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August 30, 2017

As Way Opens

This past Sunday morning on my way to Meeting, I was driving east on Kessler Blvd heading close to Keystone Avenue.  Off in the distance I saw an older man with a bucket and what looked like a cane as he was leaning over on the center concrete median dividing north and south traffic on Kessler at Keystone.  From my distance the man looked homeless and I thought to myself here is another panhandler looking for money to put into his bucket.  As I approached Keystone and the man came into my direct vision, what had looked like a cane was actually a metal litter stick and the man was picking up trash on the road.  Here he was early on a Sunday morning working to beautify our street and I had assumed he was a panhandler.

How often do we make assumptions about people in the blink of an eye? We assess their race, gender, size, appearance etc. and immediately make a judgement about them.  How often is our judgement completely wrong?  And how long do we take to allow other information to influence how we see this person?

I remember watching a TV show that was testing the idea of assumptions about people.  They set up a pretend situation of a child being dragged down the street yelling that the adult was trying to hurt them to observe how strangers would respond to the situation.  Person after person just walked by - most of them looking very respectable on the outside and yet ignoring the situation.  Help came from three Hispanic young men with hoodies on and sagging pants.  They surrounded the adult and directly confronted him with the child.

Jesus showed us that people are far beyond the boxes and categories that we put them in.  During this difficult season of time in our country, I pray that we open our hearts, our minds, our eyes to all folks and to their voices and that we really do live out our Quaker foundational principle that there is that of God in every person.

Beth


Joys & Concerns

What a great day at the ballpark! First Friends had a blast at Victory Field to watch the last Indians home game of the season. We had about 40 people -- thanks to all who came out and made the day so much fun!

We are excited to welcome back the preschool co-op to First Friends for the 2017/2018 school year.  The kids return next Tuesday for their first week of class.  This has been a wonderful relationship that is now entering it’s 5th year.  We work well together and have benefitted from the co-op’s presence here.  As an example, our Trustees purchased the mulch for our playground and the call was put out to help spread the mulch this week. The office looks forward to the sound of children’s voices in the hallway next week!


Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Please note, in observance of Labor Day the office will be closed Monday, September 4. There will also be no Meditational Worship that day. Have a wonderful Labor Day!

 

Labor of Love - Join us this Sunday! ~ In response to the atrocities currently taking place in our country, we invite everyone to a peaceful gathering of neighbors and Friends on Sunday, September 3rd in our Meditational Woods. We will gather in solidarity with our community and nation to express our desire for peace, equality, unity and love. As we expect many guests that day, we ask all who are able to please bring their lawn chairs! The event will include responses and opportunities for awareness through story, song, and art, as well as, a message from guest speaker, Malkah Bird, from American Friends Service Committee of Indianapolis and music by Eric Baker. Also, a special time of waiting worship in the manner of Friends will be offered allowing participants to speak out their responses to these difficult times. To conclude we are planning a special sending and call to action to take place around our peace pole.

 

Spiritual Growth Small Groups ~ We are excited to offer spiritual growth small groups this fall starting Oct 2nd and continuing for a 6 week period.  We will be studying the book by Joyce Rupp called The Cup of Our Life that examines the rich symbol of a cup in all its many forms to our everyday life.  These small groups will be facilitated by Jim and Leslie Kartholl, Bill Heitman and Sam Ryan, Mary Blackburn and David Beatty, Barbara Oberreich and Beth Henricks, Ann and Steve Rodino.  The groups will meet on either Sunday after Meeting for Worship, Monday evening, Tuesday evening, Wednesday afternoon and Friday evening and will last 90 minutes each time.  Please start thinking about your participation in this deepening spiritual time together and watch for sign up soon.  Childcare will be provided for the gathering on Sunday.

 

Underneath It All – A message from Linda Lee - Underneath It All is coming to a close, although I do not plan to deliver your kind donations until I review what the current needs are, making sure to spend your money to the best effect. If anyone is interested in visiting the John H. Boner Center when I deliver the underwear, please let me know. Last second donations are still welcome. Your generosity is greatly appreciated. 

 

Mid North Food Pantry Drive ~ First Friends is doing its annual fundraising for the Mid North Food Pantry in September, rather than November, this year.  The pantry is in need of funds due to heavy demand during a very busy summer.  We are, once again, requesting cash donations rather than food items as the pantry can purchase a much greater quantity of food with donated dollars than we can at grocery stores.  Children who attend Sunday School can continue to bring in food items.  Food insecurity is as great as ever in Indianapolis.  Please donate as you are led.  Checks can be made to First Friends with a notation of “Mid North” or “Food Pantry”.  Thank you.
 

