Friend to Friend - March 18th

Concerns, Announcements and Devotional Thought

A Weekly Ministry of Indianapolis First Friends Meeting

As Way Opens by Ruthie Tippin

Yesterday, we celebrated St. Patrick’s Day, honoring the patron saint of Ireland.  Tomorrow, many people will celebrate St. Joseph’s Day, in honor of the husband of Mary. Catholics honor St. Francis of Assisi on October 4th.  “Most saints and holy people have specially designated feast days. On those days we remember these holy men and women in a special way.  Catholic saints are holy people and human people who lived extraordinary lives. Each saint the Church honors responded to God's invitation to use his or her unique gifts. God calls each one of us to be a saint.” (www.americancatholic.org)

Who are the Quaker saints?  Who do we consider to be saints among us?  Rufus Jones gives us a wonderful answer, and Dan Lee shared it with us this past Sunday as he shared Rufus’ life with us in Meeting: A little Quaker girl asked a simple question… ‘What is a saint?’ The girl had visited a Catholic church with her aunt that had beautiful stained glass windows depicting saints, so different from the ordinary glass windows in her Meeting House. The little girl finally figured out the answer to her own question… a saint is someone who lets the light shine through. 

Let the Light shine through!  Today and every day of the year!  ‘In the same way, let your light shine before others, that they may see your good deeds and glorify God in heaven.’    

Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Join us to see our talented Friends perform here at First Friends this Saturday, March 21st at 7:00 pm in the Talent Show! The show is free to attend and refreshments will be provided. Jim and Leslie Kartholl will be premiering a song that Leslie has written, the Mighty Fearless Friends: Side by Side will be singing and dancing, several of our kids will be performing, Eric and Carolyn Tinsley will be reviving the act they performed 15 years ago, plus many others....

Mark your calendars for ‘A Friend from Guatemala’ on Saturday, March 28th at 7:00 pm. Iglesia Amigos of Indianapolis will be hosting a concert right here at First Friends with Pianist Jonatan Pinto. Jonatan was taught a love of God and music from his parents, Samuel Pinto and Alma Castañeda de Pinto, who are both pastors of Guatemala Yearly Meeting of Friends. He is the director and founder of “Centro Musical Base” in Chiquimula, Guatemala, which is an Academy of Music with more than a hundred students.

Easter is right around the corner! The order forms for Easter flowers will be available this Sunday. We’ll be offering a variety of flowers, including Easter Lilies, Daffodils, Hydrangeas and more. We need to place the order by Wednesday, March 25th, so please turn them in as soon as you can!

Goodies are needed for the Easter Egg hunt! Please bring in goodies to fill the eggs! All candy must be individually wrapped, but we’d love to fill the eggs with other items as well, erasers, stickers, etc. There will be a basket in the hallway to put donations. All donations are appreciated! 

“Beliefs divide us. Values unite us.” You are invited to a book talk and signing with Jeff Rasley, author of Godless – Living a Valuable Life Beyond Beliefs at Butler University on Monday, March 23 at 7:00 pm in the Eidson-Duckwall Recital Hall. Snacks will be provided and copies of the book will be available.

Adult Sunday School Classes:  Did you know that Quakers are talking about Quakers?  Two or our three adults classes are discussing Quakers, and you’re invited to join in!  Quakerism Class is discussing the life and writings of Rufus Jones, and meets in the Parlor.  Seeking Friends is moving through “Quakers in America” by Thomas Hamm.  And of course, Quakers are discussing current events with ‘Wired Word’ in Coffee Circle.  Great stuff, with great people!  Join in!

41,000 Stamps!  West Newton Friends waited ‘til after Christmas, and then sent a HUGE box of stamps to Right Sharing of World Resources!  Each of those old stamps we throw away mean life giving support for people around the world.  Please bring them to First Friends for Right Sharing. There is a collection area in Fellowship Hall.

Do you have any furniture that you are hoping to unload, but have been unable to bring it to First Friends for the Rummage Sale on April 18th? The Preschool Co-Op will has 1 more furniture pick-up day where they will come to you on April 11th - between 11am-1pm. Please email to Ashli Pettibone (ashli.pettibone@gmail.com) the item(s) you are needing picked up, the preferred day, and your approximate location/side of town.  We will get a schedule together and let you know a more specific time of pick-up closer to the date.

Good news for Gardeners! This year’s garden advisor will be the Master Gardeners Help Line. See a bug? See fungus or blight? Take a sample of the offender to a Master Gardener at the State Fair Grounds and find out what to do. Linda Lee needs to know from last year’s community gardeners if they want to keep their plots. Each plot owner will be held accountable for their own weeds and for notifying the coordinator if advice or assistance is needed. Please post your name prominently at your site so we know that site is wanted and not to be assigned to a new gardener. There will be some paint available to mark the wooden frames. This year, as a group we need to finish cleaning up all the debris from last year’s blight and then plant only blight resistant tomatoes in a different place. Garden clean up should begin now, and early planting of peas, kale, soon followed by arugula, radishes, lettuce can begin soon.. New gardeners, let Linda Lee know ASAP. Her goal as organizer is happy gardeners proud of their healthy, well-tended, productive garden. We will need a schedule of people responsible for mowing between the raised beds. If we want a community section, then we need a schedule of gardeners responsible for hoeing, weeding, watering, disease monitoring and harvesting that garden on a regular basis. Contact Linda Lee at 317-465-0628 or email parapluie@ameritech.net.

Women’s Self Defense Course. A colleague of Anna Riley’s teaches a 2 hour Women’s Self Defense course and would be glad to teach a group of us on a Sunday or Saturday in April. Cost $10. Please contact Anna Riley if interested by phone or email, 317-506-4970 or biscuitmila@gmail.com and provide dates and times that you are available. Teenagers welcome if accompanied by their mothers.

Ladies!  Oak Leaf: Meeting for Reading will be discussing Ian McEwan’s The Children Act on Tuesday March, the 31st, at 7 pm in the Parlor. If you would like to be on the email list or need a copy of the book list for 2015, please contact Kathy Rhyne at kathyrichelle@yahoo.com. A Walk in the Woods, by Bill Bryson is our upcoming book for April 28th.

Friend to Friend - March 11th

Concerns, Announcements and Devotional Thought

A Weekly Ministry of Indianapolis First Friends Meeting

As Way Opens  by Ruthie Tippin

I was sickened this week to learn of young men gathered in their fraternity, raising their voices in spirited chorus with racist intent.  It is doubtful that a chapter of SAE on the University of Oklahoma is the only place in our country where this kind of behavior occurs.  Doubtful, and alarming.  How many more persons are chanting, singing songs of exclusion and hatred?  And not just in frat houses, but homes of their own, businesses, public gathering places.  What terrifies me is not those who are making their voices heard, but those who are not making a sound.  The Irish statesman Edmund Burke once wrote, “All tyranny needs to gain a foothold is for people of good conscience to remain silent.’  Those who refuse to stand for and with the oppressed, who remain silent in the face of cruelty are worse than those who shout and sing of hatred.

