Friend to Friend January 17, 2018

As Way Opens

I spent the last two weeks at Earlham School of Religion (as I very slowly pursue a masters in divinity) in an intensive class on prayer.  Michael Birkel, a well-known Quaker scholar taught the class and we read and studied and practiced a diverse and enriching experience of prayer.  We read Cynthia Bourgeault on Centering Prayer, Thich Nhat Hanh on The Energy of Prayer, we studied the theology of prayer and reflected on the idea if God needs our prayers to take action, we studied Evagrius Ponticus, the father of contemplative prayer and St Teresa of Avila and her classic book on prayer called Interior Castles.  Every day we spent several hours in prayer and talked about the difference between cataphaphatic prayer (a prayer engaging all of our senses) and apophatic prayer that involves emptying and surrounding ourselves to God. 

I came away from these two weeks with a profound appreciation for how prayer changes me.  As Quakers, we often resist ritual and symbols, but I came to love some of the ritual associated with ancient prayer.  I created a personal prayer book, studied visual icons that are as holy as scripture in some faith traditions and spent time reading scripture through a lectio divina process.  I experienced God in a different way every day and I was changed by this time in prayer.  I realized that God speaks to me in many ways and I need to open myself to the diversity and expanse of God’s voice.  I don’t know how my prayer works with God, but I believe that I am changed by prayer and many in prayer can have an impact on our world. 

I began to understand why the desert Christian mothers and fathers in the third and fourth century lived in a cloistered community.  They were devoted to the practice of prayer because of their desire to draw closer to God’s presence and live in devotion to God’s calling.   I need to spend more time in prayer every day.  A short prayer before a meal or a quick prayer before I fall asleep does not bring me into relationship with God that I desire.  My prayers can occur while I do a yoga practice, listen to music, do chores, write in my journal etc.  God is present in the ordinary and everyday life and my prayers should reflect that reality.

I hope that all of you will consider how your prayer practice changes you.  I encourage you to embrace a variety of prayer methods and spend more time in prayer every day.  May you be open to experience God’s presence in a variety of ways through prayer and then respond to what God is calling you to do.

Beth

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Joys & Concerns

Martin Luther King Jr. Sunday ~ To close our meeting this past Sunday we joined arm and arm around the meetinghouse - standing in solidarity with “The Dream” before singing together the spiritual “Guide My Feet” in honor of Martin Luther King Sunday. May we go out and live that dream in our world!

Congratulations to Nichole M who recently received the Indiana German High School Teacher of the Year award. Nichole is a German teacher at Hamilton Southeastern High School. She was recognized specifically for work on the Giving Voices to Ghosts project among other work. Great work, Nichole!

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Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Coats, Scarves, Hats, Gloves, Mittens ~ Please donate your unwanted warm clothing to meeting for Boner Center to give to those who need them. There is a box on the stage.

Threshing at the Tap: (def.) a gathering of men who mull over current issues or topics, where all points of view are heard, no decisions are made, and beverages are enjoyed.

Threshing at the Tap will take place every third Thursday, 7pm at various breweries in greater Indianapolis. This month it will be tomorrow, January 18 at 7pm at Black Acre Brewing, 5632 E Washington St, Irvington.

Also, Ladies of First Friends, be watching for information about a similar event for you coming by the end of January!

Youth Ice Skating~ Our youth group will go ice skating this Friday evening, January 19th from 7:30 - 9:30 at the Pop Weaver Youth Pavilion at the Indiana State Fairgrounds.  Our youth fund will provide for the skate rental and fees.  Kids only need to bring money for food if they want.  Beth and Ben can leave from the Meeting at 7:00 for anyone that wants to ride with them.  Please let Beth know if your young person will attend.  We should all meet at the entrance at 7:30.

Monthly Yoga (not to be confused with weekly Gentle Yoga on Fridays) will be on Sunday January 28th at 11:30 in the basement as well as Sunday February 4th - both practices will be led by Kristyn G. Several varieties of yoga practice will be explored, such as yin yoga, vinyasa yoga, and restorative yoga.  The class is open to all levels and members of the class will help determine the content of the practice.

Making Connections at First Friends! Are you new to First Friends Meeting? We will be hosting some meals for new attendees and visitors who are looking for some more deepened connection with First Friends. This will be a chance to have some fellowship time in a more intimate setting than what we get after meeting for worship each Sunday. The first one will be on Wednesday, January 31st from 6:00pm – 7:30pm at the home of Mary & David B. If you’d like to come please RSVP to the office at office@indyfriends.org or 317-255-2485. If you’re unable to attend, look for our next meeting within the next few months! This event is hosted by Connections (formerly Membership Growth & Participation).

Rise Up Singing ~ The Sing Along will happen (weather permitting) on Thursday, February 1. Jim K will lead. We will use Rise Up Singing and Rise Again. We always have a good time. It is important to email or phone Linda L if you plan on coming. She and Ed are hosting it at their home. If the group grows too large, we will relocate to our parlor at First Friends.

Family Bowling ~ Please join us for a bowling party hosted by the Christian Education Committee. It will be Sunday, February 11th at noon at Woodland Bowl, 3421 E 96th St. First Friends will provide 2 games, shoe rental, pizza and drinks for everyone. Please RSVP with the office at office@indyfriends.org.

Polarized! Jeff Rasley’s most recent book, Polarized! The Case for Civility in the Time of Trump is now available as an audio book. The Case for Civility exposes the causes and effects of hyper-partisanship. It offers a "modest proposal" to treat the symptoms of toxic polarization using social media. An experiment in Facebook based on the values of civility, tolerance, pragmatism, and moderation proves there is a cure. The audiobook is available on Amazon at 

https://www.amazon.com/Polarized-Case-Civility-Time-Trump/dp/B0789QCXQK

Oak Leaf Book Group 2018 ~ Be sure to mark your calendars for 2018 Oak Leaf Meeting for Reading dates:

January 30 ~ Gilead by Marilynne Robinson

February 27 ~ The Warmth of Other Suns by Isabel Wilkerson

March 27 ~ Turtles All the Way Down by John Green

April 24 ~ A Full Life: Reflections at Ninety by Jimmy Carter

May 29 ~ Truevine by Beth Macy

June 26 ~ In the Garden of Beasts by Erik Larson

July 31 ~ Testimony by Scott Turow

August 28 ~ American Heart by Laura Moriarty

September 25 ~ Sourdough by Robin Sloan

October 30 ~ The Hour of Land by Terry Tempest Williams

November 27 ~ The Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood

The group meets at 7pm in the Parlor. All are invited!

Friend to Friend January 10, 2018

As Way Opens

As we head into Martin Luther King Jr. weekend, we are called to dream. MLK’s acclaimed “I have a dream speech” has always inspired me to think big and hope for more than may currently be available to my senses. Below I have crafted my own “I have dream” speech for First Friends. As you will notice, the lyrics and phraseology resemble MLK’s, but it speaks more specifically to who we are as a unique Quaker meeting. May it inspire you this week.

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Even though we face the difficulties of today and tomorrow, I still have a dream. It is a dream deeply rooted in the Spirit of God. I have a dream that one day soon Quakers will rise up and live out the gospel (good news) without shame, fear, or hesitation. I have a dream that one day people who we have offended, and those who have offended us will be able to sit down together at the table of reconciliation set by our God. I have a dream that one day Indianapolis First Friends will be a place known for freedom and a place of justice for ALL people – no matter their race, culture, gender, sexual orientation, life circumstance, status, or capacity to understand and comprehend God’s mysteries. I have a dream that our children and youth will not be judged on external factors like appearance, special needs, skills, or abilities, and instead be judged by the content of their character.

I have a dream today!