Sunday School Kick-Off! Our Sunday School kick off will be on September 10th.  We will start the morning with breakfast for everyone in fellowship hall at 8:30. We encourage everyone to come in their pajama's! Our classes will begin at 9:00 a.m. as follows:

PreK - 2nd grade in our large children’s room

3rd - 5th grade in the far northeast room

6th - 12th grade in the basement

We will use a curriculum from Church of the Brethen Press called SHINE that will focus this fall On Being God’s People

The following adult/multigenerational classes will be offered:

Christ and Quakers - Held in the parlor and led by Dan L. This class will explore various viewpoints on Christ from George Fox, John Woolman, Lucretia Mott, Rufus Jones, Elton Trueblood and others.

Seeking Friends - Bob Henry will lead the group through the Brian McLaren book, We Make the Road by Walking. This study will give us an overview of the Bible and guide the group through rich study, interactive learning, and personal growth. Each week will include reading scripture together, study time, and queries to ponder throughout the week.

Wired Word (in Coffee Circle classroom) - will be led by Harold M. to talk about current events from a spiritual perspective.

Choir - will be meeting in the old children’s library.  Anyone that has a heart for singing is welcome to join.

Nursery care will be available during Sunday School. Please mark your calendars!

 

Babysitting Co-Op ~ Our babysitting co-op is happening on Saturday September 9th from 5:30 - 9:30. Dinner will be provided for the kids. Please contact Beth if you would like to have your kids join in the fun that evening!

 

Reunite with Ruthie!  Ruthie Tippin will be in town for several days September 13th - 15th. Beth Henricks will host an open house for her so you can have a chance to catch up with her on Wednesday September 13th from 5:00 - 8:00 p.m.  This gathering will be at Beth’s house (contact the office for address).

 

Saws Ramp Build ~ Those who are interested in helping with a SAWS ramp build on the morning of either October 14 or October 21 should notify the office as soon as possible.  The Shalom Zone is trying to determine which date folks would be available to build a ramp.  The date that most folks can attend will be chosen.  If you can make one of the dates, notify the office as soon as possible which date works best for you.  We will notify you which date is selected.  Thank you!

 

Buddy Bags are here again this year! We are collecting food for the kids at Allisonville Elementary School Fall Break. We are going to have 25 bags this year and they will be delivered on October 4th. What we need from you are the following donations: Microwaveable Entrees, Chicken Salad with Crackers, small jars of peanut butter, 4/packs of fruit cups, vegetables cups, pudding cups, and applesauce: small boxes of raisins, packets of oatmeal, boxes of Pop-Tarts, protein or granola bars, packages of peanut butter or cheese crackers, fruit roll ups and bags of goldfish. Cash or check donations will also be accepted. We all pulled together last year to make this work so I know we can do it again this year! Please contact the office with any questions.
 

The Thornburgs in Belize ~ The Thornburgs are nearing their goal for their Belize fundraiser! We at First Friends are honored to have the Thornburgs (Aaron, Michelle, Kwali, and Meshach), feeling led by God to go to Belize and help with the facility renovation and provide other assistance to the Friends school. The Thornburgs will need your financial assistance in order to make their Belize leading a reality. If you can, please donate to this cause and help the Thornburgs reach their goal!

 

Casseroles for the Henry family ~ During this time of great transition for the Henry family, it would be most appreciated if anyone could donate a casserole to the family. We need a few casseroles delivered each week, for the next few weeks, until the Henrys have moved into their new house. We ask that the casseroles be delivered in disposable containers, so that the Henrys do not have to return dishes. Also, please avoid pineapple, as Bob is allergic. If you can bring a dish, please let the office know. We are still in need of dishes!! Thank you!

 

New Library Books Ready for Checkout! The library committee comprised of John and Ileen Moorman, Lucy Beaver, and Shirley Earle are working to enhance our library. To make you aware of the new additions, here are others you may wish to sign out.

The Word Within: Essays on Prophetic Quaker Faith By Patricia Dallmann
The author has ministered and taught among liberal Friends since the mid-1980's.  The titles of her essays are intriguing: The Gift of the Scriptures, From Heaven or of Men, The Cross in Quaker Faith, Declaring the New Creation, That All May Be One.