Friends are well known for our concerns for the oppressed, for peace and justice, for freedom of conscience.  “What canst thou say?” asked Margaret Fell.  What can we say to a world full of vitriol and hatred?  What light do we have to bring to this furious darkness?  For me, the light we bring is the question we dare to ask… “Who do you love?” No matter what the response, no matter the person named, we must affirm that someone loves the ‘other’, the hated, the oppressed, the belittled person, just as they love. Often times, we’ll discover that the person questioned loves no one – not even themselves.  Ah, but they are loved… by Someone.  Can we say that?  Can we speak of love where only hatred has been sung?  Can we dare to bring powerful voices of love, meaningful experiences of care, deep understanding of compassion from God to others?  We can’t afford not to. 

Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Rufus Jones is visiting First Friends Meeting for Worship this Sunday, March 15th.  Don’t miss this chance to hear from one of the most insightful Friends of our recent past, and to share in worship and experience with him.  We’re so glad the trains from Haverford are still running!

Day of Remembrance this Sunday: As we look toward the celebration of Christ’s resurrection this Easter, we have made it our custom to remember those who have passed from this life into God’s presence during the last year.  We will remember them this Sunday with a candlelighting service.

Our choir director and organist, Shawn Porter, is celebrating his 50th birthday on March 13th. You are all invited to share in the celebration during Fellowship Hour this Sunday, where the choir will be providing cake. Be sure and wish him a Happy Birthday!

Monthly Meeting for Business is this Sunday following Meeting for Worship! Last Month’s Meeting Minutes are attached for your review.

The Affirmation class will be visiting Beth-El-Zedeck synagogue for their service on Friday March 13th.   We invite anyone to join us that is interested in experiencing a Jewish service and to speak with one of their leaders afterwards.  We will meet at Beth-El Zedeck (600 West 70th St) at 5:45 as their service starts at 6:00.  The service will last about 75 minutes.  We will meet with George Kelly, Religious Education Director after the service to have a question and answer time as we learn more about Judaism.  If you would like to travel from the Meeting, we will assemble at First Friends at 5:00 p.m and drive over together.  Let Beth Henricks (beth.henricks@indyfriends.org) know if you want to join us.

Join us for an Eco-Film Series here at First Friends, at 7p.m. on the second Friday of each month through April. The next one is Friday, March 13th at 7p.m. called “Til The River Runs Clear”. This is the story of the grassroots effort to clean up the Hudson River.  An amazing story led by folksinger Pete Seeger and the tireless advocacy of a community to return a river to its once wondrous beauty. An inspirational account of activism at its best. (30 minutes.)

Join us for the first 2015 Woods Work day, this Saturday, March 14th from 9 am-12 noon! We're inviting everyone to join us as we continue to care for our Meditational Woods. This year, we will concentrate on eliminating non-native invasives like amur honeysuckle and wintercreeper ground cover. These plants take over the area and crowd out the native plants that feed our birds and insects. After removing these invasive invaders, we will be planting native species to improve our biodiversity.  All volunteers are welcome.  We welcome any volunteers who would rather make some healthy snacks instead of digging weeds.  Bring some tools and a cheerful spirit and we will have fun while we work.  If it’s raining, please call Mary Blackburn or Mindy Sommer to see if it’s cancelled. Future 2015 workdays are as follows: April 18, May 9, September 26, and November 7.

Easter is right around the corner! The order forms for Easter flowers will be available this Sunday. We’ll be offering a variety of flowers, including Easter Lilies, Daffodils, Hydrangeas and more. We need to place the order by Wednesday, March 25th, so please turn them in as soon as you can!

Goodies are needed for the Easter Egg hunt! Please bring in goodies to fill the eggs! All candy must be individually wrapped, but we’d love to fill the eggs with other items as well, erasers, stickers, etc. There will be a basket in the hallway to put donations. All donations are appreciated! 

Community Garden - Is there a Friendly person willing to be an advisor to the people who will organize and carry out community garden efforts this year? Advice is needed about how to prepare the garden for planting, natural fertilizers, and tomato blight for starters. The advisor does not need to have a garden plot, just knowledge of gardening. Please contact Linda Lee at pennyroyal@ameritech.net if you are the person.

Women’s Self Defense Course. A colleague of Anna Riley’s teaches a 2 hour Women’s Self Defense course and would be glad to teach a group of us on a Sunday or Saturday in April. Cost $10. Please contact Anna Riley if interested by phone or email, 317-506-4970 or biscuitmila@gmail.com and provide dates and times that you are available. Teenagers welcome if accompanied by their mothers.

The next Poetry Group gathering is at 2pm on Tuesday, March 17th. Jim Winters will present ‘Life and Poetry of T. S. Eliot’. All are welcome to join this discussion-style group.

Join us to see our talented Friends perform here at First Friends on Saturday, March 21st at 7:00 pm in the Talent Show! The show is free to attend and refreshments will be provided. If you want to participate in the show, please contact Beth Henricks at beth.henricks@indyfriends.org and let her know.

Mark your calendars for ‘A Friend from Guatemala’ on Saturday, March 28th at 7:00 pm. Iglesia Amigos of Indianapolis will be hosting a concert right here at First Friends with Pianist Jonatan Pinto. Jonatan was taught a love of God and music from his parents, Samuel Pinto and Alma Castañeda de Pinto, who are both pastors of Guatemala Yearly Meeting of Friends. He is the director and founder of “Centro Musical Base” in Chiquimula, Guatemala, which is an Academy of Music with more than a hundred students.

Ladies!  Oak Leaf: Meeting for Reading will be discussing Ian McEwan’s The Children Act on Tuesday March, the 31st, at 7 pm in the Parlor. If you would like to be on the email list or need a copy of the book list for 2015, please contact Kathy Rhyne at kathyrichelle@yahoo.com. A Walk in the Woods, by Bill Bryson is our upcoming book for April 28th.

Friend to Friend - March 4th

Concerns, Announcements and Devotional Thought

A Weekly Ministry of Indianapolis First Friends Meeting

As Way Opens  by Beth Henricks

I have been studying the history of Christianity as I pursue my Divinity degree at Earlham School of Religion.  Our particular topic of review in the last 2 weeks has been the Reformation period (1500's) and the dramatic changes that occurred within the Church and the State.  It was a time where Church and State were not separated so theology became the basis of wars, skirmishes and takeover of territories.   Reforming the Catholic Church was under way before Martin Luther posted his 95 theses.  At first, Luther thought he was just working to turn the Catholic Church back to its original form.  Many other leaders of the Catholic Church had seen the problems of the Church of the late Middle Ages and hoped reform would come from within.   But Luther's two big theological threats; was Jesus Christ physically present in the bread and wine of communion and how does God gives us grace (do we have any part in accepting grace or does the depravity of our sinful nature prevent us from any action in this act of grace) changed the reform from a tolerant approach of the theologian Erasmus to the hard line approach of Loyola, several Popes and the Spanish Inquisition.  

In periods of danger and war, a hard line approach usually wins out over gentler and kinder people.  A tragedy of the Reformation period might be the path of reform within the Catholic Church that could have been carried out without the need to defend the threat of Protestanism?  It also points me back to the message of Jesus and what hard line approaches I might take that are really opposite of his message.  Holding so tightly to our theological beliefs never leaves room for those cracks of Light and Love that need to break through.  

May we create the space for the crack of Light to shine into our lives today.

Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Paul Riley is speaking in Meeting for Worship this Sunday! Paul is a recorded minister among Friends and along with his wife, Helena, has attended First Friends off and on since 1958. Don’t miss this opportunity to hear him speak. Daylight Savings Time begins this Sunday, so make sure you set your clocks one hour ahead before you go to bed Saturday night!!!

Church Women United: Every year, on the first Friday of March, women around the world join together to pray for the peoples of the world.  It is a worldwide ecumenical event that focuses on prayerful action in the world. The service is written by women of a different country each year – this year, by the World Day of Prayer group of the Bahamas. WDP gatherings promote justice and equality for women through prayer, service, scripture, worship and celebration.   Men and women – all people – are invited to join together in prayer. Friday, March 6th, Union Chapel United Methodist at 10:00 am in English and Friday, March 6th, Allisonville Christian Church at 7:30 pm in Spanish and English.

Please join us for Community Soup this Friday, March 6th, anytime between 5:30 – 7:00 p.m.  Enjoy soups, bread, and dessert in a relaxed atmosphere.  No cooking, no dishwashing, and no charge.

It’s Time to Retreat!  Are you going?  If not… pray for those who are!  Have you ever been to Quaker Haven?  Many of us have, and we all have a chance to go next week… for the Western Yearly Meeting Retreat, March 6 & 7.  Friends will gather from all parts of Indiana and Western Illinois for an overnight stay, worship, fun, and the challenges that Jim Griffith* will bring as our speaker.  Vision and Vitality will be served generously!  Come and join Beth and Ruthie… we hope to have a great crowd from First Friends. WYM Pastors Retreat follows immediately afterward, on Saturday evening and Sunday. See the brochure, found at http://westernym.net/pdf/2015WinterRetreat.pdf!

The Affirmation class will be visiting Beth-El-Zedeck synagogue for their service on Friday March 13th.   We invite anyone to join us that is interested in experiencing a Jewish service and to speak with one of their leaders afterwards.  We will meet at Beth-El Zedeck (600 West 70th St) at 5:45 as their service starts at 6:00.  The service will last about 75 minutes.  We will meet with George Kelly, Religious Education Director after the service to have a question and answer time as we learn more about Judaism.  If you would like to travel from the Meeting, we will assemble at First Friends at 5:00 p.m and drive over together.  Let Beth Henricks (beth.henricks@indyfriends.org) know if you want to join us.

Join us for an Eco-Film Series here at First Friends, at 7p.m. on the second Friday of each month through April. The next one is Friday, March 13th at 7p.m. called “Til The River Runs Clear”. This is the story of the grassroots effort to clean up the Hudson River.  An amazing story led by folksinger Pete Seeger and the tireless advocacy of a community to return a river to its once wondrous beauty. An inspirational account of activism at its best. (30 minutes.)

Join us for the first 2015 Woods Work day, March 14th from 9 am-12 noon! We're inviting everyone to join us as we continue to care for our Meditational Woods.  This year, we will concentrate on eliminating non-native invasives like amur honeysuckle and wintercreeper ground cover. These plants take over the area and crowd out the native plants that feed our birds and insects. After removing these invasive invaders, we will be planting native species to improve our biodiversity.  All volunteers are welcome.  We welcome any volunteers who would rather make some healthy snacks instead of digging weeds.  Bring some tools and a cheerful spirit and we will have fun while we work.  Future 2015 workdays are as follows: April 18, May 9, September 26, and November 7.

Because of heavy snow last Sunday, Rufus Jones will visit First Friends Meeting for Worship on Sunday, March 15th.  Don’t miss this chance to hear from one of the most insightful Friends of our recent past, and to share in worship and experience with him.  We’re so glad the trains from Haverford are still running!

The next Poetry Group gathering is at 2pm on Tuesday, March 17th. Jim Winters will present ‘Life and Poetry of T. S. Eliot’. All are welcome to join this discussion-style group.

Do you have a talent you want to share? Saturday, March 21st is the date of the First Friends Meeting Talent Show! Vicki Wertz and Beth Henricks are our “Talent Scouts”. Please contact Beth Henricks at beth.henricks@indyfriends.org and let her know that you want to participate. Start polishing those dancing shoes, and warming up your vocal cords… or preparing whatever talent you may have!

The Preschool Co-op is hosting a Rummage Sale here at First Friends on April 18th!!! They are organizing and hosting the event themselves, but we will share in the proceeds. We are asking our members/attenders to bring in items for sale as they are cleaning out closets, cupboards and garages.  We will accept all items (except no drop side cribs, car seats or bumbo seats).   Please start bringing in your items and place them in the unused Sunday School room with the sign that says Rummage Sale.

Friend to Friend - February 25th

Concerns, Announcements and Devotional Thought

A Weekly Ministry of Indianapolis First Friends Meeting

As Way Opens by Beth Henricks

This past Sunday evening, millions of people gathered around their TV's or computers to watch the Oscars.  John Legend and Common won the best song for Glory, the song from the movie Selma.  It was a powerful performance as they recreated the Edmund Pettus bridge in Selma that Dr King and others walked across.  I have attached the link for you to view this performance.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HgDTvj3W87M 

This is a wonderful movie that shows a very personal side of Dr King.   I was particularly taken with how Dr King tried to discern what to do in each step of the civil rights struggle.  When it was decided to plan the march across the bridge at Selma, the local leaders in the city filed an injunction in the court system to prevent this from happening. This injunction was sitting on the judge's desk with no decision having been made the day of the march.  Folks gathered with Dr King on that day and started to march but things turned violent quickly.  Dr King made a decision to turn back.  Other leaders in the movement were furious and disappointed with him.  They felt this decision was a terrible strategy, disappointed folks that had traveled a distance for the march, and made them look weak.  There is a dramatic moment on the bridge when Dr King is trying to discern the path forward and he is on his knees and one could almost feel the presence of God speaking to him.  He heard the Spirit and followed the leading.  It turned out to be the right decision as they planned a second march after the judge ruled in their favor giving them the right to assemble and walk across the bridge.  And the images of violence against these innocent folks on the bridge reverberated throughout the world.

Sometimes following God's voice is difficult.  Others might not understand the leading.  Sometimes we have to move alone and against the tide.  As the movie depicted so well, following God's leadings can be lonely and full of heartbreak.  But this is how God speaks and moves in this world - through each one of us listening to the Spirit and following the leadings.  

The Quaker practice of silent worship is a great discipline for this art of listening to God.  It is the most important time that we spend individually and collectively.  Creating the time and space for listening is crucial to feeling and hearing God's presence and to travel fully alive and involved in this journey of our life. 

Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Rufus Jones is Coming to Meeting for Worship this Sunday! Don’t miss this opportunity to hear one of the leading Quakers of the 19th and 20th Centuries at First Friends Meeting.  And it won’t be the first time…  Rufus presented his paper, ‘Shall there be a Central Body?’ at the Third Quinqennial (Five Years Meeting) Conference of Friends at First Friends in 1897.  He has lots to share with us all!   

If anyone is available at 2 pm this Sunday to help, we are moving our Changing Footprints shoe room from first floor to third floor (we just received notice of this required move).  We will have carts to move the boxes of shoes up an elevator.  We are at 9302 N. Meridian, Suite 194, which is the NW corner of 93rd and N. Meridian.  Please contact Carol Donahue at 317-753-4549 if you can help.   Thanks.