I have a dream that one day as I look out over our meeting gathered I will be able to see women and men, young and old - ALL ministers - each and every one a worshiper of God involved in the work of the ministry, not out of guilt but out of a deep response to their Inner Light and calling. I have a dream of a meeting that is passionate about sharing their faith with those hopeless and broken in our neighborhoods and communities here and abroad. A dream that we would not be fearful, but compassionate, articulate, giving, and loving as we live out the good news through service to our neighbors. I have a dream that we would, each one of us, take seriously God’s call on our lives and spend time in expectant waiting and discernment on what it is we are to do, so that we may be able to love God and love our neighbors to the fullest extent. I have a dream that our meeting would rise up above any struggles or divisions that may present themselves to become a shining light to Indianapolis and to the world. Not for the recognition of our community, nor for the praise of other people, nor for the glory of our yearly meeting, but for the glory of God and God alone!

And on our way to that day, we will be able to join hands and sing the words of the worship anthem:   

"There is no one like our God. Greater things have yet to come and greater things

are still to be done in this city, greater things have yet to come,

and greater things are still to be done here.”

Join me in living the dream this week and as we celebrate Martin Luther King Jr. this Sunday during Meeting for Worship.

Grace and peace,
Bob

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Joys & Concerns

Mid-North Food Pantry ~ 94 families were served at Mid-north food pantry last Wednesday with the assistance of Phil K, Christie Moulton, John and Ileen M, Chelsea, Kendal and Carolyn T, Barb O, Rik L, Bill, Kathy and Beth F and Sylvie and Emerson S. Thank you, all!

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Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Youth group will meet this Sunday at 11:30 in the basement for lunch together and then will separate into senior high youth meeting with Ben W and junior high youth meeting with Michelle and Aaron T.  Our youth activity this month will be ice skating at the Coliseum on the Indiana State Fair grounds on Friday, January 19th at 7:30 p.m.

Coats, Scarves, Hats, Gloves, Mittens ~ Please donate your unwanted warm clothing to meeting for Boner Center to give to those who need them. There is a box on the stage.

We are in need of volunteers next month for the Mid North Food Pantry! ~ Due to the holidays, several of the “regulars” will not be able to volunteer at the food pantry on Wednesday January 17.  If you are in town and available during any of these dates, please consider volunteering. Let the office know if you are interested or have questions. Thank you for your assistance!

Threshing at the Tap - (def.) a gathering of men who mull over current issues or topics, where all points of view are heard, no decisions are made, and beverages are enjoyed.

Threshing at the Tap takes place every third Thursday, 7pm at various breweries in greater Indianapolis. This month it will be on Thursday, January 18 at 7pm at Black Acre Brewing, 5632 E Washington St, Irvington.

Also, Ladies of First Friends, be watching for information about a similar event for you coming by the end of January!

Monthly Yoga (not to be confused with weekly Gentle Yoga on Fridays) will be on Sunday January 28th at 11:30 in the basement as well as Sunday February 4th  - both practices will be led by Kristyn G. Several varieties of yoga practice will be explored, such as yin yoga, vinyasa yoga, and restorative yoga.  The class is open to all levels and members of the class will help determine the content of the practice.

Oak Leaf Book Group 2018 ~ Be sure to mark your calendars for 2018 Oak Leaf Meeting for Reading dates:

January 30 ~ Gilead by Marilynne Robinson

February 27 ~ The Warmth of Other Suns by Isabel Wilkerson

March 27 ~ Turtles All the Way Down by John Green

April 24 ~ A Full Life: Reflections at Ninety by Jimmy Carter

May 29 ~ Truevine by Beth Macy

June 26 ~ In the Garden of Beasts by Erik Larson

July 31 ~ Testimony by Scott Turow

August 28 ~ American Heart by Laura Moriarty

September 25 ~ Sourdough by Robin Sloan

October 30 ~ The Hour of Land by Terry Tempest Williams

November 27 ~ The Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood
 

The group meets at 7pm in the Parlor. All are invited!

Friend to Friend January 3, 2018

As Way Opens

Well, we made it! The crystal ball of light dropped in Times Square amidst frigid temperatures, the clock struck twelve midnight, and in one literal second we transitioned from 2017 to 2018. For the most part, it was the same thing we experience each and every year.  Yet, as I was watching Dick Clark’s Rockin’ New Year’s Eve this year, I noticed something a bit different. You could call it a theme.

It was clear the producers intentionally aimed for a theme of “Unity,” which seemed appropriate with the clearly divided country that 2017 presented us. Everything from Planet Fitness honoring two actresses who modeled non-judgmental, inclusive, and accepting attributes with “Be Free” awards, to host Jenny McCarthy sensing a moment of unity in giving singer Mariah Carey a second chance after last year’s technical debacle. All this had me asking a query of myself and our country,

Are we awakening to an important lesson about unity?

As Quakers we talk a great deal about unity. Sometimes we refer to it as the “sense of the meeting.”  Either way, something I think we can all agree on is that unity does not come easily - nor can it be just a theme. Unity is a process and takes time. Maybe all the division in our nation is affording us the time to come together to give each other a second chance and see each other as equals. Think about it, a year ago, people were not even willing to consider a second chance for Mariah Carey, expecting the network to give her the “boot.”  Yet, time has allowed us to reconsider Mariah. It has also allowed us to take a closer look at the quality of all people and how our diversity should bring us together more than separate us.

Unity is not instant or magic. Rather it is learned and achieved over time by experiencing real life - the division, the failure, and the needed changes and decisions that too often come through difficult times. Barry Morley shed some light on this in his book, “Beyond Consensus,” where he shares his belief that we can foster skills that help us to seek unity. Things like sharing our experiences with each other, listening attentively, encouraging one another, reflecting on spiritual matters, and utilizing silence throughout! These are the things, I believe, First Friends should be committed to in 2018.  

Let’s make “unity” more than a theme for 2018 - let’s make it a reality!  

Happy New Year,
Pastor Bob

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Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Please note that Sunday School classes will resume this Sunday, January 7th. We hope to see you then!

Coats, Scarves, Hats, Gloves, Mittens ~ Please donate your unwanted warm clothing to meeting for Boner Center to give to those who need them. There is a box on the stage. Dan M took a large bag and items from the box to the Boner Center this week.

We are in need of volunteers next month for the Mid North Food Pantry! ~ Due to the holidays, several of the “regulars” will not be able to volunteer at the food pantry on Wednesday January 17.  If you are in town and available during any of these dates, please consider volunteering. Let the office know if you are interested or have questions. Thank you for your assistance!

Oak Leaf Book Group 2018 ~ Be sure to mark your calendars for 2018 Oak Leaf Meeting for Reading dates:

January 30 ~ Gilead by Marilynne Robinson

February 27 ~ The Warmth of Other Suns by Isabel Wilkerson

March 27 ~ Turtles All the Way Down by John Green

April 24 ~ A Full Life: Reflections at Ninety by Jimmy Carter

May 29 ~ Truevine by Beth Macy

June 26 ~ In the Garden of Beasts by Erik Larson

July 31 ~ Testimony by Scott Turow

August 28 ~ American Heart by Laura Moriarty

September 25 ~ Sourdough by Robin Sloan

October 30 ~ The Hour of Land by Terry Tempest Williams

November 27 ~ The Handmaid’s Tale by Margaret Atwood
 

The group meets at 7pm in the Parlor. All are invited!

A Good Month for Reading First Friends Library Books

In the cold short days and long nights of January take time to read some of the fine books in our library. Here are more of the newly purchased selections from the library committee. As always, you are invited to borrow books from our library.

Drawn by the Light

Autobiographical Reflections of Arthur O. Roberts

Quoting from the book jacket, " Arthur Roberts—poet, pastor, philosopher, professor, and sometimes prophet—uses words to open us to the scent of sagebrush, the sea's salt spray, the movements of the heart.

As Roberts discloses God at work in his life, her sheds light on all our lives."

With a Tender hand: A resource book for eldership and oversight

Zelie Gross

Here are answers to the question of how Spirit can thrive in our meeting, how to help people feel included and cared for, and how outward ministry may be nourished. The author taught at Woodbrooke Quaker Study Center. She draws on the experience of many Quaker meetings in Great Britain.

This is a very interesting, useful book, in the opinion of your commentator.

