to have become twisted and intertwined with the violence in our culture.  I believe Jesus continues to call us today to seek this path of non-violence (that doesn’t mean we don’t resist inequities and injustice) and become participants in taking the word LOVE out of the sky and living it out each and every day.


Joys & Concerns


Thank you to the Thornburg family for sharing with us last Sunday their adventures in Belize. It was because of your support they were able to go and make a difference! 


Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities


Remember, Daylight Saving Time begins this Sunday, March 11th at 2:00 am!! This means that we “spring forward” in time as we anticipate the wonderful weather to come with it. Don’t forget to set your clocks forward!

 

Eco Film ~ The next Eco-film showing will be Clean Disruption: Energy and Transportation, held this Friday, March 9th at 7:00-8:00pm at Epworth United Methodist Church, 6450 Allisonville Rd. Clean Disruption: Energy and Transportation features an award-winning presentation by Tony Seba, professor at Stanford University. Dr. Seba presents an amazing and hopeful analysis of new developments in energy and transportation that will revolutionize energy and transportation in the very near future.  He explains why a 10x exponential development of renewable energy will nearly eliminate the use of fossil fuels within a decade. Often our environmental films focus on problems. No doubt it is controversial as the author makes some very bold predictions.  We’ll have a short discussion afterward. Also keep an eye out for more information on the April showing, which will be held here at First Friends!

 

Rise Up Singing! ~ The Sing Along will happen again this Friday, March 9 at 7:00 in the parlor. We are using Rise Up Singing and Rise Again. Lyrics for all the songs from Rise Again are on YouTube and many from the older book are also available. If you don’t want to buy the books, charge your electronics and come ahead. You may email song requests and/or book orders to the office@indyfriends.org. We have an order already for two books, so if three more books are ordered there is a 20% discount on all. The larger size is $29.00, plus shipping. Slightly lower for smaller size. Dan and Beth H, founders of Indy Folk Series, will again be joining Jim K. Three guitars and lots of song and laughter along with the singing. Ends around 8:30. Our voices were tired by 9:00. 

 

Babysitting Co-Op ~ Our babysitting co-op is happening this Saturday March 10th from 5:30 - 9:30, hosted by Jeff & Beth S. Dinner will be provided for the kids. Please contact the office (office@indyfriends.org) if you would like to have your kids join in the fun that evening!

 

RESCHEDULED Family Bowling ~ We have rescheduled bowling for this Sunday, March 11th at noon. Because of the change, please RSVP again and let us know if you are able to attend on this new date. We hope you will join us for this bowling party hosted by the Christian Education Committee at Woodland Bowl, 3421 E 96th St. First Friends will provide 2 games, shoe rental, pizza and drinks for everyone. Please RSVP with the office at office@indyfriends.org.

 

Threshing at the Tap: (def.) a gathering of men who mull over current issues or topics, where all points of view are heard, no decisions are made, and beverages are enjoyed. Threshing at the Tap will take place every third Thursday, 7pm at various breweries in greater Indianapolis. This month it will be Thursday March 15 at 7pm at Metazoa Brewing, 140 S College Ave, Indianapolis.

 

Women at the Well – Discussion for Women ~ For several months now, the women of First Friends have been asking for their own Threshing at the Tap. We are proud to introduce Women at the Well -a gathering of women who ponder current issues and topics, where differing views are discussed, no decisions are made, and food and drinks are enjoyed. It will take place every fourth Thursday, and our next gathering will be on Thursday, March 22, 7pm, at Flatwater (832 E Westfield Blvd, Indianapolis). Join other women of First Friends and enjoy a wonderful night of conversation together.  

 

Celebrating Women~ This week on Thursday, March 8th we celebrate International Women’s Day.  Last Sunday we started the celebration as we deemed it, International Women’s Sunday. After a challenging morning dedicated to the plight of women in our world, Linda L referenced a poem by Allyson Horton during waiting worship in the manner of Friends.  Linda received permission for us to reprint this poem in celebration of women. 

Understanding Eve by Allyson Horton (from her book Quick Fire)

I mean—to put it all on Satan might be a little unfair. Considering the fact that a woman has her own mind. Her own set of ribs. Her own eyes for examining both sides of a fig leaf. Nose for sensing fire in a single drop of rain. Her own lips for speaking when asked for directions. Brain for deciding left or right. A body bearing its own garden of lush fruits. And besides His, her own breath coursing through each flared nostril. And cravings scratching at the surface of her earth brown rainbow skin. Own teeth perfect for chewing the fat with a serpent. Her own seeds planted in hidden places. Her own dark voices, caprices, coiling inside. Her own solutions to curing mass ignorance, climate change, pre-inflation theories, and doubling the learning capacity of children. Her own reasons for not eating the waxed skin of an apple. And, wouldn't you say, her own ideas on how to get to the core.

Allyson Horton is a native of Marion County. She is also a graduate of Indiana University, and she received her MFA in Creative Writing from Butler University. Her poetry will be featured in the upcoming anthology It Was Written: Poetry Inspired By Hip Hop (Minor Arcana Press). She currently works and resides in her hometown of Indianapolis where she teaches at Butler University as well as within the Indianapolis Public Schools system. 

 

The Absurd Cross: Escaping the Tyranny of Certainty & Satisfaction ~ See Peter Rollins and GraceUnlimited at Christian Theological Seminary (1000 West 42nd Street) on Saturday, March 24, 7:30 PM – 9:30 PM. Even in the midst of our daily routines, we can be painfully aware that our world is precarious. At any moment we might be undone by the feeling that this world is absurd. In response, we shore up all manner of religious defenses that promise to keep the void at bay. In contrast, Peter Rollins argues that there is a religionless heart to Christianity that overturns the tables of meaning, clears out the temples of tidy answers and drives out the sellers of certainty. Here the supposed “good news” that we can be all that we can be, is exposed as bad news. In its place we will hear a gospel with the incendiary ability to break down our defenses against the abyss, so that we might confront it face to face. Join Peter Rollins and GraceUnlimited as they sensitize themselves to the scandal of this gospel message—a message that promises personal and political transformation only when we embrace a life beyond meaning, beyond certainty and beyond satisfaction, a life freed from the frenetic pursuit of wholeness, and from all the demons hidden along that path. For more information and to purchase tickets, visit https://goo.gl/MvxTN1.

 

Help a Nurse Practitioner ~ Janice H is a First Friends attender working at Hawthorne Community Center and is trying to help a lovely Chinese-American client named Sophie find a primary care physician office or similar setting for her family nurse practitioner preceptorship.  This is her capstone practicum and she has lots of prior clinical experience and has worked the last seven years in out-patient surgery at IU Health.  She has a BSN from Purdue.  The doctor who has supervised her prior clinicals is on maternity leave.  Her university (Chamberlain) leaves it up to the student to arrange her practicum and her employer has not provided any leads that were fruitful.  The requirements of the supervisor are minimal:  1) a 5 min. online evaluation of the student at four weeks and end of practicum (eight weeks).  2) Completion of 125 clinical experience with primary care patients preferably between April 30 and June 20, 2018.  Preceptor can be an MD, NP, or PA.  If you can help or even provide a referral to someone who might be willing to help, please contact the office at office@indyfriends.org.