Church Women United: Every year, on the first Friday of March, women around the world join together to pray for the peoples of the world.  It is a worldwide ecumenical event that focuses on prayerful action in the world. The service is written by women of a different country each year – this year, by the World Day of Prayer group of the Bahamas. WDP gatherings promote justice and equality for women through prayer, service, scripture, worship and celebration.   Men and women – all people – are invited to join together in prayer. Friday, March 6th, Union Chapel United Methodist at 10:00 am in English and Friday, March 6th, Allisonville Christian Church at 7:30 pm in Spanish and English

Please join us for Community Soup on Friday, March 6th, anytime between 5:30 – 7:00 p.m.  Enjoy soups, bread, and dessert in a relaxed atmosphere.  No cooking, no dishwashing, and no charge.

It’s Time to Retreat!  Have you ever been to Quaker Haven?  Many of us have, and we all have a chance to go next month… for the Western Yearly Meeting Retreat, March 6 & 7.  Friends will gather from all parts of Indiana and Western Illinois for an overnight stay, worship, fun, and the challenges that Jim Griffith* will bring as our speaker.  Vision and Vitality will be served generously!  Come and join Beth and Ruthie… we hope to have a great crowd from First Friends. Register now for best prices.  See the brochure, found at http://westernym.net/pdf/2015WinterRetreat.pdf!  Send it in pronto!

Join us for an Eco-Film Series here at First Friends, at 7p.m. on the second Friday of each month through April. The next one is Friday, March 13th at 7p.m. called “Til The River Runs Clear”. The story of the grassroots effort to clean up the Hudson River.  An amazing story led by folksinger Pete Seeger and the tireless advocacy of a community to return a river to its once wondrous beauty. An inspirational account of activism at its best. (30 minutes.)

Join us for the first 2015 Woods Work day, March 14th from 9 am-12 noon! We're inviting everyone to join us as we continue to care for our Meditational Woods.  The mission of the Woods is to provide a place where people can experience nature in a peaceful urban setting.  It is a benefit for the Meeting as well as the community. This year, we will concentrate on eliminating non-native invasives like amur honeysuckle and wintercreeper ground cover. These plants take over the area and crowd out the native plants that feed our birds and insects. After removing these invasive invaders, we will be planting native species to improve our biodiversity.  All volunteers are welcome.  We welcome any volunteers who would rather make some healthy snacks instead of digging weeds.  Bring some tools and a cheerful spirit and we will have fun while we work.  Work times are 9- 12 noon and snacks will be provided. Future 2015 workdays are as follows: April 18, May 9, September 26, and November 7.

Do you have a talent you want to share? Saturday, March 21st is the date of the First Friends Meeting Talent Show! Vicki Wertz and Beth Henricks are our “Talent Scouts”. Please contact Beth Henricks at beth.henricks@indyfriends.org and let her know that you want to participate. Start polishing those dancing shoes, and warming up your vocal cords… or preparing whatever talent you may have!

The Preschool Co-op is hosting a Rummage Sale here at First Friends on April 18th!!! They are organizing and hosting the event themselves, but we will share in the proceeds. We are asking our members/attenders to bring in items for sale as they are cleaning out closets, cupboards and garages.  We will accept all items (except no drop side cribs, car seats or bumbo seats).   Please start bringing in your items and place them in the unused Sunday School room with the sign that says Rummage Sale.

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Friend to Friend - February 18th

Concerns, Announcements and Devotional Thought

A Weekly Ministry of Indianapolis First Friends Meeting

As Way Opens  by Ruthie Tippin

Where are you in the circle of your days? For many, this day is a holy day of fasting called Ash Wednesday and marks the first day of Lent. Remembering Jesus’ 40 days in the wilderness, Lent is observed with 40 days of fasting, plus 6 feast days (Sundays) leading up to Christ’s resurrection – Easter Sunday. Ash Wednesday is named for the ashes blessed from the burning of the previous year’s palm branches strewn on Palm Sunday, with the words ‘Remember that you are dust, and to dust you shall return.’ [Genesis 3:19b]

For Quakers, today is Fourth Day.  While we acknowledge the separate marking of days by others for certain holy ritual, Quakers hold that each day brings the same power, goodness, and presence of God as any other.  Ash Wednesday, Maundy Thursday, Good Friday, and Easter Sunday are all remarkable in that, while they mark certain times and occasions in the life, suffering, death, and resurrection of Jesus, they have equal place with any other day held in God’s hand.  What does this mean?  Next Wednesday, any Wednesday, is a Wednesday we should remember that we are taken from the dust of the ground – and that to dust we will return.  What will we do then, with the life we have been given?  Each day – First Day through Seventh Day – are days to consider the circle of days given in a week, a month, a year, a lifetime - and to offer thanks to God for power, for presence, for purpose. 

Reeve Lindbergh, American writer and teacher, has adapted the text of the “Canticle of the Sun” by Saint Francis of Assisi (1182-1226) to create this gentle and lovely prayer of thanksgiving and praise. Here is an excerpt from his poem ‘The Circle of Days” https://wordverseuniverse.wordpress.com/2013/09/28/the-circle-of-days-lindbergh-st-francis/

Lord, we offer thanks and praise

For the circle of our days….

For all your gifts, of every kind,

We offer praise with quiet mind.

Be with us, Lord, and guide our ways

Around the circle of our days.

Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Monthly Meeting for Business is this Sunday following Meeting for Worship! All are welcome to join us in discussion of Meeting business.

Get comfort at First Friends with comfort food. Join us for a “Seasoned Friends” Luncheon (for retirement age or older!) on Tuesday, February 24th at 11:30am! Bill & Kathy Farris will be providing meatloaf sandwiches, tomato soup and macaroni and cheese; feel free to bring a dessert to share if you’d like! Also, bring your favorite game and stay after lunch to play games. Please RSVP to the Meeting Office at 255-2485 by Thursday, February 19th. We'd love to see you!

Ladies!  Oak Leaf: Meeting for Reading will be discussing Leif Enger’s Peace Like A River on Tuesday February, the 24th, at 7 pm in the Parlor.   If you would like to be on the email list or need a copy of the book list for 2015, please contact Kathy Rhyne at kathyrichelle@yahoo.com. The Children Act, by Ian McEwan is our upcoming book for March 31st.

It’s Time to Retreat!  Have you ever been to Quaker Haven?  Many of us have, and we all have a chance to go next month… for the Western Yearly Meeting Retreat, March 6 & 7.  Friends will gather from all parts of Indiana and Western Illinois for an overnight stay, worship, fun, and the challenges that Jim Griffith* will bring as our speaker.  Vision and Vitality will be served generously!  Come and join Beth and Ruthie… we hope to have a great crowd from First Friends. Register now for best prices.  See the brochure, found at http://westernym.net/pdf/2015WinterRetreat.pdf!  Send it in pronto!

Do you have a talent you want to share? Saturday, March 21st is the date of the First Friends Meeting Talent Show! Vicki Wertz and Beth Henricks are our “Talent Scouts”. Please contact Beth Henricks at beth.henricks@indyfriends.org and let her know that you want to participate. Start polishing those dancing shoes, and warming up your vocal cords… or preparing whatever talent you may have!