Early Quaker Encounters With the Bible

T. Vail Palmer, Jr.

You couldn't find anyone more qualified to reconcile Bible passages that say women ought to be silent in church, that advocate the destruction of entire groups of people, suggest that we require the submission of slaves and to show the way Quakers quoted and were inspired by the Bible to take pioneering positions of war, justice, women's ministry, for example. For them the heart of the Bible is in personal narratives.

Palmer's has been recorded as a pastor in FUM, FGC and Evangelical Friends Church International.

IFCL news ~ As today starts the 2018 General Assembly, IFCL is working on a core issue that they’ve focused on over the last several years- Redistricting Reform. Sen. John Ruckelshaus (District 30-R) has filed his final version of the bill (SB159) and we expect it to be sent to the Senate Elections Committee for a possible hearing. (The final version of the bill can be found here: https://goo.gl/oZM97D). It is also never too early to write, call or email your lawmakers asking for their support for Redistricting Reform. Please ask them to commit to making passage of SB159 a legislative priority of theirs this session. Find Your Legislator here: https://iga.in.gov/legislative/2014/legislators/. Thank you for your support!

Friend to Friend December 27, 2017

As Way Opens

At our beautiful Candlelight Christmas Eve Service this year, I shared the following words written by Brian McLaren from his book, We Make the Road by Walking. They are a great reminder for us as we prepare to enter a New Year. 

    “What do we mean when we say Jesus is the light? Just as a glow on the eastern horizon tells us that a long night is almost over, Jesus’ birth signals the beginning of the end for the dark night of fear, hostility, violence, and greed that has descended on our world.  Jesus’ birth signals the start of a new day, a new way, a new understanding of what it means to be alive. 
 

    Aliveness, he will teach, is a gift available to all by God’s grace. It flows not from taking, but giving, not from fear but from faith, not from conflict but from reconciliation, not from domination but from service. It isn’t found in the outward trappings of religion -- rules and rituals, controversies and scruples, temples and traditions. No, it springs up from our inner most being like a fountain of living water. It intoxicates us like the best wine ever and so turns life from a disappointment into a banquet. This new light of aliveness and love opens us up to rethink everything -- to go back and become like little children again.  Then we can rediscover the world with a fresh, childlike wonder -- seeing the world in a new light, the light of Christ.”

Join me in starting this New Year with a new light of aliveness, rethinking everything, rediscovering the world, and preparing to see it with childlike wonder! Happy New Year! 

Grace and peace,
Bob

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Joys & Concerns

What a wonderful worship experience we had this past Sunday on Christmas Eve. We enjoyed a night of Jazz, Christmas music, story-telling, and exploring the Light. Also thank you Eric B, for bringing several musicians to share in music with us and give us a unique worship experience.

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Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Please note that there will be no Sunday School this coming Sunday, December 31st. Classes will resume Sunday, January 7th. This coming Sunday worship will be our normal service in the Meeting Room at 10:15. We hope to see you then!

 Happy New Year! Please note there will be no Meditational worship on Monday, January 1st in observance of New Years Day. The office will also be closed that day. Happy Holidays!

Vespers DVDs ~ Did you enjoy our Vespers service this year? Or maybe you missed it and would like to see it? DVDs of this year's Vespers service are now available. People can send orders to the office at office@indyfriends.org They are $1 each. Also thank you to Norma Wallman who provided the camera and did the filming.

Warm Clothes for a Cold Winter~ We are again collecting used outdoor winter clothes. Coats, gloves, mittens, hats, for children or adults. Here is an opportunity to give without spending more money! In Fellowship Hall look for the box for J. H. Boner Center.

We are in need of volunteers next month for the Mid North Food Pantry! ~ Due to the holidays, several of the “regulars” will not be able to volunteer at the food pantry on Wednesdays, January 3 & January 17.  If you are in town and available during any of these dates, please consider volunteering. Let the office know if you are interested or have questions. Thank you for your assistance!

Friend to Friend December 20, 2017

As Way Opens

This week’s posting is from Leslie Kartholl’s blog that she wrote in September.  It seems appropriate to reflect on her words as we head into the Christmas week.

At the same time Irma was bearing down on Florida, my daughter-in-law was in the hospital birthing our first grandchild. The family spent hours in the waiting room, pacing the floors, anxious for news, praying fervently for mother and child, trying not to stress out as the hours passed. When little Nora arrived, (my son texted "I'm sobbing, she's beautiful") palpable relief fell over the waiting room and the mood became anticipatory and excited. When we were finally able to see her, hold her, it was an incredible experience; the joy was encompassing and overwhelming.

The arrival of a much anticipated newborn is like a peek into the heart of God; for a few moments you feel that you "get it" - you understand life and love and everything makes glorious and beautiful sense. You feel like you are seeing things as they should be; it’s a glimpse into the kingdom, it’s the feeling that there is only goodness in the world.

Then the baby in question has a seizure. And then another one. And you remember that there are hurricanes; there are Irmas and Joses and Katias; there are earthquakes in Mexico and shootings in schools; that this is a world that is racked by wars and political unrest and senseless violence and you remember that the future is uncertain and scary. You lose that sense of "rightness" and everything just looks bleak. You worry, you fret, and you are back on your knees.

Despite the baby's issues, she is undeniably beautiful in her tiny little nearly nine pound self. Everything she does is amazing; every grimace, or blink, or smile transports you back to the eye of the hurricane. Outside the storm may be raging, but with Nora in arms, it is extraordinarily peaceful; the breezes are gentle, and you can see the stars. No matter what is going on "out there" for a few minutes everything seems to be exactly as it should be.

It's important to remember, especially when life is chaotically whirling about, blowing off our roofs and stripping our trees that the "eye" is also there; at the center of our existence, we can find that place of "peace that passes understanding" and comprehensive "rightness." We get there by prayer, by meditation, by being present in our lives, by self-sacrifice. We get there by relinquishing the control we imagine we have over anyone or anything but ourselves. We get there by opening ourselves up, by emptying ourselves out, and allowing God to fill that space with hope. We get there by practicing love, by holding tiny Nora while Irma rages.

                                                                                    -Leslie Kartholl

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Joys & Concerns

Thank you to everyone who purchased cookies or soup in a jar, coffee or chocolate this past Sunday. Together we raised $341 for Right Sharing of World Resources!

Our Youth Group had a fun Christmas Party last Friday! We played cards, pool, guessing games, ate some good food and enjoyed each other’s company. Thank you everyone for coming!

What a Beautiful Children’s Pageant ~ See below for some images of our Christmas Pageant “The Very First Christmas” from this past Sunday. We are so proud of our children for giving the message that morning! Also thanks to all those who directed our children - Beth H and Tiffany B.

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Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

The Indianapolis Symphonic Choir Festival of Carols is telecast nationally this year! Bill P and Dan R sing in this group. You may watch or record it locally on WFYI Thursday, December 21, 8pm; or Saturday, December 24 at 2 pm or 8 pm (WFYI13). For other broadcasts check indychoir.org!

CANCELLING THRESHING AT THE TAP IN DECEMBER! Men of First Friends, due to Christmas being days away, many of you have already informed me that you are very busy and will not be able to attend our Threshing planned for this Thursday night. Thus, we are going to cancel this month's Threshing at the Tap.

We will return on January 18th at Black Acre Brewing in Irvington for a wonderful gathering and great conversation! See you in January! Have a Merry Christmas and Happy New Year!

Also, Ladies of First Friends, be watching for information about a similar event for you coming by the the end of January!

 

This Coming Sunday is Christmas Eve! In the morning we will be holding unprogrammed worship in the Parlor at 10:15am. Please note that there will be no Sunday School. All are invited to join us for our annual Christmas Eve service at 5:30 – see details below.

Christmas Eve Service ~ You are not going to want to miss this year’s Christmas Eve Service at 5:30pm. Throughout the holidays we have worked to give you several unique worship experiences at First Friends - and this Christmas Eve will be no exception. Our music director, Eric B has put together a jazz ensemble to accompany this special candlelight service. Our theme, The Light Has Come, will have us looking at five thoughts on the subject of light. As well, we will provide opportunities throughout the service for silent reflection in the manner of Friends. There will be a special reading of the Christmas Story for the children, and the service will conclude with a traditional singing of Silent Night in candlelight. Our hope is that the ambiance and beauty of this service will usher you into your Christmas celebrations. Childcare will also be provided. We hope you will join us.