 

Spring Cleaning in the Woods:  Put on your work gloves and join us in the Woods on March 31, 2018 @ 9 AM!  We will freshen up the Woods for Spring! One team will cut back the switch grass, others will weed around the fountain area and others will pull out some more of that darn invasive honeysuckle.  Our Woods is becoming a haven for local and migrating birds. (See Brad J's birding observations).  Come enjoy the fellowship of working with others to care for creation. If you have questions: email the office at office@indyfriends.org. Our next Woods work day will by May 19th, so mark your calendars!

 

AVP Annual National Gathering ~ All are invited to join the Alternatives to Violence Project (AVP) annual conference held this year at Earlham College in Richmond. It will be on Memorial Day weekend, May 25-28. If you’re interested in registering, please visit https://www.regonline.com/builder/site/Default.aspx?EventID=2022849. In an attempt to bring their work to high school students, AVP is also trying to raise funds to help send some of their students to the conference as well. They have included in the program a youth panel discussion which their students will participate with youth from AVP programs in New Jersey and New York. They have invited the Peace Learning Center to be a part of this as well. This is an exciting opportunity for the students. It costs $100 to send one high school student to the entire weekend conference where they will have the opportunity to meet and learn from experienced AVP facilitators from across the country. If you’re interested in donating, please visit https://avpindiana.org/.

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Friend to Friend February 28, 2018

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This past Sunday, we ended our Meeting for Worship by sharing three words with each other – I need you.  So simple, yet so profound. Margret J. Wheatley points out our need for each other in the welcome to her book Turning to One Another where she writes,

“We have never wanted to be alone. But today, we are alone. We are more fragmented and isolated from one another than ever before. Archbishop Desmond Tutu describes it as ‘a radical brokenness in all of existence.’”

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Bottom – Threshing at the Tap

To acknowledge and vocalize our need is only the beginning. Coming together and talking with each other is key for us to “weave a fabric of care” and meet each other’s needs as God intended. At First Friends we are creating a plethora of opportunities (small groups, connection dinners, book studies, gatherings at local eateries and coffee shops, etc.) for us to stop ignoring one another, stop fearing people that are different than us or have differing views, and to discover what just may be at our depths – a need for each other.    

This isn’t easy and it definitely takes time – what my friends and authors John Pattison and Chris Smith label “Slow Church.” Too often we misunderstand “church” for a structure rather than the interaction of the people.  And as Quakers we understand what it means to be “slow” especially in our processes.  Conversations take time, listening takes time, action takes time, and dreaming takes time – thus I believe First Friends is part of a “slow church” movement.

Maybe it’s time we put our smart phones down, turned off our TVs, and found some time in our schedules to get to know each other again. We need to reclaim what I like to call Togethering – where conversations, relationships, and imaginations can be rekindled for the good of our world and the benefit of our souls. Margret Wheatley says what we are doing is learning “how to work and live together in ways that bring us back to life.”

Will you join First Friends in some Togethering? Find a place or a person to connect with and let it bring you back to life!

Grace and peace,

Bob
 


Joys & Concerns

Many thanks to our Food pantry volunteers last week: Ray G, Phil K, Bill and Kathy F, Rik and Linda L, Beth S, and Jim D. 65 families were served. Thank you for your service!


Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities


AVP Workshop ~ Please note that the AVP workshop scheduled at First Friends this weekend is being postponed. Be on the lookout for additional information on the rescheduled workshop in a few months!

 

Come See the Thornburgs! This Sunday, March 4th, the Thornburgs will be showing photos and sharing about their mission trip to Belize last year. As you might recall,the family felt led by God to go to Belize and help with the facility renovation and provide other assistance to the Friends school. Thanks to your generosity, their Belize leading was made into a reality.  Come visit them in Fellowship Hall after worship!

 

Monthly Yoga will be this Sunday March 4th at 11:30 in the basement, led by Kristyn G. Several varieties of yoga practice will be explored, such as yin yoga, vinyasa yoga, and restorative yoga.  The class is open to all levels and members of the class will help determine the content of the practice.
 

Are you subscribed to Western Work?  Did you know that Western Yearly Meeting has their own newsletter? It’s called Western Work and it comes out several times a year. They have information about the happenings at other Meetings, event photos, reports, announcements, and upcoming events. The February/March issue is available now—and Pastor Bob’s writing is featured! You can find a copy on the bulletin board at the Meetinghouse or view it online here: https://goo.gl/nYci5P. If you’re interested in subscribing, visit https://www.westernyearlymeeting.org/newsletter/ to sign up!

 

Meditational Woods Bird of the Month ~ Longtime friend and recently retired teacher from Fishers High School, Brad J has been spending time in our meditational woods.   We ran into him this week with his binoculars and camera.  He is identifying all of the birds that come into our meditational woods and we will highlight what he finds each month. We are thankful to Brad for connecting us to our birds and to creation through the blessing of our beautiful nature site.

This is one of the smallest birds of our woods. The male, however, has a very loud song; its “Tea-kettle, tea-kettle, tea-kettle” can be heard from far away. One of the wren’s calls is a descending, “dee-dih-durp”, and it scolds with a “zhur-zhur-zhur,” especially when a predator (or human) gets too close.

You will recognize it by its reddish-brown back and cap, and golden-tan below, with a white eyestripe. The short, stubby tail may be held downwards, straight back, or upright. Males and females are identical.

This wren prefers brush piles, downed limbs, tree stumps, and low branches. Look for it especially in the far northeast corner of the Meditational Woods.

See the bulletin board for the birds seen in February.

                                                                Brad Jackson


 

Stamps for RSWR ~ Those interested in sorting stamps for Right Sharing of World Resources, please come to the parlor at 1 o’clock on Monday, March 5. The Monday Meditational Worship group will be eating their sack lunches and (for those who so desire) having their first stamp sorting party. We will sort for 60 to 90 minutes. The group plans to sort the first Monday of each month. For those who can’t make it on Monday, there will be opportunities at other times. If you think you might come on Monday, please let Amy know so she can prepare accordingly. If you have questions or would like to help, please contact the office at office@indyfriends.org 

 

Indiana Daylily & Iris Society, featuring Leslie Bishop from Earlham~ The Indiana Daylily & Iris Society is starting up for the year! They hold their meetings on the first Tuesday of the month here at First Friends, and the public is welcome! Their first meeting of the year will be on Tuesday, March 6 at 6:30 in the Parlor. Their guest speaker is Leslie Bishop. Her presentation, “Spectacular-not Spooky, the World of Spiders” will introduce us to the fascinating world of spiders and their vital role in nature. She will focus on the interesting diversity and unique life styles of spiders that live right here in Indiana. Leslie is a retired professor of biology from Earlham College, where she taught for over twenty years. Since retirement, she has taught Wildlife Ecology in Tanzania, and has been a Fulbright Scholar teaching in Dominica. Her current interest is to raise awareness about the conservation of biodiversity, and to encourage people to learn about the natural world. For more information, visit http://www.indianadaylilyirissociety.org/

 

Eco Film ~ The next Eco-film showing will be Clean Disruption: Energy and Transportation, held on Friday, March 9th at 7:00-8:00pm at Epworth United Methodist Church, 6450 Allisonville Rd. Clean Disruption: Energy and Transportation features an award-winning presentation by Tony Seba, professor at Stanford University. Dr. Seba presents an amazing and hopeful analysis of new developments in energy and transportation that will revolutionize energy and transportation in the very near future.  He explains why a 10x exponential development of renewable energy will nearly eliminate the use of fossil fuels within a decade. Often our environmental films focus on problems. No doubt it is controversial as the author makes some very bold predictions.  We’ll have a short discussion afterward.