Church Women United: Every year, on the first Friday of March, women around the world join together to pray for the peoples of the world.  It is a worldwide ecumenical event that focuses on prayerful action in the world. The service is written by women of a different country each year – this year, by the World Day of Prayer group of the Bahamas. WDP gatherings promote justice and equality for women through prayer, service, scripture, worship and celebration.   Men and women – all people – are invited to join together in prayer. Friday, March 6th, Union Chapel United Methodist at 10:00 am in English and Friday, March 6th, Allisonville Christian Church at 7:30 pm in Spanish and English

The newest ‘Befriending Creation’ is out! The hard copy is available on the bulletin board in Fellowship Hall, in our recycle corner, or you can view it online at http://www.quakerearthcare.org. One of the articles in the newsletter focuses on the Quaker Statement on Climate Change. “Quaker Earthcare Witness (QEW), the Quaker United Nations Office (QUNO), and Friends Committee on National Legislation (FCNL) have developed a joint statement on facing the challenge of climate change. We invite all Monthly and Yearly Meetings and other Quaker organizations to join the statement. The text of the statement and an accompanying letter can be found on our website at: http://www.quakerearthcare.org/article/jan-2015-facing-challenge-climate-change-shared-statement-quaker-groups.”

The Preschool Co-op is hosting a Rummage Sale here at First Friends on April 18th!!! They are organizing and hosting the event themselves, but we will share in the proceeds. We are asking our members/attenders to bring in items for sale as they are cleaning out closets, cupboards and garages.  We will accept all items (except no drop side cribs, car seats or bumbo seats).   Please start bringing in your items and place them in the unused Sunday School room with the sign that says Rummage Sale.

Friend to Friend - February 11th

                 Friend to Friend

Concerns, Announcements and Devotional Thought

A Weekly Ministry of Indianapolis First Friends Meeting

As Way Opens  by Beth Henricks

I have become a big fan of Thomas Merton the great mystic writer and monk (http://www.thomasmertonsociety.org.uk/).  The following quote is posted on my bulletin board and speaks to my condition.  "My Lord God, I have no idea where I am going.  I do not see the road ahead of me.  I cannot know for certain where it will end.  Nor do I really know myself, and the fact that I think that I am following your will does not mean that I am actually doing so.  But I believe that the desire to please you does in fact please you.  And I hope I have that desire in all that I am doing.  I hope that I will never do anything apart from that desire. And I know that if I do this you will lead me by the right road, though I may know nothing about it.  Therefore will I trust you always, though I may seem lost and in the shadow of death.  I will not fear, for you are ever with me, and you will never leave me to face my perils alone."

As we approach Valentine’s Day, isn't it amazing to contemplate the immense and glorious love of God?  It is this unconditional love of God that cries with us through our perils, laughs with us through our funny moments and beams with us through our joys.  I encourage all of us to wrap ourselves in this knowledge this week and feel this Love.

Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Be an Usher in 2015! A great way to serve and meet people at Indianapolis First Friends Meeting is to become a Sunday usher. Ushers only need serve once a month. This duty is so beneficial, not only to the meeting each Sunday but also to the usher as well. An Individuals or an entire family that would like to usher or simply know more can sign up on the bulletin board in the hallway or contact Dan Linginfelter at dl@outsidesource.com for more information.

The next Poetry Group gathering is at 2pm on Tuesday, February 17th. Ruthie Tippin will present ‘Quaker Poets, Past and Present’. All are welcome to join this discussion-style group.

Join us for an Eco-Film Series here at First Friends, at 7p.m. on the second Friday of each month from February- April. The first one is Friday, February 13th at 7p.m. called “Silent Spring”. It is the story of Rachel Carson and the battle over her groundbreaking work “Silent Spring”.  Carson and her research were savagely attacked by the chemical industry but Carson would not be silenced. A powerful story that sparked a revolution in environmental policy and inspired a generation to activism. (55 minutes.  http://www.silentspringmovie.com)  

Get comfort at First Friends with comfort food. Join us for a “Seasoned Friends” Luncheon (for retirement age or older!) on Tuesday, February 24th at 11:30am! Bill & Kathy Farris will be providing meatloaf sandwiches, tomato soup and macaroni and cheese; feel free to bring a dessert to share if you’d like! Also, bring your favorite game and stay after lunch to play games. Please RSVP to the Meeting Office at 255-2485 by Thursday, February 19th. We'd love to see you!

It’s Time to Retreat!  Have you ever been to Quaker Haven?  Many of us have, and we all have a chance to go next month… for the Western Yearly Meeting Retreat, March 6 & 7.  Friends will gather from all parts of Indiana and Western Illinois for an overnight stay, worship, fun, and the challenges that Jim Griffith* will bring as our speaker.  Vision and Vitality will be served generously!  Come and join Beth and Ruthie… we hope to have a great crowd from First Friends. Register now for best prices.  See the brochure, found at http://westernym.net/pdf/2015WinterRetreat.pdf!  Send it in pronto!

Church Women United: Every year, on the first Friday of March, women around the world join together to pray for the peoples of the world.  It is a worldwide ecumenical event that focuses on prayerful action in the world. The service is written by women of a different country each year – this year, by the World Day of Prayer group of the Bahamas. WDP gatherings promote justice and equality for women through prayer, service, scripture, worship and celebration.   Men and women – all people – are invited to join together in prayer. Friday, March 6th, Union Chapel United Methodist at 10:00 am in English and Friday, March 6th, Allisonville Christian Church at 7:30 pm in Spanish and English

Picture yourself as the artist seated at our newly-refurbished Steinway piano in the Meetingroom!  That opportunity has now presented itself!  If you relish the chance to minister to Meeting for Worship through music, the Music Committee is seeking musicians to play the Steinway either for special music or the offertory. If this speaks to your condition, contact Mindy Sommer by email at mcs16zoom@gmail.com. She will want to know the date you’d like to play, as well as whether you would like to play during the offering or as special music. Amanda from the office will contact you subsequently for the name of the piece you will play and to confirm the date.

Save The Date!  Saturday, March 21st! First Friends Meeting Talent Show! Vicki Wertz and Beth Henricks are our “Talent Scouts”.  Susan Rains is our “Hostess with the Mostest”.  Start polishing those dancing shoes, and warming up your vocal cords… or preparing whatever talent you may have!

The Preschool Co-op is hosting a Rummage Sale here at First Friends on April 18th!!! They are organizing and hosting the event themselves, but we will share in the proceeds. We are asking our members/attenders to bring in items for sale as they are cleaning out closets, cupboards and garages.  We will accept all items (except no drop side cribs, car seats or bumbo seats).   Please start bringing in your items and place them in the unused Sunday School room with the sign that says Rummage Sale.

Friend to Friend - February 4th

Concerns, Announcements and Devotional Thought

A Weekly Ministry of Indianapolis First Friends Meeting

As Way Opens by Ruthie Tippin

Stefon Harris is a great musician… a great jazz artist.  And he has something to say to all of us… with his mallets and marimba.  It’s all about wrong notes – those mistakes that come in life – the things that we don’t understand, that just don’t fit, that we don’t know quite how to cope with.  Stefon’s answer?  Make the mistake part of the music!  Use the strange sound to add to your life, rather than thinking it diminishes it.  I’ve attached his Youtube video here, and urge you to watch (and listen!) to this great life lesson… I had sent it to Dan Moseley a while ago, and was pleased to have him share it with everyone this past Saturday at our morning session on “Hospitality”. 