Imagination and Spirit: A Contemporary Quaker Reader Edited and Introduced by J. Brent Bill
This collection gets high praise from the Senior Editor of Atlantic Monthly who writes: Readings that offer both food for thought and a surprise around every corner." From prominent Quaker writers, these fifteen well-selected writings will delight you.

Letters to a Fellow Seeker: A Short Introduction To The Quaker Way By Steve Chase
An excellent read for newcomers interested in Friends. The author pretends he is writing to a person he met at a train station and engaged in conversation about spirituality. His perspective is that of an FGC un-programmed Quaker. He is director of Antioch U. New England's program in Advocacy for Social Justice and Sustainability.

 

SAVE THE DATE! Shalom Zone Electronics Recycling Event ~ If an item runs (or used to run) with a plug or a battery, you can recycle it! This includes (but is not limited to) appliances, TVs, DVD/VCRs, gaming consoles, fax machines, Christmas tree lights, calculators, toner cartridges, hair dryers, and more! The Shalom Zone is holding their annual Recycle Force event at Epworth United Methodist Church, 6450 Allisonville Road, on Saturday, October 7, 10am-2pm. Please bring any items you wish to recycle to Epworth on the day of the event. A $10 donation is requested for CRT type monitors/TVs smaller than 27”; a $20 donation is requested for appliances containing Freon (fridges, freezers, A/C units, etc) and TVs larger than 27”; any other monetary contributions are also greatly appreciated.
 

Earth Care 101: Faith in Action ~ Every faith tradition recognizes the importance of caring for God’s creation.  If you would like to learn more about environmental action from a faith perspective, you may consider attending a 4-session workshop hosted by Indianapolis Green Congregations entitled “Earth Care 101: Faith in Action”.  This free workshop will be given on 4 consecutive Saturday mornings (September 16, 23, 30, and October 7) from 8:30 to 10:30 at St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic Church, 4600 N. Illinois Street, 46208.  Attendance at all four sessions is encouraged, but each session stands alone.  For more information and to register, send an email to greencong1@gmail.com or call Alice Miley, 317-842-7901.

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August 23, 2017

As Way Opens

Thank you to Dan Lee, who wrote this week’s ‘As Way Opens.’

Major Taylor – A Champion for the Ages

Our nation’s recent expressions of racial hate got me thinking about a personal hero of mine, Marshall “Major” Taylor, an African American cycling champion of more than a century ago. Born in 1878 in Indianapolis, Taylor picked up the nickname “Major” performing cycling stunts outside a Pennsylvania Street bike shop. When he was 16, Taylor won a 75-mile race against older white riders. By 1898, he held seven world records. In 1899, he became a world champion.

Taylor did all this facing overt and unrelenting racism. On numerous occasions he was excluded or, when racing, was choked, blocked, or knocked off his bike. He responded with a non-violent determination inspired by his Christian faith. “Life is too short for a man to hold bitterness in his heart,” Taylor said.

News reports of the day tell of Taylor reading his Bible between races. He was a faithful member of John Street Baptist Church in his adopted hometown of Worcester, Mass. Taylor was generous to other African-American riders, paying for one to attend the 1908 London Olympics. Taylor also helped white riders, encouraging Hoosier Frank Kramer to turn pro. Yet racism wore him down, mentally and physically. He became estranged from his wife and his health deteriorated in middle age. He wrote an autobiography, expressing empathy for young African-Americans: “I can hardly express in words my deep feeling and sympathy for them, knowing as I do, the many serious handicaps and obstacles that will confront them in almost every walk of life.”

Yet he always encouraged a higher response to hatred. In the final words of his autobiography, Taylor lists “a Dozen Don’ts” that read like a Ten Commandments for young athletes:

Don't try to "gyp."

Don't be a pie biter*

Don't keep late hours.

Don't use intoxicants.

Don't be a big bluffer.

Don't eat cheap candies.

Don't get a swelled head.

Don't use tobacco in any form.

Don't fail to live a clean life.

Don't forget to play the game fair.

Don't take an unfair advantage of an opponent.

Don't forget the practice of good sportsmanship.

(* riders who collude to box in a stronger rider in exchange for a share of the winner’s purse)

 

In 1932, Taylor died in the charity ward of a Chicago hospital and was buried in an unmarked grave. In 1948, ex-racers had his body moved to a more prominent spot with a marker reading, “World champion bicycle racer who came up the hard way without hatred in his heart.”