Also keep an eye out for more information on the April showing, which will be held here at First Friends!

 

Rise Up Singing! ~ The Sing Along will happen again on Friday, March 9, the second Friday of the month, at 7:00 in the parlor. We are using Rise Up Singing and Rise Again. Lyrics for all the songs from Rise Again are on You Tube and many from the older book are also available. If you don’t want to buy the books, charge your electronics and come ahead. You may email song requests and/or book orders to the office at office@indyfriends.org. We have an order already for two books, so if three more books are ordered there is a 20% discount on all. The larger size is $29.00, plus shipping. Slightly lower for smaller size. Dan and Beth H, founders of Indy Folk Series, will again be joining Jim K. Three guitars and lots of song and laughter along with the singing. Ends around 8:30. Our voices were tired by 9:00. 

 

Babysitting Co-Op ~ Our babysitting co-op is happening on Saturday March 10th from 5:30 - 9:30, hosted by Jeff & Beth S. Dinner will be provided for the kids. Please contact the office at office@indyfriends.org if you would like to have your kids join in the fun that evening!

 

RESCHEDULED Family Bowling ~ We have rescheduled bowling for Sunday, March 11th at noon. Because of the change, please RSVP again and let us know if you are able to attend on this new date. We hope you will join us for this bowling party hosted by the Christian Education Committee at Woodland Bowl, 3421 E 96th St. First Friends will provide 2 games, shoe rental, pizza and drinks for everyone. Please RSVP with the office at office@indyfriends.org.

 

The Absurd Cross: Escaping the Tyranny of Certainty & Satisfaction ~ See Peter Rollins and GraceUnlimited at Christian Theological Seminary (1000 West 42nd Street) on Saturday, March 24, 7:30 PM – 9:30 PM. Even in the midst of our daily routines, we can be painfully aware that our world is precarious. At any moment we might be undone by the feeling that this world is absurd. In response, we shore up all manner of religious defenses that promise to keep the void at bay. In contrast, Peter Rollins argues that there is a religionless heart to Christianity that overturns the tables of meaning, clears out the temples of tidy answers and drives out the sellers of certainty. Here the supposed “good news” that we can be all that we can be, is exposed as bad news. In its place we will hear a gospel with the incendiary ability to break down our defenses against the abyss, so that we might confront it face to face. Join Peter Rollins and GraceUnlimited as they sensitize themselves to the scandal of this gospel message—a message that promises personal and political transformation only when we embrace a life beyond meaning, beyond certainty and beyond satisfaction, a life freed from the frenetic pursuit of wholeness, and from all the demons hidden along that path. For more information and to purchase tickets, visit https://goo.gl/MvxTN1.

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Friend to Friend February 21, 2018

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My heart was broken last week to hear of the senseless deaths of 17 students and teachers from Marjory Stoneland Douglas High School in Parkland Florida.  I feel so many emotions to this tragedy. Pain, sorrow, regret for those families experiencing the horrible death of their children, anger and outrage.  How can we as a society not address and do something about this issue of a public shooting in a school setting that impacts our children?   And that this is a regular occurrence.

I am praying for these families but feel disgust that our leaders offer thoughts and prayers and yet offer nothing to our society that will positively impact this dilemma.

I sat with our young people last Sunday and our junior and senior high kids feel fear.   They believe it is possible to have a school shooting in their schools.  When I was growing up, we used to have air raid drills because of our fear of the Russians.  Today we have active shooter drills so our kids know what to do in this situation.  I heard that half of Carmel High School students did not attend class last Friday because of a series of events and threats and their absences were excused due to mass hysteria.  Really?  We are the trusted stewards of our young people and we are failing them.

We need to embrace a policy of yes/and.  There is no one answer that will solve this problem.  We need gun safety restrictions and reject the idea that limiting certain guns is some kind of rejection of the 2nd amendment.  We need real, affordable access to mental health services for our citizens.  We need to secure our schools.  We need to have a significant background check for obtaining a gun. 

I have felt such anger during these last few days.  But I also have felt hope with the number of young people that have come forward. I heard an amazing interview with a young man from the school that passionately advocated for gun safety.  We can dismiss this passion as idealistic, but it was this kind of passion from young people that helped change the dynamic of our views of the Vietnam War during the 1960’s and 1970’s.  I have been praying for our students, our families, our legislators and government and I refuse to give up hope and faith that we will come together to make changes that will positively impact this critical public safety issue.

Beth


Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities


Threshing at the Tap: (def.) a gathering of men who mull over current issues or topics, where all points of view are heard, no decisions are made, and beverages are enjoyed.

PLEASE NOTE we are changing the date in February so as not to conflict with Community Soup & the FCNL priorities discussion. It will be held Thursday night, February 22nd at 7pm at Taxman Brewing, 29 S Main St, Fortville, IN 46040. We hope to see you there!

 

Women at the Well – Discussion for Women ~ For several months now, the women of First Friends have been asking for their own Threshing at the Tap. We are proud to introduce Women at the Well -a gathering of women who ponder current issues and topics, where differing views are discussed, no decisions are made, and food and drinks are enjoyed. Our first gathering will be on Thursday, February 22, 7pm, at Matt the Miller’s Tavern (11 City Center Dr. Carmel, IN 46032). Join other women of First Friends and enjoy a wonderful night of conversation together.  

 

Monthly Yoga (not to be confused with weekly Gentle Yoga on Fridays) will be this Sunday February 25th at 11:30 in the basement, led by Kristyn G. This is to make up for the missed yoga session on February 4th due to illness. Several varieties of yoga practice will be explored, such as yin yoga, vinyasa yoga, and restorative yoga.  The class is open to all levels and members of the class will help determine the content of the practice.

 

The Earlham College Group “Students for Justice in Palestine” has developed a resolution asking that the college divest all investments in businesses that operate in the Occupied West Bank. The students are holding a rally. The rally is taking a place this Friday, the 23rd of February. They will start at 3:30, and finish by 5. They will have posters, music, copies of the resolution, and a petition for people to sign up. Any in support of this cause are welcomed to join. Feel free to share this with your networks of Earlham Alumni to ensure we encourage any visitors from Richmond and the broader community show up for the rally. 