Strange things happen in life.  Strange people come into our lives.  The only mistake we make, Dan says, is not adapting to them… not responding to strangers.  If we do, we will learn the sound of their voice, and what those strangers bring.  New ideas, new challenges, new encouragement, new gifts and talents, new energy… these are just some of the things strangers bring us.  Strangers help us see ourselves in new ways, and call us to new places.  The people and places we once feared in life become adventures, and help us learn how to live and change in the future, with passion and faith.  Using what we already know about ourselves, and trusting in the relationship with God that we already have, we can grow stronger by exercising our heart, mind, and strength in loving others… even those who are strangers to us.

Do these names sound familiar?  Doug and Amanda Fagan, Samantha Ryan, Cherie Spencer, Mary Ellen Lohr… If not, you are a stranger to them!  They have recently begun attending First Friends.  Let us dare to learn the sound of others’ voices, to discover what other persons bring to us, to grow and learn from strangers, and to show others that we are not strangers, but friends.  Let us continue to open up to new challenges, new energy, new insight, new leadings that can only come from new connections God brings us, as we create space for newness to enter… for God to enter.  Let us watch to see what God will look like – and sound like - as God continues to enter our lives.  Enjoy!

http://www.ted.com/talks/stefon_harris_there_are_no_mistakes_on_the_bandstand

Mark your calendars now for Dan Moseley’s next visit – April 25 and 26!

“Generosity – Creating Space to be Generous in Spirit”

Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

This Sunday, February 8th is Scout Sunday! Were you a Scout? Are your children? Please send the Scout’s name and troop number into the office for recognition. Also, we are looking for help from Scouts as greeters, ushers, and during Meeting! Please email office@indyfriends.org if you want to participate.

Be an Usher in 2015! A great way to serve and meet people at Indianapolis First Friends Meeting is to become a Sunday usher. Ushers only need serve once a month. This duty is so beneficial, not only to the meeting each Sunday but also to the usher as well. An Individuals or an entire family that would like to usher or simply know more can sign up on the bulletin board in the hallway or contact Dan Linginfelter at dl@outsidesource.com for more information.

Please join us for Community Soup this Friday, February 6th, anytime between 5:30 – 7:00 p.m.  Enjoy soups, bread, and dessert in a relaxed atmosphere.  No cooking, no dishwashing, and no charge.

Are you looking for a fun, innovative, play-based preschool for your child between the ages of 2-5? Meridian Street Co-op Preschool, located in the north wing of First Friends Meeting, will be holding an Open House on February 9th & 10th from 9:30-11:30am and will be open for enrollment for the 2015-2016 school year on a first-come, first-serve basis. imited spaces are available. You are welcome to come!

The next Poetry Group gathering is at 2pm on Tuesday, February 17th. All are welcome to join this discussion-style group.

Join us for an Eco-Film Series here at First Friends, at 7p.m. on the second Friday of each month from February- April. The first one is Friday, February 13th at 7p.m. called “Silent Spring”. It is the story of Rachel Carson and the battle over her groundbreaking work “Silent Spring”.  Carson and her research were savagely attacked by the chemical industry but Carson would not be silenced. A powerful story that sparked a revolution in environmental policy and inspired a generation to activism. (55 minutes.  http://www.silentspringmovie.com)  

Get comfort at First Friends with comfort food. Join us for a “Seasoned Friends” Luncheon (for retirement age or older!) on Tuesday, February 24th at 11:30am! Bill & Kathy Farris will be providing meatloaf sandwiches, tomato soup and macaroni and cheese; feel free to bring a dessert to share if you’d like! Also, bring your favorite game and stay after lunch to play games. Please RSVP to the Meeting Office at 255-2485 by Thursday, February 19th. We'd love to see you!

It’s Time to Retreat!  Have you ever been to Quaker Haven?  Many of us have, and we all have a chance to go next month… for the Western Yearly Meeting Retreat, March 6 & 7.  Friends will gather from all parts of Indiana and Western Illinois for an overnight stay, worship, fun, and the challenges that Jim Griffith* will bring as our speaker.  Vision and Vitality will be served generously!  Come and join Beth and Ruthie… we hope to have a great crowd from First Friends. Register now for best prices.  See the brochure, found at http://westernym.net/pdf/2015WinterRetreat.pdf!  Send it in pronto!

Picture yourself as the artist seated at our newly-refurbished Steinway piano in the Meetingroom!  That opportunity has now presented itself!  If you relish the chance to minister to Meeting for Worship through music, the Music Committee is seeking musicians to play the Steinway either for special music or the offertory. If this speaks to your condition, contact Mindy Sommer by email at mcs16zoom@gmail.com. She will want to know the date you’d like to play, as well as whether you would like to play during the offering or as special music. Amanda from the office will contact you subsequently for the name of the piece you will play and to confirm the date.

Save The Date!  Saturday, March 21st! First Friends Meeting Talent Show! Vicki Wertz and Beth Henricks are our “Talent Scouts”.  Susan Rains is our “Hostess with the Mostest”.  Start polishing those dancing shoes, and warming up your vocal cords… or preparing whatever talent you may have!

The Preschool Co-op is hosting a Rummage Sale here at First Friends on April 18th!!! They are organizing and hosting the event themselves, but we will share in the proceeds. We are asking our members/attenders to bring in items for sale as they are cleaning out closets, cupboards and garages.  We will accept all items (except no drop side cribs, car seats or bumbo seats).   Please start bringing in your items and place them in the unused Sunday School room with the sign that says Rummage Sale.

Friend to Friend - January 28th

Concerns, Announcements and Devotional Thought

A Weekly Ministry of Indianapolis First Friends Meeting

As Way Opens by Beth Henricks

I have been reading the biography of Lucretia Mott, called Valiant Friend by Margaret Hope Bacon.  I have always loved biographies because they give you depth and color of an individual's experience beyond the broad and highlighted events of their life.  Before reading this biography of Lucretia, I knew she was one of the great Quaker women in our history, but I didn't feel like I knew her and her experience.   

It was troubling to find out that many Quakers both Orthodox and Hicksite believed Lucretia was a heretic and troublemaker.  Many of these Quakers used the Bible to debate and refute Lucretia's passionate service to the cause of freeing slaves as well as the championing of women's rights.  There are many verses in the Old and New Testament that validate and describe the idea of slavery as common practice and allowed by God. (Here are a few - Genesis 17:9-13, Proverbs 29:21, Numbers 31:25-47,Proverbs 19:10, Ephesians 6:5, Colossians 3:22, I Timothy 6:1-2, I Peter 2:18-20).  The Bible was also used to silence Lucretia on the equality of women (I Peter 3:7, I Corinthians 11:3-15, I Corinthians 14:34-35, I Timothy 2: 11-15).  It is hard to believe today in 2015 that Lucretia Mott was rejected by so many Quakers.  Particularly when she is now considered such an important and visionary figure in history.  

Of course, she was advocating for changes that would significantly alter the economic, moral and social practices that had been accepted and embraced for centuries.  Change agents are often rejected by their own kind.  Many of the Quakers just wanted her to be quiet on these issues and wait.  Lucretia felt so strongly that the Spirit was calling her to action.  And while she studied and quoted the Bible often, she believed that it must be read and understood in the context of its time and that the Inner Light must be our ultimate guide.