Today MajorTaylorAssociation.org is dedicated to recognizing sportsmanship, promoting nonviolence and caring for those less fortunate.

Dan Lee


Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Follow us on Instagram! First Friends is now on Instagram! Follow indyfirstfriends to keep up to date with all the exciting things happening at First Friends. View our posts for updates, inspiration, and more!

 

Spiritual Growth Small Groups ~ We are excited to offer spiritual growth small groups this fall starting Oct 2nd and continuing for a 6 week period.  We will be studying the book by Joyce Rupp called The Cup of Our Life that examines the rich symbol of a cup in all its many forms to our everyday life. The groups will meet on either Sunday after Meeting for Worship, Monday evening, Tuesday evening, Wednesday afternoon and Friday evening and will last 90 minutes each time.  Please start thinking about your participation in this deepening spiritual time together and watch for sign up soon.  Childcare will be provided for the gathering on Sunday.


The Thornburgs in Belize ~ The Thornburgs are nearing their goal for their Belize fundraiser! We at First Friends are honored to have the Thornburgs (Aaron, Michelle, Kwali, and Meshach), feeling led by God to go to Belize and help with the facility renovation and provide other assistance to the Friends school. The Thornburgs will need your financial assistance in order to make their Belize leading a reality. If you can, please donate to this cause and help the Thornburgs reach their goal!

 

Casseroles for the Henry family ~ During this time of great transition for the Henry family, it would be most appreciated if anyone could donate a casserole to the family. We need a few casseroles delivered each week, for the next few weeks, until the Henrys have moved into their new house. We ask that the casseroles be delivered in disposable containers, so that the Henrys do not have to return dishes. Also, please avoid pineapple, as Bob is allergic. If you can bring a dish, please let the office know. We are still in need of dishes!! Thank you!

 

Sunday School Kick-Off! Our Sunday School kick off will be on September 10th.  We will start the morning with breakfast for everyone in fellowship hall at 8:30. We encourage everyone to come in their pajama's! Our classes will begin at 9:00 a.m. as follows:

PreK - 2nd grade in our large children’s room

3rd - 5th grade in the far northeast room

6th - 12th grade in the basement

We will use a curriculum from Church of the Brethen Press called SHINE that will focus this fall On Being God’s People

The following adult/multigenerational classes will be offered:

Christ and Quakers - Held in the parlor and led by Dan L. This class will explore various viewpoints on Christ from George Fox, John Woolman, Lucretia Mott, Rufus Jones, Elton Trueblood and others.

Seeking Friends - Bob Henry will lead the group through the Brian McLaren book, We Make the Road by Walking. This study will give us an overview of the Bible and guide the group through rich study, interactive learning, and personal growth. Each week will include reading scripture together, study time, and queries to ponder throughout the week.

Wired Word (in Coffee Circle classroom) - will be led by Harold M. to talk about current events from a spiritual perspective.

Choir - will be meeting in the old children’s library.  Anyone that has a heart for singing is welcome to join.

Nursery care will be available during Sunday School. Please mark your calendars!

 

Indians Ball Game with Friends! Join First Friends on Sunday, August 27th at 1:30 PM to see the Indianapolis Indians! This is a time of fun for anyone to join in from First Friends and ticket costs will be free! Friends are encouraged to carpool with each other to save on parking, and we will all meet at the ballpark. It’s also the last home game of the season and kids 14 and under eat free! We have 4 tickets left! Contact the office if you're interested. Please RSVP as soon as possible—first come, first served!

 

Valley Mills Friends invites you to a Quaker Concert with Annie and Peter Blood Patterson TOMORROW, Thursday, August 24 at 7pm. If you know the songbook "Rise Up Singing" that has been used at many fun Quaker sing-alongs, you might know of Annie Patterson and Peter Blood-Patterson who compiled it. They are released Friends who travel in Quaker circles bringing their ministry of community-building through singing together. Committed to fostering Hope, they are coming to Indiana in August. This is a fundraiser for Valley Mills Friends and the Blood-Pattersons' with a suggested donation at the door and opportunity to buy songbooks and CD's. The concert & singalong will take place in the meeting room of Valley Mills Friends, 6739 W Thompson Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46241.  Refreshment to follow. For more information, see the flyer here: https://goo.gl/f814qw, or visit www.riseupandsing.org/events.