Free Choir Performance ~ If you have been present for the Sunday in December when our Shawn P's Hamilton Southeastern choir performs at First Friends, you know how talented they are. The entire choir program of Hamilton Southeastern High School performs a concert at St. Luke's United Methodist Church on Friday, February 23rd at 7pm.  They perform primarily classical, gospel and folk style music.  The concert is FREE, but they do take a good will offering as the purpose of the concert is to raise money for a scholarship fund. The church is located at 100 W. 86th St.; doors open at 6:30. We will see you there!
 

 

Oak Leaf: Meeting for Reading:  The Warmth of Other Suns by Isabel Wilkerson book discussion will be held Tuesday, February 27th at 7pm in the Parlor. Wilkerson was interviewed by Krista Tippett for On Being on NPR recently (https://onbeing.org/programs/isabel-wilkerson-the-heart-is-the-last-frontier-jan2018/). She was also interviewed by Terry Gross for Fresh Air in 2010 when the book was first published (https://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=129827444). Everyone is welcome.  If you're interested in reading ahead for next month, the March 27th title is: Turtles All the Way Down by John Green.


 

AVP (Alternatives to Violence Project) Indiana is planning a Basic Workshop to be held here at First Friends! It will be on Saturday March 3rd from 8:30am to 8:00pm and Sunda arch 4th, from :30am to 7:00p. Lunch and dinner will be provided. They use a sliding fee scale to cover food and expenses of the workshop: $10 to $40, depending on your financial means. No one will be turned away for lack of funds. AVP seeks to help those interested in learning new and creative ways to respond to conflict in personal relationships and groups. The workshops use the shared experience of participants, interactive exercises, games and role-plays to examine the ways in which we respond to situations where injustice, prejudice, frustrations and anger can lead to aggressive behavior and violence. The training is highly experiential and fun, with participants choosing many of the ways in which the exercises and skill-learning occurs. For more information and to register, visit their website at www.avpindiana.org/registration. They are also looking for volunteers to host out-of-town facilitators and help with food. If you are interested in volunteering, please contact the office at office@indyfriends.org or at (317) 255-2485. Thank you.

 

Stamps for RSWR ~ First Friends is now entrusted with a stamp program that benefits Right Sharing of World Resources. RSWR funds micro-enterprise projects with marginalized women in Sierra Leone, Kenya, and southern India. The women then start their own businesses, thus becoming more independent, newly able to send their children to school, and contributors to the local economy. The women repay the loans and the money stays in the country. Beth Henricks serves on the RSWR board, which met at our Meeting last spring. Amy Perry is coordinating the transition of this program from Earl Walker, a California Quaker, to our Meeting. 

Here's how it works: people send us used stamps, which we sort and send to collectors, who purchase them and send the sale price to Right Sharing of World Resources. 

A backlog exists of many boxes of stamps. We need a pilot team of at least five people: 1) data entry person(s) to input donor contact information into a spreadsheet; 2) a mailer who will weigh the packages and affix postage at the First Friends office; and 3) as many sorters as possible. Sorting criteria are very simple--there are about five types of stamps. Data entry and sorting can be done anywhere and on your own schedule. Mailing will take a maximum of 1 hour a week. Sorting also will take place the first Monday of the month at 1 pm Mondays, after Meditational Worship. 

Contact the office at office@indyfriends.org with questions or to volunteer to help. The first five people to volunteer to help will receive a mint (never-used) 3-cent stamp promoting peace: https://www.ebay.com/itm/Scott-1085-Childrens-Stamp-Friendship-Key-to-Peace-MNH-3c-1956

You may volunteer for the pilot team or to help one time.

The only collectible RSWR currently is accepting is stamps. However, First Friends is helping to sell donations of other collectibles made before this restriction went into effect. If you collect used or unused US and foreign postcards and/or old-fashioned postcard-size greeting cards, or if you know of a collector who buys these collectibles, please contact Amy Perry. 

 

Eco Film ~ The next Eco-film showing will be Clean Disruption: Energy and Transportation, held on Friday, March 9th at 7:00-8:00pm at Epworth United Methodist Church, 6450 Allisonville Rd. Clean Disruption: Energy and Transportation features an award-winning presentation by Tony Seba, professor at Stanford University. Dr. Seba presents an amazing and hopeful analysis of new developments in energy and transportation that will revolutionize energy and transportation in the very near future.  He explains why a 10x exponential development of renewable energy will nearly eliminate the use of fossil fuels within a decade. Often our environmental films focus on problems. No doubt it is controversial as the author makes some very bold predictions.  We’ll have a short discussion afterward.

Also keep an eye out for more information on the April showing, which will be held here at First Friends!

 

Rise Up Singing! ~ The Sing Along will happen again on Friday, March 9, the second Friday of the month, at 7:00 in the parlor. We are using Rise Up Singing and Rise Again. Lyrics for all the songs from Rise Again are on You Tube and many from the older book are also available. If you don’t want to buy the books, charge your electronics and come ahead. You may email song requests and/or book orders to office@indyfriends.org. We have an order already for two books, so if three more books are ordered there is a 20% discount on all. The larger size is $29.00, plus shipping. Slightly lower for smaller size. Dan and Beth H, founders of Indy Folk Series, will again be joining Jim K. Three guitars and lots of song and laughter along with the singing. Ends around 8:30. Our voices were tired by 9:00. 

 

Babysitting Co-Op ~ Our babysitting co-op is happening on Saturday March 10th from 5:30 - 9:30, hosted by Jeff & Beth S. Dinner will be provided for the kids. Please contact Beth (beth.henricks@indyfriends.org) if you would like to have your kids join in the fun that evening!

 

RESCHEDULED Family Bowling ~ Due to the icy conditions, both Meeting for Worship and bowling were cancelled last week. We are rescheduling bowling for Sunday, March 11th at noon. Because of the change, please RSVP again and let us know if you are able to attend on this new date. We hope you will join us for this bowling party hosted by the Christian Education Committee at Woodland Bowl, 3421 E 96th St. First Friends will provide 2 games, shoe rental, pizza and drinks for everyone. Please RSVP with the office at office@indyfriends.org.

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Friend to Friend Feburary 14, 2018

As Way Opens

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Not long after I arrived at First Friends this past July, our country suffered several atrocities. These horrors grabbed our attention and demanded our Quaker response. One of the ways First Friends responded was through our Labor of Love event partnering with American Friends Service Committee of Indiana. It was a peaceful gathering of neighbors and Friends in our Meditational Woods where we expressed our desire for peace, equality, unity and love.

Near the time of this event my wife, Sue, felt led to take action by joining the planning committee for American Friends Service Committee of Indiana. Sue and I have committed time and energy to the work of AFSC Indiana. Their work has made us not only more aware of what is going on locally in Indianapolis and in our nation, but also on the global scene.  