What I love most about Lucretia is how she was kind and welcoming to her enemies and those that disagreed with her.  She was not going to walk over them, but walk beside them through their hopeful journey of insight and reflection.  But she knew that she must walk this path. 

What is the path that we are called to walk in today?  Will we walk beside each other and not over one another on issues that might divide us?  Will we use the Bible to guide us but not enslave us?  I am thankful for people like Lucretia Mott that show us a way to be faithful, Spirit led and passionate for the best ideals of our Quaker Testimonies.

Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

February 8th is Scout Sunday! Were you a Scout? Are your children? Please send the Scout’s name and troop number into the office for recognition. Also, we are looking for help from Scouts as greeters, ushers, and during Meeting! Please email office@indyfriends.org if you want to participate.

Be an Usher in 2015! A great way to serve and meet people at Indianapolis First Friends Meeting is to become a Sunday usher. Ushers only need serve once a month. This duty is so beneficial, not only to the meeting each Sunday but also to the usher as well. An Individuals or an entire family that would like to usher or simply know more can sign up on the bulletin board in the hallway or contact Dan Linginfelter at dl@outsidesource.com for more information.

Hospitality, Companionship, Creating Space for Others…Discovering God in a Changing World. Join us for our second of an exciting 4-part program series with Dr. Dan Moseley right here at First Friends, January 31-February 1. It will consist of a Saturday retreat from 9-1pm, Meeting for Worship on Sunday at 10:15am followed by a chili luncheon, provided by M&C, and then a Q&A with Dan. We’ll have breakfast foods available on Saturday, and if childcare is needed, please let the office know. There is no fee, but you are encouraged to pre-register with Amanda Bow in the office at office@indyfriends.org.  Copies of Dan’s book, Lose Love Live: The Spiritual Gifts of Loss and Change is available in our office for $10 each.

Gathering Group is Tuesday, Feb. 3rd at 7:00 pm. Friends will gather to make scarves for the homeless to help them stay warm. You are invited to bring yarn and join the project!

Please join us for Community Soup on Friday, February 6th, anytime between 5:30 – 7:00 p.m.  Enjoy soups, bread, and dessert in a relaxed atmosphere.  No cooking, no dishwashing, and no charge.

It’s Time to Retreat!  Have you ever been to Quaker Haven?  Many of us have, and we all have a chance to go next month… for the Western Yearly Meeting Retreat, March 6 & 7.  Friends will gather from all parts of Indiana and Western Illinois for an overnight stay, worship, fun, and the challenges that Jim Griffith* will bring as our speaker.  Vision and Vitality will be served generously!  Come and join Beth and Ruthie… we hope to have a great crowd from First Friends. Register now for best prices.  See the brochure, found at http://westernym.net/pdf/2015WinterRetreat.pdf!  Send it in pronto!

Save The Date!  Saturday, March 21st! First Friends Meeting Talent Show! Vicki Wertz and Beth Henricks are our “Talent Scouts”.  Susan Rains is our “Hostess with the Mostest”.  Start polishing those dancing shoes, and warming up your vocal cords… or preparing whatever talent you may have!

The Preschool Co-op is hosting a Rummage Sale here at First Friends on April 18th!!! They are organizing and hosting the event themselves, but we will share in the proceeds. We are asking our members/attenders to bring in items for sale as they are cleaning out closets, cupboards and garages.  We will accept all items (except no drop side cribs, car seats or bumbo seats).   Please start bringing in your items and place them in the unused Sunday School room with the sign that says Rummage Sale.

IFCL Lobbyist Needed:  Indiana Friends Committee on Legislation (IFCL) has announced a Search Committee to fill the staff position of lobbyist to the Indiana legislature.  IFCL has for decades worked as a legislative action group advocating the social concerns of Friends to Indiana legislators. The position is a paid position. Bill Chapman is heading the Search Committee and can be contacted at drchapman@earthlink.net or (317) 255-4739. You can learn more about IFCL at quakerifcl.org.

Friend to Friend - Jan 21st

Concerns, Announcements and Devotional Thought

A Weekly Ministry of Indianapolis First Friends Meeting

 As Way Opens   by Ruthie Tippin

 This coming Sunday we will hold our Monthly Meeting for Worship to Conduct Business.  We have not met to do so since November 16th of last year.  There is much work to do!  With the incoming year, and the release of the year behind us, we will reflect on the business at hand.  Did you know that both the Pastor and the Christian Education and Family Ministries Director brings a report?  Did you know that each Committee Clerk brings a report?  Did you know that the Meeting’s finances are openly discussed?  Did you know that anyone can bring a concern or request to the Monthly Meeting for consideration? Each Yearly Meeting has its own queries or questions regarding the business practices of their Meetings, hoping to provide spiritual grounding for these gatherings.  They are meant to be held in worship… everyone is invited to attend, and God’s presence is always anticipated.  Perhaps we can prepare ourselves personally this week by considering these queries from Philadelphia Yearly Meeting:

 Meeting for Business

·         Is our meeting for business held in the spirit of a meeting for worship in which we seek divine guidance?

·         Are we careful to keep in the spirit of worship each of the concerns that emerge, whether of nurture, of Spirit, of social concerns, of property, or of finance?

·         Are Meeting decisions directed by prayerful consideration of all aspects of an issue and are difficult problems considered carefully with patient search for truth, unhurried by the pressures of time?

·         How do we respond if we notice the meeting has lost an understanding of the presence of God?

·         Do we recognize that we speak through our inaction as well as our action? 

Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Monthly Meeting for Business is this Sunday following Meeting for Worship!

This Sunday, the Quaker Affirmation class will be traveling to North Meadow Friends to experience their worship service. There are a few extra seats in the van, so if you’d like to go, please contact Beth Henricks at beth.henricks@indyfriends.org. They will be gone from 9:15-1pm.

News from Friends United Meeting (FUM) Because of changing bank security regulations all over the country, please make every check out to Friends United Meeting rather than the specific ministry or program. Please do write in either the memo line of the check or on another piece of paper how you wish to designate your gift. If not made out to Friends United Meeting we must return your check and have you write a new one. This will be a tremendous help to our finance staff and our bank. Thank you, again!

February 8th is Scout Sunday! Were you a Scout? Are your children? Please send the Scout’s name and troop number into the office for recognition. Also, we are looking for help from Scouts as greeters, ushers, and during the Meeting! Please email office@indyfriends.org if you want to participate.

Would you like to welcome people into our wonderful First Friends Meeting? Ann Panah is looking for people interested in greeting in the coming six months. She is asking people to sign up for an entire month so greeters can remember new attenders from the previous week(s). If you cannot take the whole month she’ll work with you to fill in the gaps. Please let Ann know if you are interested in this important ministry by emailing her at a_panah@yahoo.com or calling 317-250-4161. You do not need to be an extrovert – just a welcoming person.

Ladies!  Oak Leaf: Meeting for Reading will be discussing Donna Tartt’s The Goldfinch on Tuesday January, the 27th, at 7 pm in the Parlor.   If you would like to be on the email list or need a copy of the book list for 2015, please contact Kathy Rhyne at kathyrichelle@yahoo.com. Peace Like A River, by Leif Enger is our upcoming book for February 24th.

