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1-12-20 - The Shalom Life

Indianapolis First Friends Quaker Meeting

Pastor Bob Henry

January 12, 2020

Romans 14:17-19

17 For the kingdom of God is not food and drink but righteousness and peace and joy in the Holy Spirit. 18 The one who thus serves Christ is acceptable to God and has human approval. 19 Let us then pursue what makes for peace and for mutual upbuilding.

For the next several weeks, I want us to focus on one of the five “P”s I talked about last week in my sermon. It just happens to be not only an important topic, but also a relevant topic in our world, and one of our Quaker S.P.I.C.E.S. Some would say it is the foundation for all of Christ’s actions and what we are to be working on as humans on this planet. The topic I would like to explore is PEACE.    

When I first came into Quakerism, I was asked to serve on a committee…[pause]…go figure…that developed materials for what the Northwest Yearly Meeting labeled, “Peace Month.” I believe I was asked because I had just completed a draft of my doctoral dissertation where I focused my Biblical Materials chapter on Shalom Theology and traced peace throughout the Old and New Testaments. In one of the leaders guides for Peace Month I wrote the following.  

Our peace testimony is perhaps the most famous and most controversial of the Quaker testimonies. Instead of simply trying to ensure pax (the Latin word for peace), which simply refers to a lack of open conflict, Friends aim to ensure shalom, the Hebrew word for peace, which has the additional connotation of a life free of the various factors which can lead to conflict (such as: hunger, resentment, rampant poverty, sharp class or race divides, etc.).

When we become aware of conflicts or concerns in our communities, Friends often find themselves helping in various non-combatant ways to tend to those suffering and hurt on both sides of an issue. Some see these matters as only being solved at a national or international level, with very little the local meeting can do to help, yet that is not the case.

Our perspective for peacebuilding in our local communities should be one of well-informed and living HOPE!

Without becoming aware of the local struggles in our communities, the process of healing, reconciliation, and restoration cannot take place. In the work of promoting peace, Friends have long taken an active role, not simply disconnecting from the local community and being passive but working to actively find alternate methods to solve conflicts, often through negotiation, education, and service projects.

With Christ as our Guiding Light, our meetings are called to educate, raise awareness, inspire, connect, network, and identify the places we can bring peace to our local settings. Let’s use our pulpits, classrooms, and times of discernment and open worship to help promote local peace-building this Peace Month and all year long.

That captures the essence of the next several sermons and will lead us nicely into the concluding sermons from our Fall series, “It’s time to Get Moving – Quakerism for Today.”

For today’s sermon, I would like to focus our attention on some possible misconceptions of our shalom or peace foundations.  And that means I am going to need to start with a little theology and biblical lesson on shalom or peace.

So often “seeking peace” in our day and age has been labeled being “politically correct,” “part of the liberal agenda,” “majoring in the minors,” and “not essential to the central message of the Bible.”  This is the same for issues such as diversity, gender inclusive language, disabilities and the like.  All those aforementioned labels are articulated as sufficient reasons why Christians/Quakers should not be “seeking peace” in its fullest biblical vision. Ironically, this may just be the reason many well-meaning Christians/Quakers find themselves “up-to-their-neck” in conflict.

When we turn to the Bible, we find a different story. Far from being peripheral or a “buzz word” to the scriptural witness, we see the biblical theme of peace as foundational. The biblical term “peace” (Hb. shalom, Gk. eirene) and its cognates appear 550 times in the Bible – within almost every book in some form from Genesis to Revelation. It is clear that peace is more than a simple “buzz word” or peripheral concept in scripture.

Whether it is from the beginning of Genesis or the beginning of time shalom has been a pillar of God’s creative action in the world. Shalom is not a byproduct or an evolving concept with God, rather it is a required condition that stabilizes order, relationships, stewardship, beauty and rhythm in our universe.

I often find myself having a hard time trying to explain this shalom condition utilizing our typical Christian metaphors. So, let me borrow an illustration from Hinduism’s Rig Veda, what is called “Indra’s Net.” I first learned about Indra’s Net from Margaret Wheatley in her book, “Turing to One Another.” She explains the idea of Indra’s Net by saying…

“We are all individual jewels that shine uniquely. But we are all jewels gleaming on the same web, each sparkling outward from our place on the net, each reflected in the other. As paradoxical as it is, our unique expressions are the only source of light we have to see each other.  We need the light from each unique jewel in order to illuminate our oneness.”  

As Quakers, I think we can relate to this metaphor.  Each of us carries within us the Light of God and like Indra’s Net, God has created a complex, intricate and interwoven system that consists of the various aspects of shalom; order, relationships, responsibility, beauty and rhythm.

The theologian Cornelius Platinga helped me understand this concept even more in his book, “Engaging the World.” I find it interesting that he too utilizes the concept of webbing. He states…

“The webbing together of God, humans and all creation in justice, fulfillment, and delight is what the Old Testament prophets called shalom. We call it “peace”, but it means far more than mere peace of mind or cease-fire among enemies. (As a matter of fact, the areas over which two armies declare a cease-fire may be acres of smoldering ruin.) In the Bible shalom means universal flourishing, wholeness, and delight – a rich state of affairs in which natural needs are satisfied and natural gifts fruitfully employed, all under the arch of God’s love. Shalom, in other words, is the way things are supposed to be.

But as we know too well in our world today, things are not as they are supposed to be. We lack the universal flourishing, wholeness, and delight in so many ways.

And sadly, way too often we easily dismiss seeking peace or shalom as simply idealistic.

But then there is Jesus. Jesus brings it literally “down to earth.” I like to consider Jesus – Peace Incarnate.  His life was filled with the work of shalom and helping us see the way life is supposed to be. Not an ideal concept but a genuine way of life.

If we take into consideration the cultures, personalities, writing styles and relationships to Jesus, of each Gospel writer, Matthew, Mark, Luke and John, we realize that they all approach and emphasize distinct aspects of Jesus’ shalom work. A former Campus Ministry colleague, Terry McGonigal, who I spent a lot of time learning Shalom Theology from said this about the gospel writers,

  • Matthew asserts shalom stewardship/responsibility through Jesus’ teachings.

  • Mark focuses on shalom order through Jesus’ miracles.

  • Luke reclaims the priority of shalom relationships in Jesus’ community.  

  • John highlights shalom beauty/glory through Jesus’ incarnation and suffering.

For each of the gospel writers, shalom was no longer an ideal concept that was lost in the garden when the first couple began to make bad choices. Rather, shalom for them, “became flesh and blood and moved into the neighborhood (as John 1:14 reads in The Message). Shalom was now a living, breathing, human being with skin and bones. 

In his very first sermon, Jesus even announced his shalom life by proclaiming good news, freedom and recovery from the struggles of this life (Luke 4:18-19). Soon Jesus would be seen reaching out to the poor, the sinners, the tax collectors and even the despised Samaritans. It was the natural first move in his shalom life.

Sadly, most people in Jesus day could not see this as creating peace, but rather very disruptive and for many simply wrong. It would be through a series of teachings and parables that Jesus would challenge some of the people out of this thinking.

As I studied Jesus’ shalom life more, I was surprised to find a unique source to help put this into perspective. That source was Mahatma Gandhi. Gandhi saw the way Jesus lived more important than his dying. He felt that if any of us lived the life that Jesus lived, we too would end up in conflict with the powers that be. Gandhi saw Jesus befriend the poor and stand with those whom society considered outsiders. He also recognized that Jesus worked to get those responsible for oppression, both religious and civil leadership, to change. “Why did Jesus die?”, Gandhi asked, “because of the way he lived.” Jesus’s shalom life brought a peace that transformed us and lead us back to the true shalom God intended from the beginning.    

This Shalom Life that Jesus lived and incarnated is our example and I believe our mandate. My friend, Phil Gully said it well,

“It is tempting to think peace will happen for us or to us, but it must happen through us and because of us. The peace Jesus leaves us is the capacity to forgive, the potential for reconciliation, and the example of determined grace.”

Or as one of my favorite paragraphs from the Peace Testimony of Quakers in the United Kingdom reads:

All this sounds grand indeed; its consequences are for the most part very ordinary. The peace testimony is not something Quakers take down from a shelf and dust off only in wartime or in times of personal or political crisis. Living out a witness to peace has to do with everyday choices about the work we do, the relationships we build, what part we take in politics, what we buy, how we raise our children. It is a matter of fostering relationships and structures - from personal to international - which are strong and healthy enough to contain conflict when it arises and allow its creative resolution. It is a matter of withdrawing our co-operation from structures and relationships which are unjust and explorative. It is a matter of finding creative ways of dealing with conflict when it does arise, with the aim of freeing all concerned to find a just and loving solution.

I would say that is The Shalom Life the required condition that stabilizes order, relationships, stewardship, beauty and rhythm in our universe.

May we, as the scriptures said this morning, pursue what makes for peace and for mutual upbuilding for the glory of God. And all of God’s people said, “Amen!”

  • In what ways has “peace” become simply a “buzz word” among Friends?

  • How is First Friends addressing issues of peace in our community? and where should we be more involved?

  • What areas of life do I struggle or avoid seeking a loving and peaceful solution?  

  • Where am I living out a witness to peace/shalom in my daily life?

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1-5-20 - Resolutions for the Spirit

Resolutions of the Spirit

Indianapolis First Friends Quaker Meeting

Pastor Bob Henry

January 5, 2020

A New Year’s Prayer

by Vinita Hampton Wright

God of all time, help us enter the New Year quietly, thoughtful of who we are to ourselves and to others, mindful that our steps make an impact and our words carry power. 

May we walk gently.

May we speak only after we have listened well.

Creator of all life, help us enter the New Year reverently, aware that you have endowed every creature and plant, every person and habitat with beauty and purpose.

May we regard the world with tenderness.

May we honor rather than destroy.