Please note there will be no Meditational worship on Monday, December 25 in observance of Christmas. There will also be no worship the following Monday, January 1st. Happy Holidays!

Vespers DVDs ~ Did you enjoy our Vespers service this year? Or maybe you missed it and would like to see it? DVDs of this year's Vespers service are now available. Please contact the office if interested. They are $1 each. Also thank you to Norma W who provided the camera and did the filming.

Warm Clothes for a Cold Winter ~ We are again collecting used outdoor winter clothing. Coats, gloves, mittens, hats. For children and adults.  Here is an opportunity to give without spending more money! In Fellowship Hall look for the box for J. H. Boner Center.

We are in need of volunteers next month for the Mid North Food Pantry! ~ Due to the holidays, several of the “regulars” will not be able to volunteer at the food pantry on Wednesdays, January 3 and January 17.  These are all days that First Friends regularly staffs the pantry. If you are in town and available during any of these dates, please consider volunteering. Let the office know if you are interested or have questions. Thank you for your assistance!

The Quaker Welcome Center has opened! The Friends Committee on National Legislation (FCNL) is proud to announce the opening of the Quaker Welcome Center in Washington, DC. An article was published in The Washington Post on Sunday, November 26 (print and digital editions) about the center and one of the first events held there. FCNL hopes to host bipartisan discussions between members of Congress as well as the general public. To read the article in full, please visit https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/new-space-in-dc-intends-to-play-host-to-bipartisan-dialogue/2017/11/25/8501db0c-cb0a-11e7-8321-481fd63f174d_story.html?utm_term=.076d34ee29f7

Friend to Friend December 13, 2017

As Way Opens

I make it a priority every morning to take a walk through my neighborhood before heading off to work. It is a practice that centers me during this busy season. There is something about walking alone as the sun is just rising, as people are getting ready to head out for their day, and as life seems to be awakening from its slumber. Even the morning sky presents a peaceful palate of beautiful colors - blues, pinks, and oranges. It is like the sky is announcing through the silence and in vivid color, “Good morning, world!”   

Most morning walks are filled with very little movement other than my own. On occasion I meet a set of slumbering ducks on my path making their way to the pond, a bus picking up a handful of nearly comatose children, or the last of the dry brown leaves falling from the trees that line our streets. Most of my walks could be described by an ambiance of stillness and silence affording my mind an opportunity to reflect on and ponder what this day will bring.

I am considered a stranger by many in my neighborhood. Most people simply wave or nod their head as I pass, but keep the silence of the morning as if to say, “Be at peace, friend.” On occasion my walk is interrupted by a dog barking frantically, as if I’m its only hope of salvation. It is often unsettling, but it makes my steps more brisk. 

For me, the still quiet of my walks are a reminder of that first Christmas, where the world was just awakening to a new day of possibilities. It was a pregnant moment of new birth and hope for a busy world. Out of the darkness and silence came a stranger and a light, one whose example would engage our senses and draw us to act, and one who would bring peace amidst the world’s barking dogs.

As Christmas quickly approaches again this year, it would be good to take a moment to embrace the dawning of a new day, to engage the silence and reflect, and allow hope to be born in our lives again. Consider a walk in the silence today and be awakened to all that Christmas brings.  

Grace and peace, 
Bob

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Joys & Concerns

This past Sunday we had a great time Christmas Caroling at American Heritage to Shirley Proctor and at Coburn Place. We ended the night with a great tradition - Steak and Shake!

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Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Please be advised, there will be no Monthly Meeting for Business for December. Monthly Meeting will resume in January. Have a happy holiday season!!

This Coming Sunday is the last day for Sunday School! Please note that this Sunday will be the last day of Sunday School this year. There will be no Sunday school on Sunday, December 24 or Sunday, December 31st.

Vespers DVDs ~ Did you enjoy our Vespers service this year? Or maybe you missed it and would like to see it? DVDs of this year's Vespers service are now available. People can send orders to the office at office@indyfriends.org. They are $1 each. Also thank you to Norma W. who provided the camera and did the filming.

Youth Christmas Party! All youth are invited to join us this Friday, December 15 at 6:30pm in the Meetinghouse basement for a Christmas party!  We will have dinner together and play some games including catch phrase and Pictionary. There will also be a gift exchange, so please bring a wrapped gift $5 or under appropriate for a girl or boy. The party will last until about 9:30. We will see you there!

Join us this Sunday in Meeting for Worship ~ We hope you will join us during our Meeting for Worship on Sunday, December 17 for our annual Children’s Pageant, where our children depict and read the story of Jesus' birth. As well, the congregation will join in with singing hymns together. This is an annual tradition that you do not want to miss! Also, our children will be selling "Cookies in a Jar" and "Soup in a Jar" after the service in the Fellowship Hall. Beth will also be selling coffee, chocolates and tea. Donations for all this will go to support "Right Sharing of World Resources" (RSWR).

Sunday Yoga Class – Remember that monthly yoga for December has been moved to this Sunday, December 17th. Several varieties of yoga practice will be explored, such as yin yoga, vinyasa yoga, and restorative yoga.  The class is open to all levels and members of the class will help determine the content of the practice. Meet us in the basement after worship at 11:45am. Goodwill offerings are always appreciated!

Warm Clothes for a Cold Winter ~ We are again collecting used outdoor winter clothing. Coats, gloves, mittens, hats. For children and adults.  Here is an opportunity to give without spending more money! In Fellowship Hall look for the box for J. H. Boner Center.

Threshing at the Tap: (def.) a gathering of men who mull over current issues or topics, where all points of view are heard, no decisions are made, and beverages are enjoyed.

Threshing at the Tap will take place every third Thursday, 7pm at various breweries in greater Indianapolis.

Our next Threshing at the Tap will be Thursday night, December 21st at 7pm at 20 Tap, 5408 N. College Ave, Indianapolis.

Christmas Eve Service ~ You are not going to want to miss this year’s Christmas Eve Service at 5:30pm. Throughout the holidays we have worked to give you several unique worship experiences at First Friends - and this Christmas Eve will be no exception. Our music director, Eric B has put together a jazz ensemble to accompany this special candlelight service. Our theme, The Light Has Come, will have us looking at five thoughts on the subject of light. As well, we will provide opportunities throughout the service for silent reflection in the manner of Friends. There will be a special reading of the Christmas Story for the children, and the service will conclude with a traditional singing of Silent Night in candlelight. Our hope is that the ambiance and beauty of this service will usher you into your Christmas celebrations. Childcare will also be provided. We hope you will join us.

The Quaker Welcome Center has opened! The Friends Committee on National Legislation (FCNL) is proud to announce the opening of the Quaker Welcome Center in Washington, DC. An article was published in The Washington Post on Sunday, November 26 (print and digital editions) about the center and one of the first events held there. FCNL hopes to host bipartisan discussions between members of Congress as well as the general public. To read the article in full, please visit https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/new-space-in-dc-intends-to-play-host-to-bipartisan-dialogue/2017/11/25/8501db0c-cb0a-11e7-8321-481fd63f174d_story.html?utm_term=.076d34ee29f7

Do you know anyone who would be interested in a Quaker Fellowship? Quaker Voluntary Service is a year-long Fellowship program in which young adults between the ages 21-30 live communally, work full time at social service and social change agencies, and explore themes of spiritual and personal growth with local Quakers. An ideal QVS Fellow brings an openness to working with diverse community members, a willingness to explore questions of spirituality, and an ability to function well in a professional setting. Fellowships are available in Atlanta, GA, Boston, MA, Minneapolis/St. Paul, MN, Philadelphia, PA and Portland, OR. The program year is from August 26, 2018 – End of July, 2019. Interested candidates can find more information or apply by March 15, 2018 at www.quakervoluntaryservice.org/apply.

Christmas Calendar at First Friends Meeting

December 17th

Children’s Christmas Pageant in Meeting

Take your poinsettias home!