 

Oak Leaf: Meeting for Reading:  The Husband's Secret by Liane Moriarty book discussion will be held Tuesday, August 29th at 7 pm in the Parlor. All are welcome! Ruth K will be leading the group.  If you're interested in reading ahead for next month, the September 26th title will be: My Beloved World by Sonia Sotomayor.

 

Beneath it all some children go bare.
Those kids need some underwear!
So go and shop because Quakers care.
Briefs and bras, undershirts and camisoles,
socks for the feet, new things without holes.

Underneath It All – First Friends ninth annual underwear drive has begun and goes on until August 31st! We are asking for donations of new underwear, as well as socks, t-shirts, bras, etc, from toddler to adult sizes! We are collecting for the John H. Boner Center on east 10th Street. Cash or checks are also accepted and may be made out to First Friends and placed in offertory plates if labeled as donations to the Underwear Drive. Contact Linda Lee if you have questions.

 

Labor of Love ~ In response to the atrocities currently taking place in our country, we invite everyone to a peaceful gathering of neighbors and Friends on Sunday, September 3rd in our Meditational Woods. We will gather in solidarity with our community and nation to express our desire for peace, equality, unity and love. The event will include responses and opportunities for awareness through story, song, and art, as well as, a message from guest speaker, Malkah Bird, from American Friends Service Committee of Indianapolis and music by Eric Baker. Also, a special time of waiting worship in the manner of Friends will be offered allowing participants to speak out their responses to these difficult times. To conclude we are planning a special sending and call to action to take place around our peace pole.

 

New Library Books Ready for Checkout! Here are brief descriptions of three more new additions to our library.  To borrow a book, please sign it out on the clipboard in the library. The library is particularly helpful to newer attenders seeking to learn more about the Quaker faith, values, and history.

A Family of Friends: Friends Church Membership Course by Jack Willcuts
Written in 1977, updated in 1995, this is a ten-week course in Quakerism of the programmed variety. Topics include plain speech, history, the sacraments, worship, ministry, war and peace, stewardship, basic Christian beliefs, and church membership.

Levi Coffin, Quaker: Breaking the Bonds of Slavery in Ohio and Indiana, by Mary Ann Yannessa
An excellent book to read before visiting the Levi Coffin home where more than 1,000 escaped slaves were safely sheltered while traveling on the underground railroad by Levi and his wife Catherine. The author raises questions for today. And if you have already visited the home in Fountain City, Indiana, it is still worth reading of the desperate and heroic struggles of those times.

The Rich Heritage of Quakerism by Walter R. Williams an edited reprint with epilogue by Paul Anderson
From George Fox and the widespread growth of Quakerism, through quietism and divisions among Quakers, to the many sub-organizations such as American Friends Service Committee and Friends World Committee on Consultation this is a comprehensive account of Quakerism in its many aspects.

 

 

SERVING THE LORD WITH GLADNESS - USFW Women’s Fall Retreat ~ All women are invited to participate in the 46th Annual Fall Retreat of the Wester Yearly Meeting USFW and Indiana USFW, September 11-12th at Quaker Haven Camp (111 EMS D16C Lane, Syracuse, IN 46567). The theme this year is ‘Serving the Lord with Gladness.’ Ruthie Tippin will be the Keynote Speaker! Deadline for reservations is August 29th. Please contact Liz Nielander to make your reservations and requests: call 765-513-7439, e-mail Lnielander@aol.com or write to 1503 S. Union, Kokomo, IN 46902. The cost is $70 and your check should be made out to WYM-USFW. This includes a night's lodging and 3 meals (please bring your own bedding and towels.) We hope to see you there!

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August 16, 2017

As Way Opens

I am very excited that we will be offering a small group program this fall to engage us in our spiritual reflection and development.  We will be studying the book The Cup of Our Life and I have been reading the book this past week in preparation for this (you all will hear a lot more about this in the next few weeks).  I was drawn to the chapter that speaks about our readiness to receive in our cup of life.  Lao-Tsu says “Clay is molded into vessels, and because of the space where there is nothing, you can carry water.  Space is carved out from a wall, and because of the place where there is nothing, you can receive light.  Be empty, and you will remain full.”  I have been reflecting on the need to empty my life of the busyness and shuffling that has taken control.  I need to empty my cup so I can become full of God’s spirit.  These thoughts have been whispering in my head and heart and then I heard Bob’s message this past Sunday and it knocked me to my knees.  I need to empty my cup and get out of my boat of fear and step into the water and trust Jesus. 