Lover of all souls, help us enter the New Year joyfully, willing to laugh and dance and dream, remembering our many gifts with thanks and looking forward to blessings yet to come.  

            May we welcome your lavish love.

In this new year, may your grace and peace bless us now and in the days ahead.

2 Thessalonians 1:11-12

 

11 To this end we always pray for you, asking that our God will make you worthy of his call and will fulfill by his power every good resolve and work of faith, 12 so that the name of our Lord Jesus may be glorified in you, and you in him, according to the grace of our God and the Lord Jesus Christ.

 

 

 

Happy New Year and Decade! 

 

Well, we are finally winding down from our Christmas breaks and our children are heading back to school after their holiday. Yet before things even officially began winding down and starting to go back to “normal,” this past week we endured one last borage of emails, adds, and year-end giving opportunities which found their way to our mailboxes (both snail and email).

 

Most of this extra mail included advertisements heralding the words “New Year’s Resolutions.”  Many were about weight-loss and getting healthier in the New Year, but I noticed many were also about following through with your resolutions. It seems advertisers have noticed that we don’t do such a good job on the follow through if we even make New Year’s Resolutions anymore.  Actually, I have had several of you tell me recently, “I have no desire for New Year’s Resolutions, it’s just a waste of time.” 

 

It seems many people have given up on the whole idea of New Year’s Resolutions because statistics show that on the average resolutions only last a couple of weeks (at the longest a month).  Maybe instead of making changes, we should be talking about stamina and will-power this time of the year. 

 

Actually, I read that a recent poll was conducted to find out the top resolutions people wanted to make for 2020. The survey gathered the opinion of 274,779 Americans.

 

I kind of feel like David Letterman…Here are the top 10 New Year’s Resolutions for 2020:

 

10. Staying motivated
9. Upgrading my technology
8. Being a better person
7. Being more healthy
6. Being happier/better mental health

5. Going to the gym
4. Losing weight/diet
3. Eating more of my favorite foods
2. Trying something new

 

…and…drumroll please…

 

1. Actually doing my New Year’s resolution

So, when the reality is that the #1 resolution for 2020 is to actually do my New Year’s resolution – I think we need a new look at resolutions. 

 

Now, for Christians, we usually run to the Bible for help on what we should do.  But it is kind of a stretch to find New Year’s resolutions in the Bible. Sure, if you were diligent in your exegesis you would find many people of faith resolving to be better people, to change their ways, and God giving second chances. 

 

In preparing for this sermon, I ran across one person who wondered what New Year’s Resolutions for Bible Characters would look like.  Here are some that I thought you may enjoy (and even better they wrote them in “tweet” form):  

 

Adam: Seems like everyone is all about high fiber – Me, I plan to eat LESS fruit this year. 

 

Lot’s Wife: Longing for the past helps no one. Don’t Look Back!

 

Rehab: Debauchery and deception are so last year – Heart is ready for 12 months reinvention and restoration.

 

Ruth: Turning over a new sheaf – Done with multi-faith online dating. Ready for good ole fashioned matchmaking.

 

David: Done fighting lions and Philistines – Taking a safer job playing harp for the King #Can’tLose

 

Balaam: For starters, booting all “Dr. Doolittle” movies from Netflix queue #BeenThereDoneThat

 

Naaman: Start bathing more – does wonders for your health.

 

Bathsheba: Start bathing less – Who puts a bathtub on the roof anyway?

 

Wisemen: This year we’re inventing MapQuest – no more asking burning ball of astro gas for directions.

 

Lydia: Got a big thing for purple, I know.  This year I am resolving to be more crafty with other hues in the color palette.

 

Thomas: So last year I resolved to be less gullible. That didn’t go so well. This year won’t care if you fool me. #TrustImmediately

 

Peter:  Want to get out fishing more this year – men are more important just not as tasty #fishersofmen

 

Now seriously, even from these funny tweets we can get a glimpse of the changes and challenges that took place in the lives of even characters in the Bible.

 

And if we took a deeper look at our roots in the Jewish faith, we would find that they had festivals to remember and make needed changes each year that were not only for individuals but were often for entire communities. These were developed to keep people everything from healthy to right with God.  So, in a sense, the Hebrew people knew that an ongoing examination of one’s condition was necessary and helpful for everyone – individual and communal.

 

And then there is our Quaker faith. Even though many Quakers in history did not celebrate holidays or mark the New Year, they did find a need to make resolutions in life. Still today many Quakers (including myself) see the S.P.I.C.E.S (Simplicity, Peace, Integrity, Community, Equality, and Stewardship) as Quaker Resolutions for living life.

 

Actually, I believe that if every year we simply took time to rededicate to these very testimonies, we would probably find a lot more resolve in our lives and communities.  These were the summarization of the resolutions of our founders, George Fox, Elizabeth Fry, John Woolman, Lucretia Mott, William Penn, and many more.  They resolved to live simple lives, to seek peace, to be people of integrity, to value community, to stand for equality, and protect our planet.

 

It reminds me what Brian McLaren sent out this past week to pastors in preparation for the coming year (you may have seen it on my Facebook page) – a year he considers could be the most important for pastors and churches to speak up, show up, and stand up tall on, what he called the “5 P’s”.

 

Planet

Poverty

Peace

Political Corruption

And ALL People.

 

Just like our foremothers and fathers who made resolutions about everything from War to Women’s Rights, to where we buy our goods to how prisons should be reformed, we too are being faced with real issues in our world today. It’s time as Quakers to make our voices heard.

 

·        It’s time we reconsider our resolutions regarding the care of our planet.

·        It’s time we faced the reality and roots of Poverty in our country and dealt with privilege and equality.

·        It’s time we returned to seeking peaceful solutions and extending hands of friendships.

·        It’s time we admitted that politics in our country is corrupt and powered by racism and greed.

·        And its far time that we began seeing ALL our neighbors as ourselves. 

 

These are all issues I am resolving as a pastor this year not to avoid, ignore, or sweep under the rug. Its time as Quakers to make our voices heard again in 2020. And please understand, I know it is not going to be the easiest or the most comfortable year, but it could be our most important and fruitful if we, like our founders before, resolve to make a change.

 

So, you may be asking…where do I begin in 2020? 

 

A post by Quaker Wendy Swallow, the Blog Editor for Reno Friends Meeting caught my attention this week. Her query to start the New Year is,

 

How can I move forward in the New Year with a more solid foundation for my spirit so that I can bring my best self to the world?

I believe as Quakers, our first resolution must be an inward journey that prepares us - especially when life and the world can spin out of control without warning.

 

Out of that query, Wendy penned a list of ten spiritual resolutions she was considering for 2020 – and as I read them, I want you to notice the importance she gives to time and silence.  As Quakers, I hope these queries speak to your condition (I know they have spoken to mine).

 

After I read them, I will give us some time and silence this morning to write down three resolutions (blank space has been provided on the back of your bulletin). Listen carefully to Wendy’s resolutions and maybe borrow some ideas for yourself as you journey into 2020. Here are her resolutions:

1.  I will take advantage of the Silence to reconsider my choices around work and commitments.  Which things are most important? Am I being realistic in the projects I take on? Can I still contribute while doing a bit less and giving myself more time to regroup and refresh?

2.  I will take advantage of the Silence to reassess my energy and my gifts. Am I honoring my strengths by taking on commitments that line up with what I can do competently and happily? Can I give in these ways without depleting myself?

3.  I will spend time with people who lift me up. I will intentionally seek them out and connect with them.

4.  If a new commitment arises, I will give myself permission to sit with it and ask for spiritual guidance before jumping in. I will respond to my spirit and heart, rather than to the chorus of “shoulds” in my head.

5.  I will give myself time for a hobby or activity that makes me happy and relaxed. The goal is to do something I’m interested in, and to do it without judgement.

6.  I will take time to sit in silence and listen to God, especially when things turn difficult.  If a bad day is unfolding, I will retreat for a half hour to calm my heart and listen to what arises. I will practice lifting problems into the Light so I can understand them better.

7.  I will make things simpler. When given a choice, I’ll try the doable way and learn to accept help gracefully. I will save my energy for the most important things.

8.  I will take an occasional retreat day: Every now and then (maybe once a week), I will give myself a day off without deadlines or engagements, to read, relax and do easy chores. This will give me time to reconnect with my happy self.

9.  I will take time to consider my faith journey and deepen my connection with Spirit through readings or retreats or gatherings that expand my faith experience.

10.  I will take advantage of the Silence to ask myself: what would I do if I were not afraid?  I will think of new ways to deal with recurrent problems and try to imagine a life lived fearlessly.

 

Now, that you have some ideas – take some time to write down your own resolutions and then we will enter waiting worship this morning.

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12-15-19 - Love Carries You

Love Carries You

Indianapolis First Friends Quaker Meeting

Pastor Bob Henry

December 15, 2019

A Reading from the Book of God

Wendell Berry is known as a poet, essayist, environmental activist, cultural critic, and farmer, but he is also considered a novelist.  In his novel, Hannah Coulter, (which I highly recommend) he wrote this about love:

Love is what carries you, for it is always there, even in the dark, or most in the dark, but shining out at times like gold stitches in a piece of embroidery. 

I absolutely love that quote and its images. Actually, I have played that quote over and over in my mind since the day I read Hannah Coulter several years ago. It speaks to my soul.  And It spoke to me again this week as I was preparing this sermon.

Let’s be honest…

  • How many of us feel overwhelmed currently?

  • How many of us are not prepared for Christmas?

  • How many of us have begun to get a little on edge, even argumentative, or testy?

  • How many of us aren’t looking forward to the family getting together this Christmas? Or maybe you wished they were?

  • How many of us just aren’t feeling the love this holiday season?

Love is often one of the last emotions or feelings we experience during this crazy time of year.

  • ·        Love?  I don’t have time for love – I need to wrap presents.

  • ·        Love? I don’t have time for love – I need to go to this party, or that concert, or this program.