December 24th

Unprogrammed worship in the Parlor at 10:15am

Christmas Eve Service at 5:30 pm

Friend to Friend December 6, 2017

As Way Opens

I am still basking in the glow of our special services on Sunday.  In the morning, Shawn brought the choir from Hamilton Southeastern High School and they were fantastic.  These young women’s voices carried us all a bit closer to the Divine center and I am so appreciative of Shawn and these students coming to sing for us.

Sunday evening was our Vespers service and I felt such a sense of reverence and worship throughout the evening.  The songs, the bell choir, the spoken words all touched my heart and brought me to a place where I felt a sense of hope during these difficult times.  The song that really got me was I Heard the Bells on Christmas Day, a haunting rendition of this traditional Christmas carol.  The choir sings:

I heard the bells on Christmas Day

Their old familiar carols play

and mild and sweet their songs repeat

of peace on earth, goodwill to men.

And in despair I bowed my head,

There is no peace on earth I said,

For hate is strong and mocks the song

of peace on earth, goodwill to men.

Then our children’s voices sing out in a clear strong tone - 

Peace on earth

Peace on earth

In response to the hope of these children’s voices, the adults sing:

Then rang the bells more loud and deep:

God is not dead, nor doth He sleep,

The wrong shall fail, the right prevail

With peace on earth, goodwill to men.

Then ringing, singing on its way,

The world revolved from night to day.

A voice, a chime, a chant sublime.

Of peace on earth, goodwill to men.

I was reminded as I sang that night, that God is not dead, nor asleep and that what is right and true will prevail.  The darkness has covered so much of our society that it feels like we can’t see how truth and justice and love will prevail.  But our children show us that peace on earth is possible and our faith community shows us that peace is possible.  I loved the last lesson that Bob shared with us Sunday evening called Che Jesus from Argentina:

They told me that you came back to be born every Christmas. Man, you’re crazy! . . . with this stubborn gesture of coming back every Christmas you are trying to tell us something:

That the revolution that all proclaim begins first of all in each one’s heart. That it doesn’t mean only changing structures but changing selfishness for love. That we have to stop being wolves and return to being brothers and sisters, That we . . . begin to work seriously for individual conversion and social change / that will give to all the possibility of having bread, education, freedom, and dignity.

That you have a message that’s called the Gospel, and a Church, and that’s us -- A Church that wants to be servant of all, a Church that knows that because God became human one Christmas there is no other way to love God but to love all people. If that’s the way it is, Jesus, come to my house this Christmas, Come to my country, Come to the world of humanity.

And first of all, come to my heart.

Beth

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Joys & Concerns

This past Sunday we had a moving and joyous Vespers service. Thank you to Eric B, our Music Director, Shawn P, organist, our wonderful choir, handbell ringers, and all our performers who helped make this year very special, including Jim & Leslie K, Eric B, Anna Riley, and Selina G. Also many thanks to Kathy Rfor taking pictures!

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Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Please be advised, there will be no Monthly Meeting for Business for December. Monthly Meeting will resume in January. Have a happy holiday season!!

CAR NEEDED: The Henry’s are urgently in need of a reliable but affordable car for their oldest son, Alex. This week, Alex was notified about an internship in Wabash with Warner Brothers/Looney Tunes for his January Term this coming year. This would be an amazing opportunity and great for his resume. If you or someone you know is selling a reliable car for an affordable price, please contact Bob at bobhenry@indyfriends.org. Alex needs to let the internship know by this weekend if he is able to participate. 

Food Pantry Toy Drive ~ First Friends is gathering used toys which will be passed out at the Food Pantry this holiday season by our volunteers.  A large box has been placed in Fellowship Hall, and is marked for toy donations.  These toys are to be “gently used toys,” which families are wanting to get rid of, but which still are in good condition for reuse.

Babysitting Co-Op ~ Our babysitting co-op is happening this Saturday December 9th from 5:30 - 9:30, hosted by Ann & Andy C. Dinner will be provided for the kids. Please contact the office if you would like to have your kids join in the fun that evening!

Annual Christmas Tea ~ Please join us on December 10th immediately after worship in the parlor for the annual Christmas Tea. There will be lots of cookies and punch and fellowship. If you can donate two dozen cookies, please drop them off either Saturday between 10 and 11 or on Sunday morning before worship.
 

Christmas Caroling ~ Fa La La La La! Joy to the World! Deck the Halls! It's time to clear your throats and get ready to bring some Christmas cheer through singing some carols! Join us on Sunday, December 10th at 4:20pm as we meet up at American Village (Washington Manor Entrance) 2026 East 54th St., Indianapolis, IN 46220. Make sure to bring the kids as we will again be heading to Steak and Shake after caroling for dinner! This should be a fun night for the entire family!

Christmas Candlelight Service in Noblesville ~ Noblesville First Friends Church cordially invites you to hear the message of the angels and celebrate the birth of Jesus Christ on Sunday, December 10 at 6:15pm. This year we will listen to several very talented musicians plus sing many of the familiar carols and hear the story of the birth of Jesus. Refreshments will be served following the program. They are located at 1055 East Division Street in Noblesville. If you have questions, you may call them at 317-773-3686.

Children’s Pageant ~ Join us during our Meeting for Worship on Sunday, December 17 as our children depict and read the story of Jesus' birth. As well, the congregation will join in with singing hymns together. This is an annual tradition that you do not want to miss! Also, our children will be selling "Cookies in a Jar" and "Soup in a Jar" after the service in the Fellowship Hall. Donations will go to support "Right Sharing of World Resources."

Threshing at the Tap - A few months ago, Pastor Bob shared in his sermon that middle-aged men are becoming socially isolated at an alarming rate in our country. To address this trend, we are providing men an opportunity to build some social connection and conversation with a new opportunity:

Threshing at the Tap: (def.) a gathering of men who mull over current issues or topics, where all points of view are heard, no decisions are made, and beverages are enjoyed.

Threshing at the Tap will take place every third Thursday, 7pm at various breweries in greater Indianapolis.

Our next Threshing at the Tap will be Thursday night, December 21st 7pm at 20 Tap, 5408 N. College Ave, Indianapolis.

Christmas Eve Service ~ Bring your family on Christmas Eve at 5:30pm to usher in the birth of Jesus with a special Christmas Eve Meeting for Worship featuring Jazz musical arrangements, Christmas reflections, silent meditation, and all in the beautiful ambiance of candlelight. 

Do you know anyone who would be interested in a Quaker Fellowship? Quaker Voluntary Service is a year-long Fellowship program in which young adults between the ages 21-30 live communally, work full time at social service and social change agencies, and explore themes of spiritual and personal growth with local Quakers. An ideal QVS Fellow brings an openness to working with diverse community members, a willingness to explore questions of spirituality, and an ability to function well in a professional setting. Fellowships are available in Atlanta, GA, Boston, MA, Minneapolis/St. Paul, MN, Philadelphia, PA and Portland, OR. The program year is from August 26, 2018 – End of July, 2019. Interested candidates can find more information or apply by March 15, 2018 at www.quakervoluntaryservice.org/apply.

Christmas Calendar at First Friends Meeting

December 10th

Christmas Tea just following Worship

Christmas Caroling

December 17th

Children’s Christmas Pageant in Meeting

Take your poinsettias home!

December 24th

Unprogrammed worship in the Parlor at 10:15am

Christmas Eve Service at 5:30 pm

Friend to Friend November 29, 2017

As Way Opens

Two years ago, about this time, I was totally “geeking out” in anticipation of the new Star Wars movie. If you remember, the trailers and commercials were all saying, “There has been an awakening.”  It was a broad statement that had many people wondering just what was awakening. Star Wars fans worked hard to prepare for what this new installment would bring.  

I think we could say that currently in America there has been an awakening. Unlike with Star Wars, it has not brought much excitement or anticipation, but rather a reality check to how starved our nation is to seeing our neighbors, friends, and colleagues as human beings rather than mere objects or means to our gain. Don’t get me wrong, I know this is a problem that goes back in our history, and many have been advocating relentlessly throughout the years for these awakenings, but we have to admit something is happening.   