During our Western Yearly Meeting annual session we had a workshop on Alternatives to Violence.  I partnered with another friend and we had to share with each other what our impression was of our fears.  He shared with me that he had a sense that I was raised in financial security and that I was afraid of risk because I wanted to be secure.  Wow - I have been processing this impression for the last few weeks.  Have I been afraid of really following God’s call because I seek security?  Have I avoided the risk of a radical faith because I want financial security?  Have I played everything safe for me because I am not willing to risk and trust Jesus to get out of the boat and really follow him?

And then I started thinking about my beloved Jerry and how brave he was during our 27 years of marriage.  He stepped into God’s call when it was difficult.  He was fearless in standing against the war on Iraq after 9-11 even when he faced opposition in his own faith community.  He always supported equality, peace, community, integrity and stood with those in the margins of our society.  He gave his money, time, energy, and effort in supporting these causes throughout our life together. 

At times, I have been afraid to stand in God’s truth when it has been difficult.  I have taken a stance of silence in times where I probably should have been vocal.  I have not shared my voice enough in proclaiming our Quaker testimonies.   I have been rattled this week as I reflect on my fears.

Dear friends - I am praying for courage to stand in the message of Jesus.  I am praying that we can make a difference in our communities.  I am praying that our fear of our future will not paralyze us.  We need Quakers to stand up for peace and justice.  Will you step into the water today?

Beth


Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Seasoned Friends ~ Join us for the Seasoned Friends luncheon and fellowship for all who are retired or of retirement age on Wednesday, August 23, at 11:30am. Lunch will consist of picnic food. Hamburgers and veggie burgers on the grill, potato salad, and more will be provided. Additional salads and desserts are welcome but not required. Afterward we will hear a presentation from David Frederick of First Friends and the Indiana Historic Landmarks Association on historic churches in Indiana. Please contact the office if you’ll be able to join us. Hope to see you there!

Casseroles for the Henry family ~ During this time of great transition for the Henry family, it would be most appreciated if anyone could donate a casserole to the family. The desire would be for 1-2 casseroles to be delivered each week, for the next few weeks, until the Henrys have moved into their new house. Overflow can always be stowed in the freezer at the Meetinghouse, so exact dates don’t need to be coordinated. We ask that the casseroles be delivered in disposable containers, so that the Henrys do not have to return dishes. Also, please avoid pineapple, as Bob is allergic. If you can bring a dish, please let the office know. Thank you!

The Thornburgs in Belize ~ The Thornburgs are nearing their goal for their Belize fundraiser! We at First Friends are honored to have the Thornburgs (Aaron, Michelle, Kwali, and Meshach), feeling led by God to go to Belize and help with the facility renovation and provide other assistance to the Friends school. The Thornburgs will need your financial assistance in order to make their Belize leading a reality. If you can, please donate to this cause and help the Thornburgs reach their goal!

Sunday School Kick-Off! Our Sunday School kick off will be on September 10th.  We will start the morning with breakfast for everyone in fellowship hall at 8:30. We encourage everyone to come in their pajama's! Our classes will begin at 9:00 a.m. as follows:

PreK - 2nd grade in our large children’s room

3rd - 5th grade in the far northeast room

6th - 12th grade in the basement

We will use a curriculum from Church of the Brethen Press called SHINE that will focus this fall On Being God’s People

The following adult/multigenerational classes will be offered:

Christ and Quakers - Held in the parlor and led by Dan L. This class will explore various viewpoints on Christ from George Fox, John Woolman, Lucretia Mott, Rufus Jones, Elton Trueblood and others.

Seeking Friends - Bob Henry will lead the group through the Brian McLaren book, We Make the Road by Walking. This study will give us an overview of the Bible and guide the group through rich study, interactive learning, and personal growth. Each week will include reading scripture together, study time, and queries to ponder throughout the week.

Wired Word (in Coffee Circle classroom) - will be led by Harold M. to talk about current events from a spiritual perspective.

Choir - will be meeting in the old children’s library.  Anyone that has a heart for singing is welcome to join.

Nursery care will be available during Sunday School. Please mark your calendars!