  • ·        Love? I don’t have time for love – I need to clean the house, figure out what to do with the kids, go to the grocery store.

  • ·        Love?  Bahumbug!

Yet love is more that words or feelings.  Love is what our Christmas presents - our giving should be all about.

  • Love is the attitude we should have when going to parties and to relatives and loved one’s homes.

  • Love is what we should put into cleaning our homes.

  • Love should be the inspiration for spending time with our family.

  • Love should be the impetus for making Christmas cookies, baking wonderful meals, decorating our homes.

But too often it isn’t “love that carries us” as Wendell Berry said, but rather it is obligation, tradition, “keeping up with the Jones” and appearances that we allow to carry us – and then that drop us unexpectedly.

These are the very things that take us into darkness and cause us to miss the true love of Christmas.

In our last meeting, we had some friends named Troy and Kama who were what I would call modern day shepherds. They loved animals and actually took care of an Animal Sanctuary.  One morning, Sue and I received a call to come and be with Troy and Kama as one of their special goats, Lilliam, was about to pass.  As we stood in the stable watching Troy and Kama care for this creature, we could see the love that they had for Lilliam.  It was overwhelming to be in the presence of a real manger with hay, surrounded by other animals who were truly grieving with Troy and Kama over Lilliam. In the silence, you could tangibly see the love and care being shared in this place. I can’t even explain the beauty of this experience and the deep connectedness we felt with all of creation.  What we were witnessing was love shining out of that stable.  There was a deep sense of love of family among animals and humans.  It was love that literally carried them through this “dark” time.

This is what the season is all about. Love shining out of the darkness and bringing everything into perspective.

Take a moment and ponder for yourself, where you have seen “love shining out like gold stitches in a piece of embroidery” in your life lately. 

And since we acknowledge that God is love – where has God been carrying you through the darkness of life?

If anyone has experienced being “carried by love through the darkness” it has to be Zechariah and Elizabeth. 

  • They had both been overwhelmed (probably still were).

  • They probably felt a little unprepared.

  • I am sure without Zechariah being able to speak or hear it caused some family squabbles – “Can’t you hear me?” “Are you listening?” “Say something already!” “I am pregnant here!”

  • And as a Jewish Priest – Zechariah I am sure at times struggled with obligations, traditions, and appearances.

Yet today we heard how “love truly carried them through.  Take Elizabeth for example - Love carried Elizabeth through.

  • Love helped Elizabeth believe that her age, her physical body, and her mental capacity would hold up under such miraculous situations.

  • Love carried her through the worry, the rumors in town, and at the synagogue, the wondering if her body could actually take giving birth (something extremely risky and dangerous for her age and time in history).

For us this morning, what currently has you worried, wondering, even fearing the “darkness” of life?

Are there any “gold stiches” (love) shining through your embroidery (life)?

Love also carried Zechariah, too.

I believe most of us in this room would have a hard time if suddenly we were unable to hear or speak.  For Zechariah this was devastating to his job, family, and life in general.

Trying to explain all that had happened to him through tablets must have been extremely frustrating.  Today it may have been easier – all he would need is a text plan and lot of emojies!

Every time I read this story, I can’t help but think of the times I have left “speechless” by something that has happened in my life – and then literally not being able to shut up about God’s faithfulness and love for me afterwards.

I remember a few years ago when I received a phone call right as I arrived at work that my parents had been in a horrific care accident (on my wife’s birthday).  I was speechless.  I had not words.  Literally the world lost sound and I struggled to speak.  But as they recovered and I saw God’s love through the people around me – my joy could not be contained.  I feel today, my entire family has new voices because God’s love carried us through the darkness of that time. 

Again, take a moment to ask yourself - what in your life has caused you to be “speechless”? How has or is God given(ing) you a new voice?

Zechariah broke into song and prophecy! He let loose all that was bottled up inside him for those 9 months! He had time to process, to get over some of the worries and anxieties. When he finally had the opportunity to speak again – he began with a series of blessings. 

  • Blessed be the Lord of Israel.

  • He then exclaimed how God had blessed his people, his ancestors, his family.

  • And finally he picks up John in his arms and blesses him.

Folks, what if our response at the end of a time of waiting or going through darkness was to bless as Zechariah did?

I think it is interesting that iword.com defines blessings as:

1.     The “act of words” of one that blesses (how appropriate for one who had no words).

2.     Help and approval of God.

3.     A thing conducive to happiness or welfare.

Whom, with your own words, do you need to bless this Christmas? Who are you noticing being a blessing in your life, family, work, etc…

When we bless each other we spread happiness and welfare and we too become the LOVE that carries each other through.  Folks, let us work to be the love and blessing this Christmas!  

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12-8-19 - Mary's Search for Peace

Mary’s Search for Peace

Indianapolis First Friends Quaker Meeting

Pastor Bob Henry

December 13, 2019

 

A Reading from The Book of God

 

One Christmas, a few years ago, I received a card with a quote by an unknown author about Peace – it read:

 

PEACE: it does not mean to be in a place where there is no noise, trouble or hard work, it means to be in the midst of those things and still be calm in your heart.

 

This little card became a good reminder and helped me stay a bit calmer through some difficult times. 

 

I want each of us to take a moment this morning to ask ourselves…

 

What are the things in life (the noise, trouble, the hard things) that are causing me to not have peace?

 

[Pause to reflect]

 

I can relate to Quaker Catherine Whitmire when she says, “peace is not a steady state, I find it, lose it, and then have to search for it again.”

 

Personally, when I seem to find or sense some “peace” in my life – it’s about then when I find myself caught in a traffic jam, having car problems, a sick child, that bill arrives, or I have an unexpected emergency. The reality is that life doesn’t stop and the things that take away our peace keep coming. And I find myself being sent back to searching for some peace among the storms of life.

 

Finding peace in our world or in our lives takes practice. Some would even say it is a discipline.  And when we practice peace, it often causes us to have to wrestle with our patience, empathy, acceptance, trust, discernment, obedience, and self-awareness. In my former Yearly Meeting, January was always Peace Month, but often as we began wrestling with what it takes to experience peace, many would simply get upset realizing how difficult it really is. We would joke that January was anything, but peaceful.     

 

Patience, empathy, acceptance, trust, discernment, obedience, and self-awareness are not easy things to practice and work on. No wonder peace is so hard to find in our world it takes some effort. 

 

It also means that we will need to admit that “Peace is not simply the absence of conflict” as many in our world believe and pursue – often to their detriment. Actually, conflict often helps us grow and teaches and helps us with our patience, empathy, trust, discernment, obedience, and self-awareness.  To reconcile with a person, we are in conflict with often starts with us looking inward at our own struggles with these vary things.

 

If you notice, God’s peace (especially what is described in scripture, and even more what is spoken of in the Christmas story) comes at often turbulent times. 

 

Take for example, the Christmas Story Nicole read about the Angel appearing to Mary. Just prior to the Angel’s announcement, Walter Wangrin Jr. gives us a glimpse of the need for Mary to seek peace amidst the chaos of her life.  The noise of her betrothal had intensified, she was in tears, and the last bit of so-called peace was going to be shattered by an announcement of divine proportions.

 

As a pastor, I have officiated my share of weddings and prepared many couples for that special day.  I have also been through the process with Sue (actually 25 years ago today we were in the midst of that process - as we get ready to celebrate our 25th wedding anniversary in June of this coming year).

 

In our day and age, betrothal is still often very stressful – with all the planning, organizing, preparing…

 

There are in-law issues, family issues, relational issues.

There are new questions, new ideals, new family members to deal with.

 

Often the beauty of marriage is overshadowed by a lack of peace.

 

Just like in Mary’s story.  Mary needed some space – she needed some peace.

 

For those married here this morning – can you relate? Just take a moment to remember.

What was your engagement time like? Was all the stress worth it?

 

Maybe you are not married – and you can relate more to Mary’s aloneness.  Maybe the stress of life or the constant barrage of people leaves you feeling alone – needing space.

 

Where do you go in these times? Where do you search for the peace you have lost?

 

Walter Wangrin Jr. painted us a word picture in our story of how Mary was feeling. He said, “She felt so sad,” yet at the same time “happy,” “excited,” “not content,” but [actually] really scared.” 

 

I don’t know about you, but I can relate to this roller-coaster of emotions.  Life often leaves us feeling this way. And many times, all we can do is, like Mary, bow our heads or bury our heads in our arms, and weep.

 

We finally surrender to the stress – the lack of peace – the lack of balance – and we hit bottom.  And like I spoke about a few weeks ago – our lives begin to cry out for God to intervene. “Take this away.” “Fix my life or situation.” “Help me!”

 

In these moments we often have high expectations of God.  Maybe we see what God has done in someone else’s life or situation and expect it to be the same for us.

 

Though, God very seldom – if ever – creates a formula, a wrote method.  Scripture testifies to this fact. Instead, God uniquely answers the cry of our individual hearts.

 

I am sure Mary was not expecting a messenger of God showing up and then announcing something that would send her stress level and lack of peace through the roof!

 

It says that Mary was terrified. She was in shock and even doubted this message was for her.

 

I often hear this happening in other people’s lives. Actually, I have also personally experienced it.  When we think we are at our lowest, when we at the bottom and sacred, that is often when God is actually calling us.  When God is going to use us in powerful ways. We feel unworthy but God finds favor with us.  On our hands and knees, in our doubt, in our questioning, with all our mistakes and bad choices, in our defeatedness, in our sadness, when we are scared to death to find out what is around the next corner…that is when God says, “I want to birth something new inside you!

 

Like Mary – each of us are called to bear the Light of the world in our lives. As Quakers we know this and affirm it.  But Mary’s story reminds us again that we (ordinary people) can be pregnant with the Light of Christ!

 

Folks, this is a great privilege. To realize that we are pregnant with the Light of Christ is humbling.  To realize there is that of God inside each of us waiting to give birth to peace, hope, love, joy to help the noisy, troubled and hard world around us and in us, is simply beautiful.  