One thing we have realized is the difficulty Americans have in appropriately responding to the atrocities happening in other countries. A great example of this is the Palestinian Territory of Gaza. For over a decade, the 2 million Palestinians in Gaza have lived under a brutal Israeli-imposed blockade. The impact has been devastating, so much so that the United Nations has said that Gaza could become uninhabitable by 2020 (www.afsc.org).

Gaza is one of the focus areas of AFSC Indiana. A major event has been planned for April 21 at the Central Library in Indianapolis called Gaza Unlocked: Hearing in the Heartland (be watching for details). To prepare us and begin taking action, we are asking you to join us TODAY in a social media day of love for Gaza! To join us in this action of love:

·         Download the Valentine to Gaza here: http://gazaunlocked.org/content/send-love-gaza

·         Print the sign and take a picture of yourself holding it.

·         Share the photo online using the hashtags #ValentineToGaza and #GazaUnlocked.

We know that Valentine’s Day is celebrated in Gaza as it is in our own country – by expressing love to one another through small gifts, flowers, cards, and thoughtful expressions. Your posts TODAY on Facebook, Twitter, Instagram, and other social media will be seen by Palestinians in Gaza. The hope is that our messages of love will help lift the spirits of those who daily suffer the indignities of life under military occupation and blockade. To learn more about AFSC’s work in Gaza, click here: http://gazaunlocked.org/

Let’s make this our next “labor of love!” Happy Valentines to you and those in Gaza!

Grace and peace,
Bob


Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

 

Community Soup & FCNL Priorities ~ Witness & Service will host the next Community Soup tomorrow, Thursday February 15 from 5:30 pm – 7 pm. Everyone is invited to this very informal dinner. If you’d like, you’re welcome to bring a soup but not necessary.  During dinner, starting at 6:30, anyone is invited to join us for our FCNL priority setting. This dialog takes place every two years, to discuss what legislative priorities we would like for Friends Committee on National Legislation to focus on during the next Congress. FCNL seeks the input from all Quaker Meetings and Churches to compile its list of priorities to work on with Congress. We welcome your input and encourage you to join us for soup, discussion, or both!

 

Threshing at the Tap: (def.) a gathering of men who mull over current issues or topics, where all points of view are heard, no decisions are made, and beverages are enjoyed.

PLEASE NOTE we are changing the date in February so as not to conflict with Community Soup & the FCNL priorities discussion. It will be held Thursday night, February 22nd at 7pm at Taxman Brewing, 29 S Main St, Fortville, IN 46040. We hope to see you there!

 

Free Choir Performance ~ If you have been present for the Sunday in December when our Shawn P's Hamilton Southeastern choir performs at First Friends, you know how talented they are. The entire choir program of Hamilton Southeastern High School performs a concert at St. Luke's United Methodist Church on Friday, February 23rd at 7pm.  They perform primarily classical, gospel and folk style music.  The concert is FREE, but they do take a good will offering as the purpose of the concert is to raise money for a scholarship fund. The church is located at 100 W. 86th St.; doors open at 6:30. We will see you there!

 

AVP (Alternatives to Violence Project) Indiana is planning a Basic Workshop to be held here at First Friends! It will be on Saturday March 3rd from 8:30am to 8:00pm and Sunda arch 4th, from :30am to 7:00p. Lunch and dinner will be provided. They use a sliding fee scale to cover food and expenses of the workshop: $10 to $40, depending on your financial means. No one will be turned away for lack of funds. AVP seeks to help those interested in learning new and creative ways to respond to conflict in personal relationships and groups. The workshops use the shared experience of participants, interactive exercises, games and role-plays to examine the ways in which we respond to situations where injustice, prejudice, frustrations and anger can lead to aggressive behavior and violence. The training is highly experiential and fun, with participants choosing many of the ways in which the exercises and skill-learning occurs. For more information and to register, visit their website at www.avpindiana.org/registration. They are also looking for volunteers to host out-of-town facilitators and help with food. If you are interested in volunteering, please contact the office at office@indyfriends.org or at (317) 255-2485. Thank you.

 

Stamps for RSWR ~ First Friends is now entrusted with a stamp program that benefits Right Sharing of World Resources. RSWR funds micro-enterprise projects with marginalized women in Sierra Leone, Kenya, and southern India. The women then start their own businesses, thus becoming more independent, newly able to send their children to school, and contributors to the local economy. The women repay the loans and the money stays in the country. Beth Henricks serves on the RSWR board, which met at our Meeting last spring. Amy P is coordinating the transition of this program from Earl Walker, a California Quaker, to our Meeting. 

Here's how it works: people send us used stamps, which we sort and send to collectors, who purchase them and send the sale price to Right Sharing of World Resources. 

A backlog exists of many boxes of stamps. We need a pilot team of at least five people: 1) data entry person(s) to input donor contact information into a spreadsheet; 2) a mailer who will weigh the packages and affix postage at the First Friends office; and 3) as many sorters as possible. Sorting criteria are very simple--there are about five types of stamps. Data entry and sorting can be done anywhere and on your own schedule. Mailing will take a maximum of 1 hour a week. Sorting also will take place the first Monday of the month at 1 pm Mondays, after Meditational Worship. 

Contact the office at office@indyfriends.org or 317-255-2485 with questions or to volunteer to help. The first five people to volunteer to help will receive a mint (never-used) 3-cent stamp promoting peace: https://www.ebay.com/itm/Scott-1085-Childrens-Stamp-Friendship-Key-to-Peace-MNH-3c-1956

You may volunteer for the pilot team or to help one time.

The only collectible RSWR currently is accepting is stamps. However, First Friends is helping to sell donations of other collectibles made before this restriction went into effect. If you collect used or unused US and foreign postcards and/or old-fashioned postcard-size greeting cards, or if you know of a collector who buys these collectibles, please contact the office. 

 

Eco Film ~ The next Eco-film showing will be Clean Disruption: Energy and Transportation, held on Friday, March 9th at 7:00pm at Epworth United Methodist Church, 6450 Allisonville Rd. Clean Disruption: Energy and Transportation features an award-winning presentation by Tony Seba, professor at Stanford University. Dr. Seba presents an amazing and hopeful analysis of new developments in energy and transportation that will revolutionize energy and transportation in the very near future.  He explains why a 10x exponential development of renewable energy will nearly eliminate the use of fossil fuels within a decade.

Also keep an eye out for more information on the April showing, which will be held here at First Friends!

 

Rise Up Singing! ~ The Sing Along will happen again on Friday, March 9, the second Friday of the month, at 7:00 in the parlor. We are using Rise Up Singing and Rise Again. Lyrics for all the songs from Rise Again are on You Tube and many from the older book are also available. If you don’t want to buy the books, charge your electronics and come ahead. You may email song requests and/or book orders to the office at office@indyfriends.org. We have an order already for two books, so if three more books are ordered there is a 20% discount on all. The larger size is $29.00, plus shipping. Slightly lower for smaller size. Dan and Beth H, founders of Indy Folk Series, will again be joining Jim K. Three guitars and lots of song and laughter along with the singing. Ends around 8:30. Our voices were tired by 9:00. 