 

Valley Mills Friends invites you to a Quaker Concert with Annie and Peter Blood Patterson Thursday, August 24 at 7pm. If you know the songbook "Rise Up Singing" that has been used at many fun Quaker sing-alongs, you might know of Annie Patterson and Peter Blood-Patterson who compiled it. They are released Friends who travel in Quaker circles bringing their ministry of community-building through singing together. Committed to fostering Hope, they are coming to Indiana in August. This is a fundraiser for Valley Mills Friends and the Blood-Pattersons' with a suggested donation at the door and opportunity to buy songbooks and CD's. The concert & singalong will take place in the meeting room of Valley Mills Friends, 6739 W Thompson Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46241.  Refreshment to follow. For more information, see the flyer here: https://goo.gl/f814qw, or visit www.riseupandsing.org/events.

Oak Leaf: Meeting for Reading:  The Husband's Secret by Liane Moriarty book discussion will be held Tuesday, August 29th at 7 pm in the Parlor. All are welcome! Ruth K. will be leading the group.  If you're interested in reading ahead for next month, the September 26th title will be: My Beloved World by Sonia Sotomayor.

Indians Ball Game with Friends! Join First Friends on Sunday, August 27th at 1:30 PM to see the Indianapolis Indians! This is a time of fun for anyone to join in from First Friends and ticket costs will be free! Friends are encouraged to carpool with each other to save on parking, and we will all meet at the ballpark. It’s also the last home game of the season and kids 14 and under eat free! We have 3 tickets left! Contact Beth Henricks if you’re interested (beth.henricks@indyfriends.org). Please RSVP as soon as possible—first come, first served!

IFCL New Brochure – Please take a look at IFCL’s brochure here: https://goo.gl/ZTVZH4. This new brochure cites recent IFCL statistics and unsolicited quotations from legislators which encapsulate IFCL's vigorous, effective, and bipartisan influence in being a positive voice for our Friends' community at the Indiana Statehouse. All interested are always encouraged to follow IFCL's Twitter feed at @INQuakerPolicy.  This is the portal through which an exponentially growing number of followers seek to learn of IFCL news, outlooks, and priorities.  Starting with only 40 followers about a year ago, we now have over 2300 engaged citizens who find this type of social media to be a worthwhile part of their day.  See how IFCL's faith-based, bipartisan advocacy elevates public discourse, and seeks to improve the lives of all Hoosiers. Please join with us to be informed and inspired by IFCL's Quakerly dynamism - and thank you for your ongoing support!

Beneath it all some children go bare.
Those kids need some underwear!
So go and shop because Quakers care.
Briefs and bras, undershirts and camisoles,
socks for the feet, new things without holes.

Underneath It All – First Friends ninth annual underwear drive has begun and goes on until August 31st! We are asking for donations of new underwear, as well as socks, t-shirts, bras, etc, from toddler to adult sizes! Cash or checks are also accepted and may be made out to First Friends and placed in offertory plates if labeled as donations to the Underwear Drive. Contact Linda L if you have questions.

SERVING THE LORD WITH GLADNESS - USFW Women’s Fall Retreat ~ All women are invited to participate in the 46th Annual Fall Retreat of the Wester Yearly Meeting USFW and Indiana USFW, September 11-12th at Quaker Haven Camp (111 EMS D16C Lane, Syracuse, IN 46567). The theme this year is ‘Serving the Lord with Gladness.’ Ruthie Tippin will be the Keynote Speaker! Deadline for reservations is August 29th. Please contact Liz Nielander to make your reservations and requests: call 765-513-7439, e-mail Lnielander@aol.com or write to 1503 S. Union, Kokomo, IN 46902. The cost is $70 and your check should be made out to WYM-USFW. This includes a night's lodging and 3 meals (please bring your own bedding and towels.) We hope to see you there!

Earth Care 101: Faith in Action ~ Every faith tradition recognizes the importance of caring for God’s creation.  If you would like to learn more about environmental action from a faith perspective, you may consider attending a 4-session workshop hosted by Indianapolis Green Congregations entitled “Earth Care 101: Faith in Action”.  This free workshop will be given on 4 consecutive Saturday mornings (September 16, 23, 30, and October 7) from 8:30 to 10:30 at St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic Church, 4600 N. Illinois Street, 46208.  Attendance at all four sessions is encouraged, but each session stands alone.  For more information and to register, send an email to greencong1@gmail.com or call Alice Miley, 317-842-7901.