 

May we find time during this crazy, busy, Holiday Season, for a Selah moment. Remember to center down and acknowledge the Light being birthed within you.  It may be a light of reconciliation or a light of peace among your family, or it might simply calm your heart long enough to help you find some peace to get through the day.

 

As we enter our time of waiting worship this morning, may it offer you a time of peace.  Acknowledge the Light being birthed within you and see how you will share it with the world. 

 

Queries to Ponder:

What are the things in life (the noise, trouble, the hard things) that are causing me to not have peace? 

What may I need to reconcile to see peace in my life? 

What is God birthing inside of me this Christmas season that will help bring peace to my world? 

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12-1-19 - Blue Christmas Service

Blue Christmas: A Service of Remembrance and Hope

 Today’s service begins in silence and dimmed lights so all may participate in a time of reflection and centering down in preparation for this special worship.

Please refrain from talking as you enter.  

 

THE GATHERING OF THE MEETING

Beth: Welcome to this “Blue Christmas” service. We know that Christmas can be a painful time for some. It may be the first Christmas without a loved family member who has recently died; it may be a time that has always been difficult. The constant refrain on the radio and television, in shopping malls and public spaces, about the happiness of the season, about getting together with family and friends, reminds many people of what they have lost or have never had. The anguish of broken relationships, the insecurity of unemployment, the weariness of ill health, the pain of isolation - all these can make us feel very alone in the midst of the celebrating and spending. So we have set aside this special time to acknowledge our sadness and concern and acknowledge that we are not alone.  

 

Let us begin this morning with standing and singing the first two verses of “O come, O come, Emmanuel.”

Opening Hymn:  O come, O come, Emmanuel,*

O come, O come, Emmanuel,
and ransom captive Israel,
that mourns in lonely exile here
until the Son of God appear.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.

O come, thou Wisdom from on high,
who orderest all things mightily;
to us the path of knowledge show,
and teach us in her ways to go.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.

Opening Prayer

Bob: Around us, O God, the singing can be heard: ‘Joy to the world…let heaven and nature sing.’ This is to be a season of hope to ease our minds, peace to soothe our hearts, love to warm our souls, and joy to come new each morning.

But there are many who do not feel this joy. Some might try, others have given up trying. ‘Where is this joy for us?’ they ask. The world has found joy but some feel as if it has passed them by. Our minds are not at ease…we feel too much doubt. Our hearts are not at peace…there is too much to do. Our souls are not warmed…the chill of death is too troubling. Where, O God, can joy be found? We ask this as we come before you in prayer, opening ourselves to the possibility that hope, peace, joy, and love might still come to us.

We pray for the lonely, that they might find comfort in another’s touch.
We pray for the downtrodden, that they might find relief from their burdens.
We pray for those wrestling with depression, that a light of calm might bring them peace.
We pray for those dealing with stress, that they might find the courage to let go.
We pray for the grief-stricken, that they might experience the newness of life that you bring.

May joy come to the world, O God, and may we grasp some of that. We do not pray for joy that is temporary or fleeting, but a joy that runs deep and sustains us even in moments of despair. We seek this joy in a season that can be less than joyful. May we experience Your love this morning in new ways as we in turn love each other. Amen.

Choir             “Love Can”

Offering/Offertory (Children dismissed for Children’s Church)

Scripture Reading: Matthew 11:28-30 

Bob: ‘Come to me, all you that are weary and are carrying heavy burdens, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls. For my yoke is easy, and my burden is light.’

Hymn:  O come, O come, Emmanuel,*

O come, thou Rod of Jesse, free
thine own from Satan’s tyranny;
from depths of hell thy people save,
and give them victory over the grave.
Rejoice! Rejoice!

Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.

Lighting of the Four Candles

First Candle

Beth: The first candle we light to remember those persons whom we have loved and lost. We pause to read their name, remembering their voice, their face, the memory that binds them to us in this season. We hold them before God, giving thanks for their lives in ours.

(The Leader will then read the names of those who have died within our meeting this past year and ask for people to speak out any names we have missed.)

Prayer: God, each of us takes our loved one by the hand and leads them to you, the God of love, Here we present them to you. Accept our love and thanksgiving as we entrust them to your loving care. We ask that you fill us with motivation and energy in the days ahead when we feel like giving up. Help us to find joy in the people, events and the beauty of nature which surrounds us. Thank you for the gift each of these people has been in our lives. Take our sad and aching hearts and comfort us. Comfort us, for we only feel hollowness and emptiness. God of sorrowing, draw near! Amen.

Hymn:  O come, O come, Emmanuel,*

O come, thou Dayspring, come and cheer
our spirits by thine advent here;
disperse the gloomy clouds of night,
and death’s dark shadows put to flight.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.

Second Candle

Bob: The second candle we light is to redeem the pain of loss; the loss of relationships, the loss of jobs with the security they bring, the loss of health in ourselves or in family members, the loss of joy and peace in our lives from the stresses which surround us, the loss and loneliness we experience when our loved ones don’t understand us. As we gather up the pain of the past we offer it to you, O God, asking that into our open hands you will place the gift of peace.

Please take a moment to remember the losses. I invite you to name them, aloud or in the silence of your hearts….

Prayer:  God of mystery, we turn our hearts to you. We come before you in need of peace, grateful for the mystery of life and ever keenly aware of your promises of guidance and protection. We want to place our trust in you, but our hearts grow fearful and anxious. We forget so easily that you will be with us in all that we experience. Teach us to be patient with the transformation of our lives and to be open to the changes which we are now going through.   Amen.

Hymn:  O come, O come, Emmanuel,*

O come, thou Key of David, come,
and open wide our heavenly home;
make safe the way that leads on high,
and close the path to misery.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.

 

Third Candle

Beth: The third candle we light for those who experience a loss of direction in their lives.

God of the Exodus, you led Moses and your people through the wilderness to a new land. We want so much to have a sense of direction, to know where we are and where we ought to be headed. But the darkness and the questions stay. You ask us to be full of faith, to believe deep within that you are our signpost, that you are our wisdom and our guide, and to trust in your presence. Your words to us are clear: “Do not fear, I go before you.” Let us reflect upon God’s direction in our lives in a moment of silence.

[Silent Reflection]

Prayer: God of our depths, we cry out to you to be our guide. Help us to have a strong sense of inner direction and grant that we may have the reassurance of knowing that we are on the right path. Take our lives and use them according to your will. Take all that is lost in us and bring it home with you. Amen.

Hymn:  O come, O come, Emmanuel,*

O come, O come, great Lord of might,
who to thy tribes on Sinai’s height
in ancient times once gave the law
in cloud and majesty and awe.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel.

 

Fourth Candle

Bob: The fourth candle we light as a sign of hope, the hope that the Christmas story offers to us. We remember that God, who shares our life, promises us a place and time of no more pain and suffering. Let us reflect upon the hope that Christmas brings.

[Silent Reflection]

Prayer: O God whose spirit is known by those whose hearts are thankful, and who makes cheerfulness a companion of strength, lift up our hearts, we pray, to a joyous confidence in your care. Guide us when we cannot see the way. Teach us to know that a shadow is only a shadow, because the light of eternal goodness shines behind the object of our fears. Where there is love in life, teach us to find it; help us to trust it and enable us to grow in the power of love. So may our lives bring comfort and encouragement to others. Amen.

 

Hymn:  O come, O come, Emmanuel,*

O come, thou Root of Jesse’s tree,
an ensign of thy people be;
before thee rulers silent fall;
all peoples on thy mercy call.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel. 

Prayer for the Season

Beth: In the spirit of this Christmas season may the Light of Christ help us as we participate as special people coping with our many different losses. For our families and friends, that they may continue to help and support us. For any person we have loved who has died, for all the losses we know in our lives. For our family and friends, that you may bless them with love, peace, and joy. For peace throughout the world as proclaimed by the Christmas angels on that faraway hillside. For a greater understanding of the lessons of love and acceptance as modeled by Jesus. God of great compassion and love grant to all, especially the bereaved and troubled ones this Christmas, the blessing of true peace. Amen.

Lighting of Individual Candles

Bob: Each of us comes bearing our own hurts, sorrows, broken places. I want to invite each of you to offer your personal wound to God who loves each of us deeply and wants to carry our pain. God waits patiently, gently calling out: “Give me your pain, come to me… all who labor and are heavy laden, I will refresh you!”

Remember that these lights in their brightness are only symbols, but as they burn and finally go out, we remember that suffering passes, though memory remains forever.

I invite each of you to come forward and light a candle.  As you light the candle, remember that it is God who lights a candle in our darkness and holds us close until we are able to shine.

As you return to your seats, we will enter into our time of Waiting Worship in the Manner of Friends. Today, we ask that this time be kept silent and people not speak out of the silence to honor this time.  

Waiting Worship in the Manner of Friends

Greeting One Another

Hymn:  O come, O come, Emmanuel,*

O come, Desire of nations, bind
in one the hearts of all mankind;
bid thou our sad divisions cease,
and be thyself our King of Peace.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel

O come, O come, Emmanuel,
and ransom captive Israel,
that mourns in lonely exile here
until the Son of God appear.
Rejoice! Rejoice!
Emmanuel shall come to thee, O Israel

Benediction and Rise of the Meeting

 

* Note: The hymn “O come, O come, Emmanuel” is a song of people in darkness longing for God’s light.  It is not calling us to rejoice in the worldly form of the word, but calling our spirits and souls to reflect the true hope and joy that only God can give.

This service was adapted from the “Blue Christmas Service: When Christmas Hurts” developed by Heather Hill.