 

RESCHEDULED Family Bowling ~ Due to the icy conditions, both Meeting for Worship and bowling were cancelled last week. We are rescheduling bowling for Sunday, March 11th at noon. Because of the change, please RSVP again and let us know if you are able to attend on this new date. We hope you will join us for this bowling party hosted by the Christian Education Committee at Woodland Bowl, 3421 E 96th St. First Friends will provide 2 games, shoe rental, pizza and drinks for everyone. Please RSVP with the office at office@indyfriends.org.

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Friend to Friend February 7, 2018

As Way Opens

Last week I suffered a severe gash on my right forefinger through a strange series of events.  When this happened, it hurt but the pain was not unbearable.  I actually didn’t know how bad the gash was until I looked down and my finger was bleeding profusely.  I gathered up gauze and applied pressure to stop the bleeding.  For the next half hour, I sat in the chair, taking a peek at the gash and trying to decide if I needed to go to an urgent care facility for a few stitches. I could hardly look at the wound as there was such a large opening on my finger.

I decided to sit tight for the evening and see how things progressed.  The next few hours were pretty amazing to me.  I don’t understand the biology of what occurred, but I could see that the wound was starting the healing process and the gap started to begin to fill.  It was one of the few times in my life that I carefully watched a wound begin to heal and I was in awe of how incredible our bodies are made.  In a strange way, I felt God all evening working through my energy and my body to begin healing.  I realized that I need to pay more attention to the potential ways that God can work in and through me.  And I was reminded of the words from my favorite Psalm 139…."For it was you who formed my inward parts; you knit me together in my mother’s womb, I praise you for I am fearfully and wonderfully made, wonderful are your works; that I know very well".

When I had uterine cancer 14 years ago, I lamented that my body had betrayed me and I was angry.  But through that experience I actually realized how amazing my body was and that it had sent me warning signs of my trouble that I finally paid attention to and took action to go see my doctor.  I wasn’t angry anymore and I realized that the most important healing process through that experience happened internally for me.  My heart and spirit broke open in a new way that allowed me to see and experience God and the world differently.

Beth


Joys & Concerns

We had a great Scout Sunday on February 4th where we honored all current and past scouts. Here are photos of some of our scouts reciting the Girl Scout Promise, Girl Scout Law, Boy Scout Oath, and Boy Scout Law. Everyone standing is a past or present scout or scout leader! Thank you, Scouts!

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Announcements, Reports & Opportunities


Family Bowling ~ Please join us for a bowling party hosted by the Christian Education Committee. It will be this Sunday, February 11th at noon at Woodland Bowl, 3421 E 96th St. First Friends will provide 2 games, shoe rental, pizza and drinks for everyone. Please RSVP with the office at office@indyfriends.org.


Eco Film ~ The first Eco-film showing of the year will be A Plastic Ocean, held this Friday, February 9th at 7:00pm at Cross and Crown Lutheran Church, 5233 E. 79th St. A Plastic Ocean begins when journalist Craig Leeson, searching for the elusive blue whale, discovers plastic waste in what should be pristine ocean. In this adventure documentary, Craig teams up with free diver Tanya Streeter and an international team of scientists and researchers, and they travel to twenty locations around the world over the next four years to explore the fragile state of our oceans, uncover alarming truths about plastic pollution, and reveal working solutions that can be put into immediate effect. 
Also mark your calendars for the next Eco-film showing on March 9 which will be Clean Disruption: Energy and Transportation at Epworth United Methodist Church. Keep an eye out for more information on the April showing, which will be held here at First Friends!


Seasoned Friends Wednesday, February 14~ Join us on Valentine’s Day at 11:30am for Seasoned Friends luncheon and fellowship for all who are retired or of retirement age. Lunch will consist of comfort food with a Valentine’s twist. We will meet in the Parlor and enjoy each other’s company with games and movies. Please contact the office if you’ll be able to join us at office@indyfriends.org or (317) 255-2485. Hope to see you there!


Community Soup & FCNL Priorities ~ Witness & Service will host the next Community Soup Thursday February 15 from 5:30 pm – 7 pm. Everyone is invited to this very informal dinner. If you’d like, you’re welcome to bring a soup but not necessary.  During dinner, starting at 6:30, anyone is invited to join us for our FCNL priority setting. This dialog takes place every two years, to discuss what legislative priorities we would like for Friends Committee on National Legislation to focus on during the next Congress. FCNL seeks the input from all Quaker Meetings and Churches to compile its list of priorities to work on with Congress. We welcome your input and encourage you to join us for soup, discussion, or both!


Threshing at the Tap: (def.) a gathering of men who mull over current issues or topics, where all points of view are heard, no decisions are made, and beverages are enjoyed.
PLEASE NOTE we are changing the date in February so as not to conflict with Community Soup & the FCNL priorities discussion. It will be held Thursday night, February 22nd at 7pm at Taxman Brewing, 29 S Main St, Fortville, IN 46040. We hope to see you there!


AVP (Alternatives to Violence Project) Indiana is planning a Basic Workshop to be held here at First Friends! It will be on Saturday March 3rd from 8:30am to 8:00pm and Sunday March 4th, from 8:30am to 7:00pm. Lunch and dinner will be provided. They use a sliding fee scale to cover food and expenses of the workshop: $10 to $40, depending on your financial means. No one will be turned away for lack of funds. AVP seeks to help those interested in learning new and creative ways to respond to conflict in personal relationships and groups. The workshops use the shared experience of participants, interactive exercises, games and role-plays to examine the ways in which we respond to situations where injustice, prejudice, frustrations and anger can lead to aggressive behavior and violence. The training is highly experiential and fun, with participants choosing many of the ways in which the exercises and skill-learning occurs. For more information and to register, visit their website at www.avpindiana.org/registration. They are also looking for volunteers to host out-of-town facilitators and help with food. If you are interested in volunteering, please contact the office at office@indyfriends.org or at (317) 255-2485. Thank you.


Rise Up Singing! ~ The Sing Along will happen again on Friday, March 9, the second Friday of the month, at 7:00 in the parlor. We are using Rise Up Singing and Rise Again. Lyrics for all the songs from Rise Again are on You Tube and many from the older book are also available. If you don’t want to buy the books, charge your electronics and come ahead. You may email song requests and/or book orders to office@indyfriends.org. We have an order already for two books, so if three more books are ordered there is a 20% discount on all. The larger size is $29.00, plus shipping. Slightly lower for smaller size. Dan and Beth H, founders of Indy Folk Series, will again be joining Jim K. Three guitars and lots of song and laughter along with the singing. Ends around 8:30. Our voices were tired by 9:00.  
 

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Friend to Friend January 31, 2018

As Way Opens

A couple weeks ago, I heard Lidia Yuknavitch speaking on a radio program as I commuted home from the meetinghouse. Not only is Lidia a bestselling author, she is also a TED Talk presenter. Her TED Talk, The Beauty of Being the Misfit has brought her much acclaim. (You can watch the TED talk online here: https://youtu.be/9AgCr2tTvng). Just recently her talk has been expanded into a book titled, The Misfit’s Manifesto. So moved by her interview, I literally stopped my car on the side of the road that day and ordered her book. This week I began to read it devotionally. I am not even halfway through the book, but there has been a recurring thought present in my mind. 