Think Art!  Think Scripture!  An Exhibition of Fine Art Prints from The Saint John’s Bible are on display at the Indiana Interchurch Center until January 31st. They are located at 1100 West 42nd Street, here in Indianapolis. There are also related special events being held there, such as a panel discussion tonight, January 21st, “Justice – How Do you Pursue?” and many more.  For information on events, please visit www.indianainterchurch.org. 

Hospitality, Companionship, Creating Space for Others…Discovering God in a Changing World. Join us for our second of an exciting 4-part program series with Dr. Dan Moseley right here at First Friends,  January 31-February 1. Thirty people have already signed up! It will consist of a Saturday retreat from 9-1pm, Meeting for Worship on Sunday at 10:15am followed by a luncheon and then a Q&A with Dan. We’ll have breakfast foods available on Saturday, and if childcare is needed, please let the office know. There is no fee, but you are encouraged to pre-register with Amanda Bow in the office at office@indyfriends.org.  Copies of Dan’s book, Lose Love Live: The Spiritual Gifts of Loss and Change is available in our office for $10 each.

Gathering Group is Tuesday, Feb. 3rd at 7:00 pm. Friends gather to do all kinds of handwork: crochet, knitting, rug working, whatever you want to do. Some of the group will be making scarves for the homeless to help them stay warm. You are invited to bring yarn and join the project.

Please join us for Community Soup on Friday, February 6th, anytime between 5:30 – 7:00 p.m.  Enjoy soups, bread, and dessert in a relaxed atmosphere.  No cooking, no dishwashing, and no charge.

Save The Date!  Saturday, March 21st! First Friends Meeting Talent Show! Start polishing those dancing shoes, and warming up your vocal cords… or preparing whatever talent you may have!

The Preschool Co-op is hosting a Rummage Sale here at First Friends on April 18th!!! They are organizing and hosting the event themselves, but we will share in the proceeds. We are asking our members/attenders to bring in items for sale as they are cleaning out closets, cupboards and garages.  We will accept all items (except no drop side cribs, car seats or bumbo seats).   Please start bringing in your items and place them in the unused Sunday School room with the sign that says Rummage Sale.

IFCL Lobbyist Needed:  Indiana Friends Committee on Legislation (IFCL) has announced a Search Committee to fill the staff position of lobbyist to the Indiana legislature.  IFCL has for decades worked as a legislative action group advocating the social concerns of Friends to Indiana legislators. The position is a paid position. Bill Chapman is heading the Search Committee and can be contacted at drchapman@earthlink.net  or (317) 255-4739. You can learn more about IFCL at quakerifcl.org.

Friend to Friend - Jan 14

Concerns, Announcements and Devotional Thought

A Weekly Ministry of Indianapolis First Friends Meeting

As Way Opens  by Beth Henricks

It has been a tough couple of days as we collectively mourn the loss of our beloved Howard Taylor this past Sunday.  Howard touched so many lives at First Friends over his 55 years attending the Meeting.  He started his journey here when Pastor Errol Elliott went canvassing in the neighborhood and knocked on Howard and Jean's door in the house they lived in a couple of blocks away from the newly built church in the mid 1950's.  He started attending at the invitation of Errol and became involved in so many aspects of the life of the Meeting over the years.  He had an amazing voice and joined the choir and shared his talent in song each Sunday until his stroke in 1999.  He was a successful business person and provided effective leadership of committees, was Clerk of the Meeting and offered financial understanding and acumen to the benefit of the Meeting.  He honored children and was an instrumental board member of Little Friends, a daycare we provided for a number of years.  He was full of stories.  If you ever sat at his table during our fellowship hour, you would have heard one of the many adventures Howard experienced in his 91 years.  

One of his greatest characteristics was his positive outlook and affirmation of the good in each of us.  He saw that seed of Spirit and Truth and Light within our being and supported our journey with kindness and generosity.   He had hardships that he had to bear in life, but he chose to find joy each day and I never saw him discouraged or full of complaints.  

Howard made each of us feel special.  His influence will stretch deep and wide for many years.  His imprint was unique and will never be replicated.  But we are all better humans and better Friends because we knew Howard Taylor.  Many blessing on his family, and we hold them in the Light as they begin their family journey without Howard by their side.  May we embody Howard's spirit and generosity within our own lives each day and make this world a better place to honor Howard.

Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Monthly Meeting has been moved from this Sunday to next Sunday, January 25th following Meeting for Worship.  All are welcome to join us to discuss the business of the Meeting.

Would you like to welcome people into our wonderful First Friends Meeting? Ann Panah is looking for people interested in greeting in the coming six months. She is asking people to sign up for an entire month so greeters can remember new attenders from the previous week(s). If you cannot take the whole month she’ll work with you to fill in the gaps. Please let the office know if you are interested. You do not need to be an extrovert – just a welcoming person.

Ladies!  Oak Leaf: Meeting for Reading will be discussing Donna Tartt’s The Goldfinch on Tuesday January, the 27th, at 7 pm in the Parlor.   If you would like to be on the email list or need a copy of the book list for 2015, please contact the office. Peace Like A River, by Leif Enger is our upcoming book for February 24th.

Think Art!  Think Scripture!  An Exhibition of Fine Art Prints from The Saint John’s Bible are on display at the Indiana Interchurch Center until January 31st. They are located at 1100 West 42nd Street, here in Indianapolis. There are also related special events being held there, such as a panel discussion on January 21st, “Justice – How Do you Pursue?” and many more.  For information on events, please visit www.indianainterchurch.org. 

Save The Date!  Saturday, March 21st! First Friends Meeting Talent Show! Start polishing those dancing shoes, and warming up your vocal chords… or preparing whatever talent you may have!

The Preschool Co-op is hosting a Rummage Sale here at First Friends on April 18th!!! They are organizing and hosting the event themselves, but we will share in the proceeds. We are asking our members/attenders to bring in items for sale as they are cleaning out closets, cupboards and garages.  We will accept all items (except no drop side cribs, car seats or bumbo seats).   Please start bringing in your items and place them in the unused Sunday School room with the sign that says Rummage Sale.

Hospitality, Companionship, Creating Space for Others…Discovering God in a Changing World. Join us for our second of an exciting 4-part program series with Dr. Dan Moseley right here at First Friends! The second session is January 31-February 1. It will consist of a Saturday retreat from 9-1pm, Meeting for Worship on Sunday at 10:15am followed by a luncheon and then a Q&A with Dan. We’ll have breakfast foods available on Saturday, and if childcare is needed, please let the office know. There is no fee, but you are encouraged to pre-register with Amanda Bow in the office at office@indyfriends.org.  Copies of Dan’s book, Lose Love Live: The Spiritual Gifts of Loss and Change is available in our office for $10 each.

IFCL Lobbyist Needed:  Indiana Friends Committee on Legislation (IFCL) has announced a Search Committee to fill the staff position of lobbyist to the Indiana legislature.  IFCL has for decades worked as a legislative action group advocating the social concerns of Friends to Indiana legislators. The position is a paid position. Bill Chapman is heading the Search Committee and can be contacted at drchapman@earthlink.net  or (317) 255-4739. You can learn more about IFCL at quakerifcl.org.

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