 

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11-24-19 - More Than a Meal

More than a Meal

Indianapolis First Friends Quaker Meeting

Pastor Bob Henry

November 24, 2019

 

Proverbs 9:1-6

Wisdom has built her house,
    she has hewn her seven pillars.
2 She has slaughtered her animals, she has mixed her wine,
    she has also set her table.
3 She has sent out her servant-girls, she calls
    from the highest places in the town,
4 “You that are simple, turn in here!”
    To those without sense she says,
5 “Come, eat of my bread
    and drink of the wine I have mixed.
6 Lay aside immaturity,[a] and live,
    and walk in the way of insight.”

 

The idea that there are no “rituals” among Friends is interesting and has always made me wonder just a little. I think you would agree that we have rituals, but we just may not label them as such.

The central ritual for the greater Christian world has always been the celebration of the Mass or what is more commonly called the Eucharist, The Lord’s Supper, or simply communion.  Yet, if you were to strip it of much of it’s religious ritual, at its core you would find that it was just a meal.

That is why, as Quakers we often talk of sharing in communion when eating together. We don’t need specific elements, like bread and wine to hold within them the presence of Christ. Because we know that Christ or God is already present, because as Quakers we believe that there is that of God or Christ in us and our neighbor.      

And from my personal observation, the principal ceremony to mark most Quaker events, let’s be honest, is a meal (we almost cannot have any function without food, and when we do have food more people usually show up) - from new attender dinners, to Seasoned Friend’s luncheons, to Threshing Together with the guys, to Pitch-ins, picnics, Vespers’ Lite Dinner, to some type of meal after every memorial or celebration of life…and the list could go on.  All of our events end up around a table(s) where Friends are gathered to share food (It literally keeps Dan Mitchel on his feet around this place putting up and taking down tables).

Let’s face it, the meal is an important ritual celebration among Friends whether we believe it or not, I believe that has something to do with giving thanks. 

I like what Nora Gallager says about rituals in her book “The Sacred Meal”:

“Rituals may seem to originate in magical thinking: we see the ancient practices of primitive people as methods to hold off or thank the gods, to ward off evil, to suck rain from the dry sky. But these are not to be dismissed as the inventions of ignorant people. Our ancestors were tough and creative; rituals were part of their lives. Knowing there were larger waves of power, meaning, and connection in the world than the ones they could see, they created ways to recognize and inhabit them. While we may condescend to a rain dance, the need to see beyond this world into another one is inherent in that dance; and the need to communicate our deepest desires is there as well. While it is true that we want signs of God’s presence that are written in human language, it’s the only language we have. And while any ritual can be reduced to magic, just about all of them contain an element of something that is deeply meaningful and human: the element of thanksgiving.”     

As I said before, most Christians today, will return to Jesus’ Seder meal with the disciples before he is crucified as the prime example of this type of ritualistic meal. Yet we must remember, Christians were notorious for repurposing things from other religions and making them their own. Christmas was a pagan holiday of the sun. Easter too was a pagan holiday celebrating Semiramis, and now the Jewish Seder, a meal about the redemption of Israel from Pharoh’s hands gets repurposed as the Last Supper of Christ which was to signal the redemption through his death. Actually, the church would later label this meal – the Eucharist – which in Greek actually means a meal of “thanksgiving.” A ritual to remember all that God had done for us. 

Actually, if you go all the way back into Proverbs, God, HERSELF, (a.k.a. Wisdom or the female personification of God) institutes this very type of thanksgiving meal. As we heard read in our scriptures, she calls out from her home to the people around her, “Come, eat of my bread and drink of the wine I have mixed.” She has slaughtered animals and set the table for a feast, and she has invited everyone to sit down and eat with her.  

It seems eating together has been part of who we are for quite some time. The very act of what can be called a Thanksgiving Meal was possibly even instituted by God, continued on by many religions (not just Christians), and practiced by Friends in a multitude of forms, and yes, even instituted by President Abraham Lincoln for the entire United States when he proclaimed a national day of "Thanksgiving and Praise to our beneficent Father who dwelleth in the Heavens," to be celebrated on the last Thursday in November.  Even Abraham Lincoln created a ritualistic meal to remind us and point us toward the abundance of God with gratitude for all she has done and provided.     

I have talked to many of you this week and heard your ritualist preparations for your meal of thanksgiving.  But maybe as Quakers, we should take a moment and remember that our thanksgiving meal is really no different than any other meal at its core. When we strip-away our family rituals and get down to the core of the meal – it’s about partaking in a moment of thanksgiving with the Christ or God present in those we have invited to sit around our table.

What if that is how we looked at the Thanksgiving meal and holiday – as an opportunity to commune with the God or Christ in our family, neighbors, friends?

I bet the political arguments, the inter-family quarrelling, and the uneasiness of getting together may look a little different if we put on those eyes and sought to see the good first. 

A few years ago, now, I was a part of a class that watched the movie Babett’s Feast. (How many of you have ever seen it?) It is a foreign film with English subtitles, but it is the message that makes all the difference.  Nora Gallager wrote a beautiful summary of the movie that I would like to share this morning.

The movie Babette’s Feast is the story of two sisters, living alone in a remote coastal village in northern Norway.  They are in their middle age, good women.  Their idea of a good meal is a piece of salted cod.  Their father, a pastor; has died; their church community dwindles and grows gossipy and backstabbing.

Enter into the scene, Babette, a French refuge. She offers to cook for them in exchange for room and board.

For fourteen years, Babette cooks salted cod, ale soup with bread, but with her own special touch.  Her only contact with France is a once-a-year splurge; she buys a lottery ticket by mail. 

One day a letter arrives for Babette. You guessed it. She’s won ten thousand francs, enough to pay her passage home and live on once she arrives. Babette askes her benefactors if she might cook them one last meal, a dinner for twelve at her expense. 

Cages of quail arrive from France: wines, cheeses, fresh eggs and butter and herbs. The sisters begin to panic: what to do with such extravagance? Such excess?

The day of the feast comes. Babette sets the table with fine linens and candles, crystal and china. And the guests arrive – most of them the bickering churchgoers, and there is also a French general, a former suitor of one of the sisters.  Middle aged and successful, he has put into his ambition all the energy and love he once felt for his beloved.

Their eyes widen as they begin to eat. For some, the sips of champagne are first in a lifetime. The general exclaims over the quail baked in a pastry shell, the wonderful cheeses.  He says, “Surely, this food is exactly like a meal I once had at Chez Angelique, a restaurant in Paris. Its chef was the only woman chef in all of France.”  As they eat and drink, their smiles begin.  For some, it is the first time they’ve eaten really good food in a whole lifetime of deprivation. Hesitantly, and then with more gusto, they begin to talk. One man opens a sore subject with another “You cheated me,” he says calmly. “Yes, I did,” replies the other. “Oh, well,” the first man responds. “I cheated you too.” And they shake hands. Two women who have gossiped rudely about each other throughout their lives smile warmly at each other and lift their glasses in a toast. And as the coffee and dessert are laid on the table, with more champagne, the general lifts his glass to the whole community.

“Mercy is infinite,” he says. “All that we need is given to us.” Then he adds, “And even what we have rejected in our lives,” he says, looking at the woman he loved long ago, “will, in the end be granted to us.”

At the end of the film, we discover that Babette, or course, was the chef at Chez Angelique, but the greater surprise is she is not leaving at all. Why not? Because a meal for twelve at Chez Angelique costs ten thousand francs. Babette had given them everything.  And this may be the final reason the dinner was so transforming: it was given with complete generosity, with nothing held back. Babette knew how to say thanks. 

Babette’s Feast is a story about the healing power of extravagance, of extravagant generosity, or extravagant love.

  This is the same feast that Wisdom (God) invited us all to when she said,

5 “Come, eat of my bread
    and drink of the wine I have mixed.
6 Lay aside immaturity,[a] and live,
    and walk in the way of insight.”

 I pray as we enter our Thanksgiving rituals, that we could take a moment and prepare ourselves.  That we could ask ourselves,

·        Am I looking for that of God in those around the Thanksgiving table?

·        Where do I need to “lay aside the immaturity and seek to walk in the way of insight” this Thanksgiving?

·        How am I being extravagantly generous and loving this Thanksgiving?

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11-17-19 - Selah (Part 3)

Life Selah (Part 3)

Indianapolis First Friends Quaker Meeting

Pastor Bob Henry

November 17, 2019

Matthew 11:29

Take my yoke upon you, and learn from me; for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.

This has been a long week for many of us at First Friends. I know I have found myself on several occasions this week in this very Meeting Room sitting in silence, holding a variety people in the Light, crying out to God for healing, safety, and hope. I sought solace and peace while sitting in these pews. On occasion I would take time to gaze out our Quaker stained-glass windows at the beauty of nature, the dusting of snow, the falling leaves, all while the wintry winds blew outside the Meetinghouse. Their sound almost lulling me into a sense of quiet peace and pause amidst the difficulties that this week brought.

I have been trying hard to process and articulate all that I have been experiencing this week within our faith community. I finally decided that the best way of describing it is by calling it a Life Selah - an interruption to all that is normal which necessitates or demands a pause, that forces us to listen and look carefully at life, and reflect on our priorities and that which is truly important.

I am sure most of us have experienced at least one Life Selah at some point in our lives. It could have been losing a job, getting a divorce, receiving a difficult diagnosis, experiencing the death of a loved one. Whatever the event, it causes us to stop in our tracks, to realize the fragility of life, and center us again on what is important. I have been with several of you as you have gone through these experiences, and when my parents had their car accident a few years ago, many came along side of my family and me, because even though Life Selahs are very personal, often they become a communal experience.

Last Monday started out very normal, getting my wife and boys off to work and school, looking over my rather light schedule and being excited about getting

caught up as the craziness of the Christmas season is beginning to loom in the near distance. Yet upon arriving at the office, Monday, I received a couple of rather alarming texts from friends within the meeting. It wouldn’t be long before I would be jumping back in my car and heading to Riley Children’s Hospital where Naomi Wheeler’s 15-year-old son, Kian, was taken after being struck by a truck as he was biking to school that morning. In a matter of moments, I found myself and a variety of people in our community having a Life Selah.