Quakers are the misfits of American religious circles.

In her book, Lidia makes it clear there are many different ways to define being a misfit. She says the definitions usually include, “a person who is different from other people and who does not seem to belong in a particular group or situation...”  You have to admit it, Quakers are a peculiar people - we are different, we don’t always belong. Probably because...

...when others are focused on answers, Quakers are asking queries.

...when others are wanting a quick resolve, Quakers take their time.

...when others want performance, Quakers want to keep it simple.

...when others want to be loud and even boisterous, Quakers get silent and listen.

...when others want rigid rules, Quakers want a fluid faith and practice.

...when others focus on fear tactics, Quakers seek peace and reconciliation.

...and that list could go on. Lidia doesn’t want us to have a pity party about our misfittery - actually she wants us to embrace it. She believes the world needs misfits right now, and to me that means the world need Quakers, too!  It’s clear, that the social script we continue to be given by our American religious culture is not working. The religious labels and framing stories we have been given no longer fit or apply to us. The radical voices that stand for our S.P.I.C.E.S (simplicity, peace, integrity, community, equality, and stewardship) need to be heard again. I sense Lidia’s call to us Quakers in this thought: 

“Misfits transform fear and anger and grief into expression rather than destruction -- we give something of value to the rest of culture rather than succumbing to our own misery, particularly when those around us recognize our value.”  

We don’t have to be a dying religious society in America. Instead, we have the potential to be a transformational group of misfits whose voices have the ability to change our world. Misfits Unite!

Grace and peace,

Bob


Joys & Concerns

Our own David B is part of the annual winter show! This show which is held at the Art Center is focusing on collage, montage and assemblage art this year. David Beatty is featured as a local artist. The exhibit runs from Feb 7th through April 7th with the reception on Friday Feb 9th 6-9PM at the Art Center, 820 E 67th St, Indianapolis, IN 46220. Congratulations, David!


A big THANK YOU to Mark K who spent an afternoon gluing our parlor chairs - some which were in dire need of repair.  We appreciate Mark’s attentiveness and willingness to help.


Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Rise Up Singing CORRECTION~ The Sing Along will happen (weather permitting) on Friday, February 2nd at 7pm in the Parlor (please note the correct date and change of location. We will be having two guitarists this time: Dan H (AKA substitute yoga teacher for Beth H) and the generous Jim K who has already led us several times. If you want to suggest three songs so that Jim can prepare ahead of time and copies can be made if needed. We are using Rise Up Singing and Rise Again as our primary selection guides.

 

Sacred Masterworks ~ The Indianapolis Symphonic Choir Presents Sacred Masterworks on Saturday, February 3 at 7pm at the Schrott Center for the Arts. Dan R and Bill P are both part of this group. Making its return to the Indianapolis Symphonic Choir’s season after more than 20 years, Igor Stravinsky’s setting of the Psalms is paired with texts from the Mass, the Bible, poetry by Walt Whitman and music by Ralph Vaughan Williams. The annual Sacred Masterworks concert series includes the Stravinsky Symphony of Psalms and Vaughan Williams Dona Nobis Pacem in a one-night-only performance. Tickets are on sale now at indychoir.org!
 

Scout Sunday February 4th ~ Current and former Scouts, please submit your information to the office so we can recognize you on February 4th. Please send your name, Scouting Organization, Troop number and Scout rank. Email office@indyfriends.org or call 317-255-2485.

 

Monthly Yoga (not to be confused with weekly Gentle Yoga on Fridays) will be on Sunday February 4th at 11:30 in the basement, led by Kristyn G. Several varieties of yoga practice will be explored, such as yin yoga, vinyasa yoga, and restorative yoga.  The class is open to all levels and members of the class will help determine the content of the practice.

 

Family Bowling ~ Please join us for a bowling party hosted by the Christian Education Committee. It will be Sunday, February 11th at noon at Woodland Bowl, 3421 E 96th St. First Friends will provide 2 games, shoe rental, pizza and drinks for everyone. Please RSVP with the office at office@indyfriends.org.

 

Seasoned Friends Wednesday, February 14~ Join us on Valentine’s Day at 11:30am for Seasoned Friends luncheon and fellowship for all who are retired or of retirement age. Lunch will consist of comfort food with a Valentine’s twist. We will meet in the Parlor and enjoy each other’s company with games and movies. Please contact the office if you’ll be able to join us. Hope to see you there!

 

Community Soup & FCNL Priorities ~ Witness & Service will host the next Community Soup Thursday February 15 from 5:30 pm – 7 pm. Everyone is invited to this very informal dinner. If you’d like, you’re welcome to bring a soup but not necessary.  During dinner, starting at 6:30, anyone is invited to join us for our FCNL priority setting. This dialog takes place every two years, to discuss what legislative priorities we would like for Friends Committee on National Legislation to focus on during the next Congress. FCNL seeks the input from all Quaker Meetings and Churches to compile its list of priorities to work on with Congress. We welcome your input and encourage you to join us for soup, discussion, or both!

 

Threshing at the Tap: (def.) a gathering of men who mull over current issues or topics, where all points of view are heard, no decisions are made, and beverages are enjoyed. PLEASE NOTE we are changing the date in February so as not to conflict with Community Soup & the FCNL priorities discussion. It will be held Thursday night, February 22nd at 7pm at Taxman Brewing, 29 S Main St, Fortville, IN 46040. We hope to see you there!

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Friend to Friend January 24, 2018

As Way Opens

I am still soaking in the experience I had during my two-week intensive class on prayer at Earlham School of Religion.  One of the activities we had to do was create and present our personal Book of Hours.  In a liturgical tradition, the Book of Hours was a devotional book for the common person prevalent during the medieval era.  The books were individually created and included texts, psalms, words and decorations or pictures that personally represented an individual’s Christian devotion and meaning.  The book back then did follow a typical pattern or organization, but in our project we were free to select images and words that had deep and significant meaning for us in our spiritual walk.

My Jerry loved Edward Hopper paintings!  He re-created many Hopper pictures through his photography.  The painting above is one of our favorites.  Hopper was a master at taking light, shadow, color and angles from our ordinary lives and create something extraordinary and mystical. 

I paired this picture with a writing from Richard Rohr from his blogpost in January 2017.  For me, it represents the message this picture is saying and the heart of my spirituality.

“One great idea of the biblical revelation is that God is manifest in the ordinary, in the actual, in the daily, in the now, in the concrete incarnations of life. Our experiences of ordinary life will transform us if we are willing to experience them fully. This is quite different than much of religion’s emphasis on being pure, perfect, or correct to find God. Jesus stands religion on its head! In fact, some historians of religion claim that Jesus proclaimed the end of religion. (Of course, we quickly undid this mistake!)