As we move into this season leading up to our celebration of Christmas (what some call Advent), we must remember that it too is a time of awakening. When Jesus arrived into this world, he was awaking the world to a new way of seeing and reconciling the people to God and to their neighbors. He awoke the people of his day to see the blind, the poor, the widows, the orphans, the women, the outcasts, the neglected, and the people from other cultures and races.  He was awakening a world to God’s Kingdom where ALL people were included and respected, and loved.

How are you preparing for the awakening that is happening in this world? Who around you is being neglected or treated poorly? Who is in need of a little respect or a blessing of love? May these be our gifts this Christmas season and throughout the New Year!

Grace and peace,

Bob

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Joys & Concerns

A BIG THANK YOU to the men who helped prepare the meetinghouse for the holiday season after worship on Sunday! You all made quick work of raising the piano and the Christmas wreath. Thank you.

During Meeting for Worship this past Sunday we had a beautiful “time of remembrance” for those who have passed from this life during the year. Candles were lit as the names of the deceased were read aloud. After Meeting for Worship we continued this theme by having our annual Grief Gathering in which 10 participants, Pastoral Staff, and our guest speaker, Dan Mosley shared stories and personal experiences. Thank you to our Circle of Care for putting on this event each year. 

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Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities
 

Sing Along Again ~ This Friday, December 1st, at 7PM in the parlor, Jim K will again lead in singing songs from Rise Up Singing and Rise Again; the same books used when the editors led a larger group at Valley Mills. The quality of your voice is not important. Just your happiness with singing.

Food Pantry Toy Drive ~ First Friends is gathering used toys which will be passed out at the Food Pantry this holiday season by our volunteers.  A large box has been placed in Fellowship Hall, and is marked for toy donations.  These toys are to be “gently used toys,” which families are wanting to get rid of, but which still are in good condition for reuse.

Royal Sensation Choir Performance in Meeting ~ On Sunday, December 3rd, we are pleased to welcome the Royal Sensation choir from Hamilton Southeastern High School. Royal Sensation is under the direction of Shawn P. Please join us in Meeting that day to hear their performance. An offering will be taken to help support their choir.

United Christmas Service Project ~ First Friends is once again partnering with United Christmas Service (“UCS”) to provide a bit of Christmas cheer to families that lack sufficient funds to purchase gifts for their family members.  But things have changed at UCS.  This year, instead of purchasing gifts for families, UCS is asking that funds be donated so that vouchers can be provided to needy families.  UCS is partnering with certain merchants (Walgreens, Walmart, Kroger, Dollar Store, and others) to accept the vouchers.  The vouchers cannot be used for alcohol or tobacco products and cannot be exchanged for cash.  UCS has determined that this is a better process to allow families to purchase exactly what they need.  UCS will distribute vouchers sufficient to provide $30/person in each family.  A family of four would receive a voucher for $120.  First Friends will begin receiving donations for this project on Sunday, Nov-19.  We encourage donations be made no later than this Sunday, December 3 so that monies collected can be forwarded to UCS and then vouchers sent out by UCS a week or so before Christmas.  You can send your donations to the First Friends’ office, put a check in the offering plate, or take an envelope from the Christmas tree and deposit your donation in the box by the tree.  Please make checks payable to First Friends and make a notation that the check is for UCS.  Thanks for helping to brighten the holidays for a family in need.

Vespers Annual Concert~ On Sunday, December 3 at 5:00pm we invite you to attend our annual Vespers concert, that will preview the many talented musicians, singers, and artists of our Meeting. Our choir and hand bell choir have been practicing hard for this concert, and it should be quite a delight. Following the concert there will be a complimentary light buffet, hosted by our Fellowship Committee. Plan to join us for the evening!

Babysitting Co-Op ~ Our babysitting co-op is happening on Saturday December 9th from 5:30 - 9:30, hosted by Ann & Andy C. Dinner will be provided for the kids. Please contact us (office@indyfriends.org) if you would like to have your kids join in the fun that evening!

Annual Christmas Tea ~ Please join us on December 10th immediately after worship in the parlor for the annual Christmas Tea. There will be lots of cookies and punch and fellowship. If you can donate two dozen cookies, please drop them off either Saturday between 10 and 11 or on Sunday morning before worship.

Christmas Caroling ~ Fa La La La La! Joy to the World! Deck the Halls! It's time to clear your throats and get ready to bring some Christmas cheer through singing some carols! Join us on Sunday, December 10th at 4:20pm as we meet up at American Village (Washington Manor Entrance) 2026 East 54th St., Indianapolis, IN 46220. Make sure to bring the kids as we will again be heading to Steak and Shake after caroling for dinner! This should be a fun night for the entire family!

Greening the Statehouse ~ Don't miss the largest annual gathering of environmentally-minded citizens in the state! It will be held this Saturday, December 2nd, 9am-4pm at the Hendricks County Fairgrounds! Greening the Statehouse (#GTS2017) will be a day full of opportunities to become a better advocate for the environment, public health, and a sustainable economy. This year GTS will be a day of how-to’s: how to organize in your community, how to engage with lawmakers, how to communicate with the media, and so many more; we will focus on practical and necessary skills that should be in every advocate’s toolbox! Don't miss out on the chance to get informed and inspired by Mitch Hescox, one of the most well-known conservative advocates for the environment in the country, who is working tirelessly to engage Americans across the political and faith spectrum. Tickets are $25 each ($10 students). For more information and to register, please visit www.hecweb.org/get-involved/gts2017.  

Christmas Calendar at First Friends Meeting

December 3rd

‘Royal Sensation Choir’ in Meeting

Vespers at 5:00pm

Complimentary Light Buffet following concert

December 10th

Christmas Tea just following Worship

Christmas Caroling

December 17th

Children’s Christmas Pageant in Meeting

Take your poinsettias home!

December 24th

Unprogrammed worship in the Parlor at 10:15am

Christmas Eve Service at 5:30 pm

Friend to Friend November 22, 2017

As Way Opens

Bob and I have been attending a “north side” clergy breakfast the last few months at the invitation of our friend from Nur Allah Islamic Center, Iman Mikal Saahir.  This group includes pastors from Second Presbyterian, Indianapolis Hebrew Congregation, St Luke's Methodist, Meridian St Methodist, First Congregational Church of Christ, Beth El Zedek and a few others.  It has been a wonderful interfaith exchange to build relationships and share faith experiences.  This group has had an ecumenical Thanksgiving service each year and we were invited to join them last evening at the Indianapolis Hebrew Congregation synagogue.  Since our Shalom zone service occurred at the same time, I attended this service and participated with a reading and I was so inspired to experience the breadth of God in our respective faith traditions.  We started the service with a haunting Jewish melody with the words "In this home, sacred space, we are one, together we pray”.  What a sight to sing and pray together with our Jewish, Muslim and Christian friends united in our love together.  What an impact to see Iman Mikal Saahir come to the Bimah (the raised platform where the table of the rabbi is found) and share a message that gratitude is really about humility and challenged us to share the harvest with everyone.  I was asked to share a reading from Debbie Perlman on the month of Kislev (in the Jewish calendar).

Slowly You ease the chill upon us

Letting noon sun continue to warm us.

Through the shattered glass of yesterday’s pain,

You move us ahead into winter’s dark.

Balance the dark with Your light, O Eternal,

Balance the cold with the warmth of Your care…

Balance our questions with Your clues, O Eternal;

Balance our unnamed fear with Your comforting hand.

And in the grip of this month’s deepest cold,

Light so brief we could swallow it in one gulp,

Balance the darkness with shining eyes,

Smoothed windows cleared

To broadcast the growing light,

Pinpoints of Your living flame,

Answers to our winter yearning.

Friends, this is our hope for the future.  That people of faith join together across all of our boundaries and embrace the common home that we share.  This is our hope for shalom, the peace we will experience when we our bound together in God’s love and recognize the Divine in each one of us and share the harvest with all.