I wish all my training, education, and pastoral experience could prepare me for these moments, but as I have learned on many occasions, it’s just not possible. No one is prepared for these moments. They grab our fast-paced busy lives and present us with a new reality on the spot – and often with little or no warning.

Quaker Thomas Kelly said it well when he said we live so much of our lives in “an intolerable scramble of panting feverishness.” That is, until we are thrown a Life Selah and it quickly all comes to a screeching halt.

Often in these difficult times, we need guidance and wisdom from others who have already traveled these difficult roads and have something to share. I know many people who have shared their experiences with Naomi because, I believe, we are connected by our experiences and stories.

As well, many of us turn to the scriptures in these times for the same reasons. We hope we can connect to the characters of scripture and learn from their experiences and stories as well. This is one of the reasons in difficult times, I turn to the book of Psalms. I relate to the Psalm writer, David who often cried out in frustration, in confusion, in seeking to understand life and what all God was up to. David (as is the case with many characters in Scripture) encountered Life Selahs – some unexpected and some of his own doing.

As I sat in the pews this week crying out, returning to David’s Psalms, pondering just what and how I was to pray. I again heard that still small voice. And much like the morning walk where I heard the world “Selah,” this time the word was simply “rest.” Ironically, it is a common theme in David’s psalms, here are just a couple of examples:

• My soul finds rest in God alone.

• Be at rest once more, O my soul,

for the Lord has been good to me.

Also, there are what are considered resting psalms such as Psalm 131 which one verse reads, “But I have calmed and quieted my soul.” And there are many Psalms which speak of restoring – which that word itself implies that to rest-ore something one will need first to include rest.

And then I was reminded of Jesus’ invitation to us all, which was the scripture Erin read,

“Take my yoke upon you and learn from me; for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your souls.”

Much like Selah a couple weeks ago, rest I sensed was one of the best answers to these interruptions of life. Even though in the midst of chaos, disruption, or unexpected change, we, too often, turn to worry or want to quickly find a way to take control or fix the situation. Sadly, Life Selahs don’t always afford quick solutions or take overs. They are complicated, they need time, and they often require clear thinking.

When we take a Selah and stop and allow ourselves to rest from the chaos and confusion swirling around us, we often are more able to find a sense of stability or even serenity. The rest clears our minds and helps us find focus and attentiveness to what God is doing in our midst. We may even see new possibilities, new opportunities which did not seem available in the moment, or renewed hope.

Madame Guyon said that in the midst of these interruptions we should,

“Rest. Rest. Rest in God’s love. The only work you are required now to do is

to give your most intense attention to His still, small voice within.”

It was interesting how often this week I heard the word rest in the midst of all that was going on. Whether it was the doctors saying they were going to sedate Kian so he could rest and allow his brain to heal and come back to center, or the family members being encouraged to rest, so the shock of the accident could wear off and they could be clear and attentive to Kian’s needs. Even taking time to rest in the presence of friends and loved ones – because sometimes presence is more important than words in these moments.

Folks, it is clear that we all have limits and that there is a finiteness to our time and energy – especially in the midst of difficult situations or Life Selahs. I believe, we were created this way. And I believe needing to rest is a God-like quality. If we acknowledge that of God within us, then we must also acknowledge the God who has taught us both to work and rest. It was God who instilled the need for Sabbath rest in the hearts of the Hebrew people and led by example by taking a rest at the end of creation. Jesus continued this practice, often in the midst of some rather difficult times, by going off and resting and allowing him to center and reconnect to God’s will. What I have learned in my studies is that rest is both a physical need and spiritual act. Similar to what I said last week, rest is another act of surrender to the dependence on God. And as Quakers it is also a centering-quality. That when we willingly take time to rest – we connect more fully with our inner light or the God or Christ within us and then also with the God or Christ within our neighbor. Rest is restorative to our own soul and the soul of our community.

Just maybe the best thing we could do, that may change our world for the better is find more time for rest.

It is something an old friend of Sue and mine, Brenda Jank, has dedicated her life to and is very passionate about. Brenda founded an organization called, “Run Hard. Rest Well.” which is completely dedicated to advocating for the vital importance of rest. Their mission is to champion rest because they believe it has the ability to change culture and counteract the destructive nature of overload. I love that. It makes me wonder, how we can “champion rest” at First Friends? It seems to me to be a radical counter-cultural idea for Quakers like us.

And one last thing I want to emphasize, I don’t want someone to walk away from this morning thinking, Pastor Bob thinks we all need to take a nap or get more sleep (that may be a priority and needed for many of us), but for some people taking time to read a book, listen to music, do some type of craft or art, yoga, spend time watching a movie, laughing with a friend, experiencing nature or a sunset, even taking a drive, riding a bike, or for some (not me), running, and the list goes on…all are ways we can rest our souls and re-center ourselves during Life Selahs.

Let’s now take a rest this morning as we enter waiting worship. Allow yourself to rest this morning, feel the presence of this place and the people within, and take time to center in on the connection with your Inner Light or the Christ or God within you and your neighbor. Let us take this time.

• When have I experienced a Life Selah? How did I respond?

• How might I develop a better discipline of rest in my life?

• How might we encourage opportunities for rest at First Friends?

 

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11-10-19 - Selah (Part 2)

Selah (Part 2)

Indianapolis First Friends

Pastor Bob Henry

November 10, 2019

 

Habakkuk 2:20

But the Lord is in his holy temple;
    let all the earth keep silence before him!

Back when I was an Anglican Priest serving at the Cathedral in Rochester Hills, MI, my bishop would enter for morning prayers, raise his hands to the heavens, and say those words, which David read for our scripture passage this morning.

The Lord is in his holy temple; let all the earth keep silence before him!

After those words we entered a time of silence and pause. It slowed our pace, it made us look around our sanctuary with reverence and awe, and even began to center us into the silence of worship.

Yet, I remember one day, sitting in the Cathedral sanctuary and hearing those words, and being stopped in my tracks. I had been preparing for a sermon on 1 Corinthians 6:19 which reads… 

“Do you not know that your bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit, who is in you, whom you have received from God?”  

I wondered to myself, how I had missed this. The Lord is in his holy temple – that holy temple is me and my sisters and brothers surrounding me, and not the cathedral I was sitting in for prayers. This is one of the great spiritual migrations within Scripture and for us as Quakers – a migration from the brick and mortar temples to the bodily temples of flesh and blood. Thus, I realized a Quaker truth that our physical bodies or temples must become silent so that the God within us may be heard and experienced. 

This morning I want to spend some time sharing some thoughts, but also inserting a couple of Selahs (as we talked about last week) for pause, silent reflection, and listening.

To begin, we often talk about the center of our temples being the heart. This comes from our Jewish roots. The Hebrew people believed that the heart was the center or core of our being because it was where the breath of God co-mingled with our blood, entering our bodies to give us life.

I have heard people say that it is our heart which yearns for God, when in reality it is our heart, or the core of our being, that is our most precious and powerful connection to God. As Quakers we would call this “connecting to our Inner Light or the Christ or God within.”

Yet, let’s be honest, there are so many distractions in our world that get in the way of us attaining the proper posture to make this heart connection.

Last week our scripture spoke of how this heart connection may be made. Psalm 46 read, “Be Still and Know that I Am God.” A simple phrase we often overlook or assume we understand.

Being still, is not so easy in our fast-paced world. Even when we slow down and silence our lives, our minds continue to work, and our lives continue to distract us from making this connection. A couple of years ago, Sue told me how doctors said that we should not be looking at our smart phones before we go to bed, because our brains are so stimulated that they cannot fully become still and rest – so as we sleep technology keeps are minds working. And technology is only one of the distractors we face in our world that keep us from stillness.

For you and me, being still, finding time for a Selah-pause, and entering silence can be hard, but in reality, it should be a welcomed process. This means it will take some set-apart time, practice, discipline, committed dedication and the removal of distractions for us to make a deeper heart connection. 

J. Krishnamurti in his book, Freedom from the Known said it this way…

If one wants to see a thing very clearly, one’s mind must be very quiet, without all the prejudices, the chattering, the dialogue, the images, the pictures–all that must be put aside to look. And it is only in silence that you can observe the beginning of thought–not when you are searching, asking questions, waiting for a reply. So, it is only when you are completely quiet, right through your being…then you will begin to see out of that silence how thought takes shape…

With that thought, let us take a Selah and quiet ourselves this morning to begin to make that heart connection with our Inner Light or the Christ or God within.

Selah [Pause]

As we continue, let us think about the concept of surrender.

As the quote indicated, quieting our minds, our prejudices, the chatterings, the dialogue, the images that we are bombarded with at every minute will take personal surrender. 

As Quakers we believe we are all created equal, but we must realize we all do not access our Inner Light or the Christ or God within in the same way. Some of us have a much more difficult time surrendering to the distractions than others. Surrender to some is weakness or giving up, and even others cannot surrender because they feel gripped by fear or pain.    

Yet, when we are willing and able to enter this place of surrender to that of God within us, we are able to experience a sense of personal forgiveness and true love in an intimate and personal way.

It becomes a force that surges through our bodies and minds - a power that lifts us beyond ourselves in ways previously unimagined. George Fox and the Early Quakers called this “The Power of the Lord.” Scott Martin in Friends Journal wrote, 

“The Power of the Lord” had multiple meanings for Fox and other early Friends, but the most common use of the phrase was to refer to a sensible, divine power or energy. Friends would experience this power surrounding them or flowing through their bodies under a variety of conditions, but most often at the point of convincement, when facing a trial, or during meeting for worship. An experience of the power was often associated with some kind of involuntary physical or mental phenomenon. When seized by the power, some Friends quaked, vocalized, or fell unconscious to the floor, while other Friends saw brilliant light, had visions, experienced healing, or felt a force emanating from them that was capable of subduing an angry and hostile mob…

 

Isaac Pennington’s advice to the seekers of the 17th century applies equally to the seekers among us today: Oh, sit, sit daily and sink down to the seed and “wait for the risings of the power … that thou mayst feel inward healing.”