We see this ‘ordinariness’ reflected in the seemingly laborious and boring books of Joshua, Judges, Kings, Chronicles, Leviticus, and Numbers. We hear in these books about sin and war, adultery and affairs, kings and killings, intrigues and deceit, and the ordinary, wonderful, and sad events of human life.

God’s revelations are through the concrete and specific. Spirituality is not a Platonic world of ideas and theories about which you can be right or wrong. Revelation is not something you measure, but something or “Someone” you meet! This pattern of incarnation reaches its fullness in one small place on the planet, in one short period of history, in one very ordinary man named Jesus.

The biblical revelation is saying that we are already spiritual beings; we just don’t know it yet, and we have to be shocked into it. The Bible tries to let us in on the secret, by revealing God in ordinary human affairs and conflicts. That’s why so much of the text seems so mundane, practical, specific, and frankly unspiritual!

We have created an artificial divide or dualism between the spiritual and the so-called non-spiritual. This dualism is precisely what Jesus came to reveal as a lie. The Incarnation proclaims that matter and spirit have never been separate. Jesus came to tell us that these two seemingly different worlds are “and always have been” one. We couldn’t even imagine it until God put all of this together in one body (see Ephesians 2:11-22), one life (1 John 1:1-2), and one shocking epiphany.”

Friends, I encourage you to think about creating your own Book of Hours over the coming days.  Images, words, Scripture that represent God’s love and Light in your life and your path to finding your purpose in this world.  I would love to see what you might create.

Beth


Joys & Concerns


Many thanks to our Food pantry volunteers: 94 families were served with the help of Rik and Linda L, Susan R, Phil K, Jim K, Christie M, Ray G and Bill and Kathy F. Thank you!

 

Mindy S was recently recognized by Carmel Clay Schools. The School Board recognized the hard work and dedication of staff members as brought to their attention by the Carmel community—and in January Mindy was recognized as one of those exceptional individuals. Congratulations Mindy!

 

Carolyn Tinsley was recently quoted in the Indianapolis Star in a published story  about the girl scouts. If you’d like to read the article, it can be found here: https://www.indystar.com/story/news/2018/01/22/girl-scouts-central-indiana-have-new-leader/1029553001/


Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

 

This Sunday January 28th, we will be selling fairtrade chocolates, coffee, tea, and olive oil to benefit our youth group. A table will be set up in fellowship hall.

 

Calling All Youth (or Anyone)– Volunteer Opportunity! The First Friends youth will be helping at the Mid-North Food Pantry on Sunday, January 28th from 12-2pm. If you or your youth are interested in helping, please contact the office at office@indyfriends.org.

 

Monthly Yoga (not to be confused with weekly Gentle Yoga on Fridays) will be on Sunday January 28th at 11:30 in the basement as well as Sunday February 4th - both practices will be led by Kristyn G. Several varieties of yoga practice will be explored, such as yin yoga, vinyasa yoga, and restorative yoga.  The class is open to all levels and members of the class will help determine the content of the practice.

 

Oak Leaf: Meeting for Reading Gilead by Marilynne Robinson book discussion will be held Tuesday, January 30th at 7 pm in the Parlor. Everyone is welcome.  Kristyn G will be leading the discussion.  If you're interested in reading ahead for next month, the February 27th title is: The Warmth of Other Suns by Isabel Wilkerson

 

Making Connections at First Friends! Are you new to First Friends Meeting? We will be hosting some meals for new attendees and visitors who are looking for some more deepened connection with First Friends. This will be a chance to have some fellowship time in a more intimate setting than what we get after meeting for worship each Sunday. The first one will be on Wednesday, January 31st from 6:00pm – 7:30pm at the home of Mary and David B. A simple vegetarian soup and bread will be provided. If you’d like to come please RSVP to the office at office@indyfriends.org or 317-255-2485. If you’re unable to attend, look for our next meeting within the next few months! This event is hosted by Connections (formerly Membership Growth & Participation).

 

Rise Up Singing CORRECTION~ The Sing Along will happen (weather permitting) on Friday, February 2nd at 7pm in the Parlor (please note the corrected date and change of location. We will be having two guitarists this time: Dan H (AKA substitute yoga teacher for Beth H) and the generous Jim K who has already led us several times. If you want to suggest three songs so that Jim can prepare ahead of time and copies can be made if needed. We are using Rise Up Singing and Rise Again as our primary selection guides.

 

Sacred Masterworks ~ The Indianapolis Symphonic Choir Presents Sacred Masterworks on Saturday, February 3 at 7pm at the Schrott Center for the Arts. Dan R and Bill P are both part of this group. Making its return to the Indianapolis Symphonic Choir’s season after more than 20 years, Igor Stravinsky’s setting of the Psalms is paired with texts from the Mass, the Bible, poetry by Walt Whitman and music by Ralph Vaughan Williams. The annual Sacred Masterworks concert series includes the Stravinsky Symphony of Psalms and Vaughan Williams Dona Nobis Pacem in a one-night-only performance. Tickets are on sale now at indychoir.org!
 


Scout Sunday February 4th ~ Current and former Scouts, please submit your information to the office so we can recognize you on February 12th. Please send your name, Scouting Organization, Troop number and Scout rank. Email office@indyfriends.org or call 317-255-2485.

 

Family Bowling ~ Please join us for a bowling party hosted by the Christian Education Committee. It will be Sunday, February 11th at noon at Woodland Bowl, 3421 E 96th St. First Friends will provide 2 games, shoe rental, pizza and drinks for everyone. Please RSVP with the office at office@indyfriends.org.

 

Seasoned Friends Wednesday, February 14~ Join us on Valentine’s Day at 11:30am for Seasoned Friends luncheon and fellowship for all who are retired or of retirement age. Lunch will consist of comfort food with a Valentine’s twist. We will meet in the Parlor and enjoy each other’s company with games and movies. Please contact the office if you’ll be able to join us. Hope to see you there!

 

Community Soup & FCNL Priorities ~ Witness & Service will host the next Community Soup Thursday February 15 from 5:30 pm – 7 pm. Everyone is invited to this very informal dinner. If you’d like, you’re welcome to bring a soup but not necessary.  During dinner, starting at 6:30, anyone is invited to join us for our FCNL priority setting. This dialog takes place every two years, to discuss what legislative priorities we would like for Friends Committee on National Legislation to focus on during the next Congress. FCNL seeks the input from all Quaker Meetings and Churches to compile its list of priorities to work on with Congress. We welcome your input and encourage you to join us for soup, discussion, or both!

 

Polarized! Jeff Rasley’s most recent book, Polarized! The Case for Civility in the Time of Trump is now available as an audio book. The Case for Civility exposes the causes and effects of hyper-partisanship. It offers a "modest proposal" to treat the symptoms of toxic polarization using social media. An experiment in Facebook based on the values of civility, tolerance, pragmatism, and moderation proves there is a cure. The audiobook is available on Amazon at 

https://www.amazon.com/Polarized-Case-Civility-Time-Trump/dp/B0789QCXQK

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