With a grateful heart,

Beth

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Joys & Concerns

Thank you to our Mid North Food Pantry volunteers – Kathy and Bill F, Ray G, Linda L, Bob H, Carol and Jim D.  96 families were served!
 

Coburn Place donation ~ Several people from First Friends visited, toured, and offered a check of financial support to the Coburn Place where our own Samantha Ryan serves those trying to transition from domestic violence situations.

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Announcements, Reports & Opportunities

Grief Gathering on Sunday November 26th after Meeting for Worship - Circle of Care is hosting a lunch and discussion for those who have experienced a loss of a family member or cherished friend.  This lunch and time together is a tangible way our Meeting is demonstrating our care for each other during times of sadness.  We will also be featuring guest speaker Dan Mosley, author of Lose, Love, Live: The Spiritual Gifts of Loss and Change. We invite anyone that is interested in gathering with others to share and reflect on the experience of loss. Feel free to bring any family members. Please contact the office (office@indyfriends.org) if you plan to attend.  This event is hosted by our Circle of Care.

Poetry Group ~ Our next Poetry Group meeting will be on Tuesday, November 28th at 1:00 p.m. in the Parlor. Linda L will present a program for us (title to be announced). Her presentation last year was enthusiastically received. We hope you’ll join us!

Oak Leaf: Meeting For Reading ~ Anyone interested is invited to attend our 4th Annual Potluck Lasagna Holiday Dinner at Ruth K’s house on November 28th at 6:30 pm.  We will be discussing The Last Runaway by Tracy Chevalier.  Bring a friend, a side dish and a book from home for our annual holiday book swap. Read ahead for next month, our next discussion will be The Guest Room by Chris Bohjalian on December 26th at 7 pm in the parlor.

 

College Care packages for our students - It is time to send college care packages to our students as they prepare for their midterms at school.  We will have a box out this Sunday for you to provide goodies like nuts, candy, cookies and other treats.  If you would rather donate money, the office will purchase items for the boxes. This year we will also be mailing packages to our Friends Educational Fund (FEF) Scholarship recipients. This means we need a total of 39 of each item donated. We will be mailing them December 1st so we need your support this week. If you are bringing in treats, please provide enough for all 39 students.

Royal Sensation Choir Performance in Meeting ~ On Sunday, December 3rd, we are pleased to welcome the Royal Sensation choir from Hamilton Southeastern High School. Royal Sensation is under the direction of Shawn P. Please join us in Meeting that day to hear their performance. An offering will be taken to help support their choir.

 

United Christmas Service Project ~ First Friends is once again partnering with United Christmas Service (“UCS”) to provide a bit of Christmas cheer to families that lack sufficient funds to purchase gifts for their family members.  But things have changed at UCS.  This year, instead of purchasing gifts for families, UCS is asking that funds be donated so that vouchers can be provided to needy families.  UCS is partnering with certain merchants (Walgreens, Walmart, Kroger, Dollar Store, and others) to accept the vouchers.  The vouchers cannot be used for alcohol or tobacco products and cannot be exchanged for cash.  UCS has determined that this is a better process to allow families to purchase exactly what they need.  UCS will distribute vouchers sufficient to provide $30/person in each family.  A family of four would receive a voucher for $120.  First Friends will begin receiving donations for this project on Sunday, Nov-19.  We encourage donations be made no later than Sunday, Dec-3 so that monies collected can be forwarded to UCS and then vouchers sent out by UCS a week or so before Christmas.  You can send your donations to the First Friends’ office, put a check in the offering plate, or take an envelope from the Christmas tree and deposit your donation in the box by the tree.  Please make checks payable to First Friends and make a notation that the check is for UCS.  Thanks for helping to brighten the holidays for a family in need.

Vespers Annual Concert~ On Sunday, December 3 at 5:00pm we invite you to attend our annual Vespers concert, that will preview the many talented musicians, singers, and artists of our Meeting. Our choir and hand bell choir have been practicing hard for this concert, and it should be quite a delight. Following the concert there will be a complimentary light buffet, hosted by our Fellowship Committee. Plan to join us for the evening!

Annual Christmas Tea ~ Please join us on December 10th immediately after worship in the parlor for the annual Christmas Tea. There will be lots of cookies and punch and fellowship. If you can donate two dozen cookies, please drop them off either Saturday between 10 and 11 or on Sunday morning before worship.

Calling All Gardeners! Please clean up your garden plots. Let Samantha R or Nancy S know by Thanksgiving if you want to retain your plot for next year. Inform us if you are willing to trade plots. List what you planted so we can keep records to help monitor insects, disease and to assist with crop rotation. To winterize:

·         Put diseased crops & weeds in the trash bin.

·         Put healthy garden waste in the compost bin beside the garage.

·         Sanitize your garden tools, tomato cages, etc.

·         If you want, dig in dead leaves to fertilize.

Better care now makes a healthier garden next year!

Greening the Statehouse ~ Don't miss the largest annual gathering of environmentally-minded citizens in the state! It will be held Saturday, December 2nd, 9am-4pm at the Hendricks County Fairgrounds! Greening the Statehouse (#GTS2017) will be a day full of opportunities to become a better advocate for the environment, public health, and a sustainable economy. This year GTS will be a day of how-to’s: how to organize in your community, how to engage with lawmakers, how to communicate with the media, and so many more; we will focus on practical and necessary skills that should be in every advocate’s toolbox! Don't miss out on the chance to get informed and inspired by Mitch Hescox, one of the most well-known conservative advocates for the environment in the country, who is working tirelessly to engage Americans across the political and faith spectrum. Tickets are $25 each ($10 students). For more information and to register, please visit www.hecweb.org/get-involved/gts2017.  

Christmas Calendar at First Friends Meeting

December 3rd

‘Royal Sensation Choir’ in Meeting

Vespers at 5:00pm

Complimentary Light Buffet following concert

December 10th

Christmas Tea just following Worship

Christmas Caroling

December 17th

Children’s Christmas Pageant in Meeting

Take your poinsettias home!

December 24th

Unprogrammed worship in the Parlor at 10:15am

Christmas Eve Service at 5:30 pm

Friend to Friend November 15, 2017

As Way Opens

I have been extremely contemplative this week.  If you follow me on Facebook, you will have noticed I have started my mornings in our meditational woods at First Friends. It has been brisk, still, and painted with all the colors of the artist’s palette. Each moment has been filled with wonder and anticipation for the new day ahead. Some mornings the sun has been out and changed the perspectives and experiences. The shafts of sunlight beaming through the trees have been breathtaking and have had me pausing in moments of pure awe.  

As the leaves slowly fell to the ground, and I watched the squirrels prepare for winter, I was reminded once again that Fall is a season of changing - physically, mentally, and emotionally.  

This morning, I began my day looking at the beauty as I drove to the office, I saw an amazing sun rise that in minutes became a gloomy rainy scene. Life changes sometimes from beauty to dreary and we have a hard time seeing all the good that is still there.

As I was reflecting on this, I was listening to John Mayer’s new album. One of the tracks on this album is a song, “Changing.”  As I listened, I was reminded about how there are seasons of our lives. Some are more beautiful and others are rather dreary, yet if we miss the opportunity to see the change in the present moment, we will miss the new life around the corner waiting to blossom. As John Mayer sang, his words spoke to my soul.  

I am not done changing.

Out on the run, changing.

I may be old and I may be young,

But I am not done changing.

Folks, we are not done changing.  We are experiencing new things, new people, new perspectives all the time. No matter how old or young we are - change is happening, and beauty awaits if we are willing to be patient and have eyes to see. Embrace the moment of change.  See it for all it is worth, and remember it when the seasons change to more dreary days. It will be the hope that carries you through.     

Grace and peace,

Bob

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Joys & Concerns
 

Thanks to all who participated in the recent blood drive at First Friends.  10 folks participated and provide 11 units of blood.  You may have helped to save a life!

We had a packed Meetinghouse last Friday at First Friends as we hosted “Words Matter! Writing for Healing, Action, and Change” (below). We featured four talented writers—Philip Gulley, Diana Ensign, Amber Denney, and Barbara Shoup—and they explored the power of words to spark compassion, dialogue, and positive change. 