 

When we surrender the distractions and make a connection to our inner light or the Christ or God within, we too may experience “The Power of God.” Something, our world and Quakerism so desperately needs. I sense the “power rising” at First Friends. People among us are speaking up, are experiencing physical, spiritual, and emotional healing, are having visions and taking action to help change our world.  

 

Again, let us take a Selah to quiet ourselves, to seek connection, and ask for “The Power of the Lord” to rise within and among us here this morning.

 

Selah [Pause]

Finally, Richard Rohr says:

The Good News is that it’s not about being correct. It’s about being connected. When the Spirit within you connects with God’s Spirit … you are finally home. Now you know that your deepest you is God, and Christ is living his life in you and through you and with you.

 

Once we have experienced that connection and power that longs, rises, and, and responds outwardly through acts of beauty, Truth, goodness, and healing, we release ourselves from much of what occupies our daily life, our ways of relating, what we talk about, who we talk about, and what usually directs our actions. You and I are not only being guided by our inner light or Christ or God within, but we should also be recognizing and realizing that of God in each person we meet. Once we realize and acknowledge that of God in ourselves – we cannot dismiss that of God in our neighbor – no matter their gender, orientation, race, status, culture, or religious experience.

As we Quakers make our own heart connections, a natural response should rise up inside of us to seek and begin to see that of God in those around us. People we can practice a better way of living with.  A way rooted in the connecting love of God. A way that seeks to trust each other, to build each other up, to encourage and support each other, and learn to live in ways we cannot currently imagine. This is what I consider living the Quaker Way rooted in love.   

Laura Madson imagined it this way.

“A Light begins to grow within us that reveals Life in a way we couldn’t see before. A boldness emerges within us that we are held by. We know experientially, simply, and humbly, that Life is very sweet and precious. That all that we seek individually in our busy separate lives finds its rest by finding its place within the recognition of our Unity.”

May this morning our heart connections, find “The Power of the Lord,” and unite us together in this Quaker Way rooted in love.

As we enter our final Selah this morning, let us consider this our waiting worship in the manner of Friends. Take a moment to pause and reflect on what has been said, seek to make the heart connection, and consider the queries for this morning.

  • Why is it difficult for me to get completely quiet? What are my distractions?

  • When I finally become silent, do I sense the presence of God?

  • What connections in the silence bring life to me?

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11-03-19 - Selah

Selah

Indianapolis First Friends Quaker Meeting

Pastor Bob Henry

November 3, 2019

Psalm 46 (NRSV)  Pew Bible: p. 450

1 God is our refuge and strength,
    a very present help in trouble.
2 Therefore we will not fear, though the earth should change,
    though the mountains shake in the heart of the sea;
3 though its waters roar and foam,
    though the mountains tremble with its tumult.Selah

4 There is a river whose streams make glad the city of God,
    the holy habitation of the Most High.
5 God is in the midst of the city; it shall not be moved;
    God will help it when the morning dawns.
6 The nations are in an uproar, the kingdoms totter;
    he utters his voice, the earth melts.
7 The Lord of hosts is with us;
    the God of Jacob is our refuge.  Selah

8 Come, behold the works of the Lord;
    see what desolations he has brought on the earth.
9 He makes wars cease to the end of the earth;
    he breaks the bow, and shatters the spear;
    he burns the shields with fire.
10 “Be still, and know that I am God!
    I am exalted among the nations,
    I am exalted in the earth.”
11 The Lord of hosts is with us;
    the God of Jacob is our refuge.  Selah

 

 

Probably because of all the photos I post of the beautiful sunrises on social media, many of you know that each day after I get Sue and the boys off to work and the bus, I take my morning walk. It has become a sacred and centering time for me. The cool air and vigorous walk clear my brain and allow me the needed time to reconnect with nature, my neighbors, and the Creator God I thank for it all. 

Often as I walk, I find myself giving thanks for my family, my life, and this Meeting that I not only consider my faith community, but that I have the honor and privilege of serving each and every day. I also often remember those suffering from illnesses or suffering with mental, emotional, or physical pain, and I take a moment to lift their names to the rising of a new day filled with hope.

One day this week as I was walking, I had a moment of divine clarity and direction. Like George Fox before me, I felt God was speaking to my condition and even the condition of our Meeting.  What came to mind was not a long message, detailed directions, or even a vision – rather it was simply one word: SELAH

Now, before I explain that word, I want to give some context. When I started our current sermon series, It’s Time to Get Moving: Quakerism for Today back in September, I knew God had stirred me to wrestle with some heavy topics and craft a set of teaching sermons to address the brokenness of Quakerism and the needed direction for its successful future.  I knew the series would speak to more than just First Friends – and it has – as I have received messaged from other states and even countries.

Please understand, after two years of conversations and integrating our family into this Meeting, I have learned a great deal (by no means everything) of the great diversity on so many levels here at First Friends. I deeply value that diversity and what it offers us as a body. Just facilitating the conversations in Seeking Friends each week has been a clear eye-opener to the spectrum of beliefs that this place holds. Many in that class can attest to the beauty of our differences and the importance of learning from each another.  As well, attending Yearly Meeting events over the last couple of years have also at times been eye-openers and often left me wondering where First Friends fits in and our place in the future of our Yearly Meeting. These are just a couple of the reasons why I was (and continue to be) hopeful that these sermons could help us transcend our beliefs, and institutional structures, and find a way here at First Friends to “get moving” and keep the vigor and excitement around this place fresh, challenging, and growing. 

One thing I have learned in my 25 years in ministry is that sermons can be conversations starters, as well as, fire starters. It is typical with any diverse group, that some sermons and conversations will take time to process. Let’s admit it, some are hard and need time to percolate and brew in our hearts and among us.  It is very similar to Quaker Business or Waiting Worship when we need time to pause and reflect on what we have just heard, so the words can settle into our hearts - the very reason we often sit in silence for a time before someone else speaks.

I believe it has been extremely clear when talking with many you throughout the week that First Friends has a hunger for deeper conversations, for deeper thinking, and even deeper relationships among us and within our community. But as I have shared openly from my own journey, this deeper path often takes time.

During the current sermon series, I have used the analogy of migration and making a needed move in our thinking or beliefs – but even migration takes seasons - geese flying south don’t arrive in a day as we would flying in a plane.   

Thus we need time to chew, time to reflect, and time to query about our own responses and beliefs.    

That being said, I am also very pleased to see the actions and conversations that have already begun during this time. I have been humbled to be part of so many conversations of healing that have taken place as we have grappled with difficult church history, our understanding of God and faith, and finding the Quaker Way rooted in Love.

I am moved by the desire of many in our meeting to actually do something tangible like address the safety of 5G networks, or start a discussion on how we can make a difference with payday lending in our own Glendale neighborhood or seek ways to use our property to preserve our ecological priorities and continue to teach our testimonies.  These are just a few of the many conversations and actions that have begun in the recent months.

Now, let me return to Selah.  The word Selah is used 74 times in the Bible in only two books – Psalms and Habakkuk.  It is a mysterious word that has no specific meaning. It often appears in more lyrical or poetic verse, because many believe it was a liturgical or musical mark.  Scholars consider it an instruction for the musician or reader to stop and listen or take a needed pause to reflect on what happened just before or the words prior to the pause.

To receive this word as I walked the other morning was not alarming, but more affirmation that we have been doing really hard work.  We have been wrestling with difficult, but important things, and our cups are full and overflowing…and this includes my own.

So, this morning, I am declaring Selah on this sermon series.  It is time to stop and listen, it is time to take a needed pause to reflect. 

Please note: that does not mean that the final 5 sermons are being scrapped or I am going in a different direction. We will return and finish them in a new season after the holidays – after taking our Selah. 

For those in the meeting that are ready for more, or those online waiting for the next sermon to drop, I am simply asking you to pause, listen, and reflect. For those who attend or listen occasionally, maybe take some time during November to go back and listen to the sermons you missed. They were meant to build on each other while laying a foundation for us as a thriving progressive Quaker community. Folks, First Friends is a unique and special place. I believe (as many of you do) that we are the face of a new kind of Quakerism that can take us into the future with hope and stability. Also, if you return to the messages or reflect back over the last couple months, take some time to reflect on your own responses to these messages, what stirred your passions, what rubbed you the wrong way, and why?, what response did they inspire?  And then find sometime to have a conversation with someone (maybe someone different than you at our meeting) or make a coffee date or lunch with me or Beth to discuss what is being stirred up in your heart.  As I said when speaking at FUM’s Stoking the Fire this summer, “Having conversations are vital to the survival and growth of Friends. When we stop having conversations and assume we have it all figured out then we begin to die.”     

So, let us enter our Selah today – take time to reflect, listen, and pause and see how God has been and continues to speak to you and us as a community.

Queries to Ponder:

  • Where do I need to stop an listen or take a needed pause in my life?

  • What is being stirred in my heart?

  • What is rubbing me the wrong way? And why?

  • In what way am I being led to respond?

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10-20-19 - God for Us All

God for Us All

Indianapolis First Friends Quaker Meeting

Pastor Bob Henry

October 20, 2019

 

Philippians 2:1-11

 

Therefore if you have any encouragement from being united with Christ, if any comfort from his love, if any common sharing in the Spirit, if any tenderness and compassion, 2 then make my joy complete by being like-minded, having the same love, being one in spirit and of one mind. 3 Do nothing out of selfish ambition or vain conceit. Rather, in humility value others above yourselves, 4 not looking to your own interests but each of you to the interests of the others.

 

5 In your relationships with one another, have the same mindset as Christ Jesus:

6 Who, being in very nature God,
    did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;
7 rather, he made himself nothing
    by taking the very nature of a servant,
    being made in human likeness.
8 And being found in appearance as a man,
    he humbled himself
    by becoming obedient to death—
        even death on a cross!

 

9 Therefore God exalted him to the highest place
    and gave him the name that is above every name,
10 that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow,
    in heaven and on earth and under the earth,
11 and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord,
    to the glory of God the Father.

 

 

Since this morning we are going to be talking about God, I thought as good Quakers we should start by going to the authorities on God – children.  If you thought you had some questions about God, just listen to some of the questions that children out there have.  They will get you thinking (and possibly laughing). These are actual questions children have asked which I found on a parenting blog titled, “CafeMom.”

  1. "Why did God make mosquitoes? All they do is bite you? Why would God do that?!"

  2. "Why does God stay in heaven and not come down to earth to visit?"

  3. "I think my 4-year-old son got confused when we told him that God watches over us. He said 'Wait, so God is Santa Claus?'"

  4. "Did Jesus get potty trained as fast as me?"

  5. "How did Jesus even rise from the grave? Did he punch out of his grave and say, 'This isn’t the last of Jesus!'?"

  6. "Is Jesus a zombie?"

  7. "Can God read our minds?"

  8. "Is Santa God's really rich brother?'

  9. "'Mommy, is that God?' referring to the priest marrying my sister-in-law and her husband."

  10. "When my son was about 4 or 5, and it started to rain while we were walking back from the park, he asked me if it was God peeing on us."

  11. "If God saw that it was not good for Adam to be alone... how come He never made himself a wife?"

  12. "If God sees everything, does he watch us in the shower?"

  13. "I teach preschool Sunday school and ... I talked about Jesus as the Good Shepherd and how He will leave 99 sheep to find one lost one. One little boy piped up, 'Did Jesus live in a zoo?'"

  14. "Why does he have horns? Does he headbutt the other gods?"

  15. "So, was he a vampire?"

  16. "When my oldest was about 3, we found a baby bird in the yard that had fallen from its nest. When I went to check on it the next morning, it had died. When I took the kids out to play, I discreetly scooped him up, put him in a bag and in the trash. When we came in, my son said, 'Mama, what happened to that baby bird?' Trying to skirt the issue, I said, 'Oh, you don't have to worry about that baby bird, he lives with Jesus now.' He looked at me thoughtfully for a few moments and said, 'Jesus lives in the trash?'"

  17. "Did Jesus practice walking on water first? How can I do it?"

  18. "If Jesus doesn't have a sister, why do I need to have one?"

This morning, I would like us to explore what we know and believe about God. And just like those kids, it is always acceptable among Friends – and especially here at First Friends to ask questions. So, allow yourself to be open and inquisitive this morning.

Much of what I talked about last week, as hard as it was to wrestle with and try and understand, reflects too well what many people believe about God.

Countless people have a picture of God that is violent, domineering, controlling, and supreme in many of the wrong ways. This concept and understanding of God often comes from what traditionally theologians call “omni-theology.”  Now, many of us in this very meetinghouse were probably raised with omni-theology where we used these descriptors to explain God

omnipresent – God is everywhere.

omniscient – God is all knowing.

omnipotent – God is all mighty or the supreme being. 

 

Yet, while I was being taught this omni-theology in my conformation class at the age of 13 a fellow classmate raised his hand and asked a poignant question,

 

If God is all powerful, can He create a rock so large He cannot pick it up?

 

and the questions continued to grow. Sadly, the bible didn’t help me on this one…because if you look carefully you will find verses and stories in the bible that refute every one of those attributes.  As well, the bible is filled with paradoxes that get one’s mind spinning in thought.  I remember a time when my mind went spinning and this is what it kind of sounded like…

 

Either God wants to abolish evil and cannot,

or he can, but does not want to,

or he cannot and does not want to.

 

If he wants to, but cannot, he is impotent.

If he can, but does not want to, then he is wicked.

If he neither can, nor wants to, he is both powerless and wicked.

 

Like I said, all this can very quickly have our heads spinning.  If you enjoy this type of thinking…I have an opportunity for you…it’s called seminary…there is a lot of head spinning that goes on there. Just ask Beth Henricks about that with her current class on postmodernity in her Master of Divinity program at Earlham School of Religion.

 

Anyway, as soon as the questions were adequately satisfied (which they never were) my confirmation teacher (who was also my pastor) would quickly move to another statement about God, which went like this,

 

“To really see who God is, we must look at Jesus.”

 

Now, Jesus was much more relatable. Jesus was much more tangible. Jesus was much more human and did things that humans, like me, did.  And yet, Jesus wasn’t really much like this “God” we were just discussing.  Rather confusing if you really think about.  So many other theologies and explanations had to be created to make it all work and make sense, that often we just went with it. Since most of the confirmands just wanted to get through the class so they could take communion and say they drank wine at church. We often moved on, leaving me with lots of questions. 

 

Actually, looking at Jesus was probably the best suggestion or move we could make (back then and today), because the God we would see in Jesus is much different – instead of lightning bolts or wrathful threats the God of Jesus took up a water basin and a towel and declared forgiveness, brought reconciliation, proclaimed good news for all, and had compassion for people who did not know the way of shalom and love.       

 

In the biblical chapter of my doctoral dissertation I traced the concept of shalom (which means to bring into peaceful wholeness) from Genesis to Revelation and found often in both the Old and New Testaments a God who was seeking first and foremost this way of shalom rooted in love. Too often scripture shows this shalom-seeking God being overshadowed by the actions, beliefs, or desires of the God-followers – leaving God waiting patiently on them to seek the way of shalom and love for themselves. (To me, this “waiting patiently” definitely shows that God must be a Quaker).

 

Finally, when Jesus appears on Earth or as it says in The Message, “when he moved into the neighborhood,” he was able to show them tangibly a new way.  Yet many still refused to follow His way, always adding more and more to convolute and detract from his simplicity. Ironically, this was exactly what Jesus was always questioning the religious authorities of his day about – they loved adding rules and hoops to jump through.  Yet, Jesus was trying to get them back to the essentials of shalom and love, all while they believed they had better ideas. Ideas that would lead to many of the atrocities we talked about last week.  

 

Also, for Jesus, God was supreme, but not in a supremacy as-we-know-it-today kind of way – Instead Jesus always was trying to show God as the supreme healer, supreme friend, supreme lover, supreme life-giver…so much so that God would ultimately empty himself for the benefit of ALL people.  Listen again to how Paul explained it to the Philippians:

 

6 Who, being in very nature God,
    did not consider equality with God something to be used to his own advantage;
7 rather, he made himself nothing
    by taking the very nature of a servant,
    being made in human likeness.
8 And being found in appearance as a man,
    he humbled himself
    by becoming obedient to death—
        even death on a cross!

 

What Jesus did was give us a brand new and radical understanding of God. He flipped our understanding completely upside down. The domineering, wrathful, violent God had now become just the opposite – nondominating, nonwrathful, nonviolent, and supreme in self-giving and service.

 

Let’s be honest, this God that Jesus was trying to show us, I believe, makes much more sense, because first and foremost we hopefully want to relate to this image of God.

 

Actually, as Quakers who believe that there is that of God in every person, this means even more. It means that we not only can relate, but we should be emulating, or even better yet, incarnating this God that Jesus is showing us in our everyday lives. 

 

We should be working hard on becoming nondominating, nonwrathful, nonviolent people who seek ways to be supreme in self-giving and service to ALL people.  Then our neighbors will be able to see “that of God in us.”

 

Now, before we embark on emulating and incarnating this way, we probably need to do some self-work. That means we are going to have to ask ourselves some difficult queries to help us process where we are struggling with living this way, currently.

 

We should ask ourselves something like this…

 

·        Who deep down do I want to dominate?  Who do I want to exercise control over? Who don’t I mind belittling, shaming, or making feel less-than for my own benefit or desires?

 

·        Who experiences my fierce anger the easiest? Do they deserve it? Have I tried to understand him/her, and have I taken the time to look inside myself at the root of my own wrath?  (If wrath is truly at its deepest root a corollary of love – let’s seek to tap into the love instead of producing angry responses.)

 

·        Who undeservedly receives my violent responses, or who do I wish them upon?  How often have I wished someone removed from my life (even dead), or wanted to physically hurt someone to make myself feel better? (I used to think this sounded out there, but violence today takes many forms.  – bullying or emotional violence or intimidation is a violent act that is often used by youth on the internet, as well as people in Fortune 500 companies. I don’t know how many times, I have heard people say, “Well, if we could just get rid of that person (or those people) our problems would be solved.” Do we really mean that?  All you have to do is a take a look at a list of the things that cause PTSD in people and you will see how varied violent responses really are and the effects they have on each of us.)        

 

Just by asking ourselves those three queries we are quick to realize how important it is to work on becoming less dominate, less wrathful, and less violent. As we do, it is easier to see how we might be able to give, serve, and ultimately begin to seek shalom and love our neighbor as ourselves.

 

Instead of emulating the old view of God which produces many of the things we talked about last week, if we emulate the God we see in Jesus then we might just begin to heal our world starting in our own areas of influence (family, work, relationships, church, etc.) I will be the first to admit, it is never easy being humbled.  It isn’t easy trying to focus on putting others before ourselves. And often the last thing we want to do is willingly sacrifice our own desires to see others healed, reconciled, and successful in their pursuits. But when we do, others will be able to see that of a hopeful, loving, gracious, and kind God inside each of us.

 

That there is the way of Jesus rooted in love that we have been talking about throughout this series.

 

During our time of waiting worship, I challenge us to sit on those queries I read earlier, which can be found on the back of your bulletin.

 

·        Who deep down do I want to dominate?

·        Who experiences my fierce anger the easiest?

·        Who undeservedly receives my violent responses, or who do I wish them upon? 

 

And allow your Inner Light to speak to your condition this morning.  If you feel led to share out of the silence, please stand and a microphone will be brought to you.

  

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