Last Saturday we had our Talent Show and Silent Auction  to raise money for a new piano. Thank you to all who came, especially all those who lent their talents at the show, and those who participated in our auction. Also many thanks to everyone who donated items for the auction! What a great night! Find photos and video on our Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/Indyfriends!

Norma W visited longtime member Marilyn O in Texas. Norma had a good visit with Marilyn. They went through old FF directories that go back to 1948! So glad to hear from this lovely lady!

Happy Birthday! Carolyn H brought this cake for the members of our Wednesday spiritual growth group who have birthdays in November. Ed, Joyce, and Helen. Happy birthday to these three, and thank you to Carolyn for being so thoughtful!

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Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Threshing at the Tap - A few weeks ago, Pastor Bob shared in his sermon that middle-aged men are becoming socially isolated at an alarming rate in our country. To address this trend, we are providing men an opportunity to build some social connection and conversation with a new opportunity:

Threshing at the Tap: (def.) a gathering of men who mull over current issues or topics, where all points of view are heard, no decisions are made, and beverages are enjoyed.

Threshing at the Tap will take place every third Thursday, 7pm at various breweries in greater Indianapolis.

Our next Threshing at the Tap will be this Thursday night (November 16) 7pm at Four Day Ray Brewing, 11671 Lantern Rd, Fishers.

United Christmas Service Project ~ First Friends is once again partnering with United Christmas Service (“UCS”) to provide a bit of Christmas cheer to families that lack sufficient funds to purchase gifts for their family members.  But things have changed at UCS.  This year, instead of purchasing gifts for families, UCS is asking that funds be donated so that vouchers can be provided to needy families.  UCS is partnering with certain merchants (Walgreens, Walmart, Kroger, Dollar Store, and others) to accept the vouchers.  The vouchers cannot be used for alcohol or tobacco products and cannot be exchanged for cash.  UCS has determined that this is a better process to allow families to purchase exactly what they need.  UCS will distribute vouchers sufficient to provide $30/person in each family.  A family of four would receive a voucher for $120.  First Friends will begin receiving donations for this project on Sunday, Nov-19.  We encourage donations be made no later than Sunday, Dec-3 so that monies collected can be forwarded to UCS and then vouchers sent out by UCS a week or so before Christmas.  You can send your donations to the First Friends’ office, put a check in the offering plate, or take an envelope from the Christmas tree and deposit your donation in the box by the tree.  Please make checks payable to First Friends and make a notation that the check is for UCS.  Thanks for helping to brighten the holidays for a family in need.

 

College Care packages for our students - It is time to send college care packages to our students as they prepare for their midterms at school.  We will have a box out this Sunday for you to provide goodies like nuts, candy, cookies and other treats.  If you would rather donate money, the office will purchase items for the boxes. This year we will also be mailing packages to our Friends Educational Fund (FEF) Scholarship recipients. This means we need a total of 39 of each item donated. We will be mailing them December 1st so we need your support this week. If you are bringing in treats, please provide enough for all 39 students.

Our Friend Doug Smith from Right Sharing of World Resources (RSWR) has written an article about the organization for Western Friend, the official publication of Quakers in Pacific, North Pacific, and Intermountain Yearly Meetings. In the article he shares an experience he had here at First Friends Meeting during RSWR’s Jubilee celebration in April this past year. He talks about the children’s message that day (given by Beth) and how clearly it illustrated the idea behind RSWR. You can read the article in full here: https://goo.gl/BEmWpo

Vespers is Fast Approaching! Vespers is coming December 3rd. If you would like to participate but can’t come to choir on Sundays, please come November 18th at 10:00AM to learn the music with the choir. We would love to have you join us for this joyous occasion! ~Eric & the Choir
 

Oak Leaf: Meeting For Reading ~ Anyone interested is invited to attend our 4th Annual Potluck Lasagna Holiday Dinner at Ruth K’s house on November 28th at 6:30 pm.  We will be discussing The Last Runaway by Tracy Chevalier.  Bring a friend, a side dish and a book from home for our annual holiday book swap. Read ahead for next month, our next discussion will be The Guest Room by Chris Bohjalian on December 26th at 7 pm in the parlor.

Royal Sensation Choir Performance in Meeting ~ On Sunday, December 3rd, we are pleased to welcome the Royal Sensation choir from Hamilton Southeastern High School. Royal Sensation is under the direction of Shawn P. Please join us in Meeting that day to hear their performance. An offering will be taken to help support their choir.

Calling All Gardeners! Please clean up your garden plots. Let Samantha R or Nancy S know by Thanksgiving if you want to retain your plot for next year. Inform us if you are willing to trade plots. List what you planted so we can keep records to help monitor insects, disease and to assist with crop rotation. To winterize:

·         Put diseased crops & weeds in the trash bin.

·         Put healthy garden waste in the compost bin beside the garage.

·         Sanitize your garden tools, tomato cages, etc.

·         If you want, dig in dead leaves to fertilize.

Better care now makes a healthier garden next year!

This Little Light of Mine after Charlottesville ~ The poem Catherine S read at the Labor of love Meeting for Worship has been published. To access the poem, visit the link below and follow instructions to access an internal link. The poem is in page 9 of the publication. http://indymenno.org/2017/11/power-fall-issue-of-mennoexpressions/ Enjoy!

Ecumenical Thanksgiving ~ Tuesday evening, November 21st at 7:00 is the date and time set for our annual Shalom Zone Ecumenical Thanksgiving Service, this year at St. Pius X Catholic Church (7200 Sarto Dr, Indianapolis, IN 46240). Everyone is welcome! First Friends, Cross and Crown, Allisonville Christian, and St. Pius congregations will join together in worship and song, as we give thanks to God for the many gifts and graces we receive. Join us in thanksgiving!

Grief Gathering on Sunday November 26th after Meeting for Worship - Circle of Care is hosting a lunch and discussion for those who have experienced a loss of a family member or cherished friend.  This lunch and time together is a tangible way our Meeting is demonstrating our care for each other during times of sadness.  We will also be featuring guest speaker Dan Mosley, author of Lose, Love, Live: The Spiritual Gifts of Loss and Change. We invite anyone that is interested in gathering with others to share and reflect on the experience of loss. Feel free to bring any family members. Please contact the office (office@indyfriends.org) if you plan to attend.  This event is hosted by our Circle of Care.

Greening the Statehouse ~ Don't miss the largest annual gathering of environmentally-minded citizens in the state! It will be held Saturday, December 2nd, 9am-4pm at the Hendricks County Fairgrounds! Greening the Statehouse (#GTS2017) will be a day full of opportunities to become a better advocate for the environment, public health, and a sustainable economy. This year GTS will be a day of how-to’s: how to organize in your community, how to engage with lawmakers, how to communicate with the media, and so many more; we will focus on practical and necessary skills that should be in every advocate’s toolbox! Don't miss out on the chance to get informed and inspired by Mitch Hescox, one of the most well-known conservative advocates for the environment in the country, who is working tirelessly to engage Americans across the political and faith spectrum. Tickets are $25 each ($10 students). For more information and to register, please visit www.hecweb.org/get-involved/gts2017.  

Vespers Annual Concert~ On Sunday, December 3 at 5:00 pm we invite you to attend our annual Vespers concert, that will preview the many talented musicians, singers, and artists of our Meeting. Our choir and hand bell choir have been practicing hard for this concert, and it should be quite a delight. Following the concert there will be a complimentary light buffet, hosted by our Fellowship Committee. Plan to join us for the evening!

Christmas Calendar at First Friends Meeting

December 3rd

‘Royal Sensation Choir’ in Meeting

Vespers at 5:00pm

Complimentary Light Buffet following concert

December 10th

Christmas Tea just following Worship

Christmas Caroling

December 17th

Children’s Christmas Pageant in Meeting

Take your poinsettias home!

December 24th

Unprogrammed worship in the Parlor at 10:15am

Christmas Eve Service at 5:30 pm