Did you know the Quakers helped the Japanese after WWII? All are invited to visit a small exhibit at the Bona Thompson Memorial Center in Indianapolis to commemorate the 75th anniversary of the signing of executive order 9066, which sent Japanese Americans into the internment camps. Around the country, and here in Indianapolis as well, Japanese families had to start their lives over. As it turns out, Quakers, who could see the injustice of this incarceration of innocent people, stepped in and helped many Japanese families restart their lives during this time. The exhibitor herself, Anne Moore, was part of a family that was helped by the Quakers. Come see her exhibit--running through October 1, 2017. More details can be found at http://www.discoverirvington.com/venue/bona-thompson-memorial-center/

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August 9, 2016

As Way Opens

I read the following quote in a book I picked up this week by the grandson of Mahatma Gandhi.

“Sometimes we think we want to resolve conflicts, but our methods just make things worse. We turn angry and intimidating, thinking we will make people do what we want. But attacks and criticism and threats of punishment backfire with both children and adults. Our angry responses cause the battles to escalate. We become bullies, not realizing the bullies ultimately aren’t powerful at all. Those who display meanness and a berating style on the playground, in business, or in political campaigns are usually the weakest and most insecure. Bapuji [name of endearment given to Mahatma Gandhi] taught me that being able to understand another’s viewpoint and forgive is the sign of real strength.”  - Arun Gandhi (The Gift of Anger)

Many of us are concerned with all that is going on in our world right now. Just turn on any media source and you quickly become overwhelmed with intimidating, criticism, anger, bullying, and a great deal of insecurity. It seems too many of us have reverted to living our lives in fear or at the least by fear. A problem I am noticing is that these disturbing behaviors we are presented with are popping up more regularly in our day-to-day lives, not just on TV or in politics, but in meetings, churches, classrooms, even at the local baseball diamond. Its as if there has been a license given to be angry, a bully, and insecure in America (sadly, something other countries have been saying about us for quite some time).  

Much like what Gandhi taught, Quakers believe more can be accomplished by appealing to our capacity for love, goodness, and understanding other’s and our own viewpoints, than can be hoped for by threatening punishment or retaliation if people act badly. The early Quakers would have said we needed in these times to turn to the “weapons of the spirit” (i.e. love, speaking truth, non-violence, imagination, laughter, forgiveness) allowing God to reach out through us to that of God in those with whom we are in conflict. I am afraid that many Friends, instead of embracing the Quaker distinctives, have simply given up or given into the behaviors they see in the media.

Arun Gandhi’s words must ring true in our lives, “You may think that making a small change in your life doesn’t solve anything, but all those little actions add up.” Friends, we may not be able to directly change what is happening in the news, but every time we choose to love, speak truth, choose a non-violent solution, use our imagination, laugh, forgive someone, we will make a difference in the lives around us. Our children, friends, neighbors, and enemies will see an alternate example of “real strength” and hopefully it will begin to rub off.  

This week, join me in picking up a “spiritual weapon” and be the change you want to see in the world.

Grace and peace,
Bob


Joys & Concerns

Many thanks to our Food Pantry volunteers last week: Kathy and Bill F; Dan R; Phil K; Linda and Rik L; Christie M; Carol and Jim D. We were very busy...105 families served. Thank you, all!

Kendal and Chelsea T. entered the National History Day competition with an exhibit about Quakers and advanced to the state level. This display is very creative and informative and it was available for everyone to see at Western Yearly Meeting annual session. Well done Kendal and Chelsea!

This past Sunday we honored our Friends Educational Fund (FEF) Scholarship recipients with a special reception hosted by the FEF Committee. What a joy to share the story of John Williams and Quakers in the Indianapolis area still helping African American children today.


Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Free ink – Thanks to Laura G, we have two ink HP 564XL ink cartridges up for grabs. They are free to anyone who needs them. Please contact the office if you’re interested.

 

Casseroles for the Henry family ~ During this time of great transition for the Henry family, it would be most appreciated if anyone could donate a casserole to the family. The desire would be for 1-2 casseroles to be delivered each week, for the next few weeks, until the Henrys have moved into their new house. Overflow can always be stowed in the freezer at the Meetinghouse, so exact dates don’t need to be coordinated. We ask that the casseroles be delivered in disposable containers, so that the Henrys do not have to return dishes. Also, please avoid pineapple, as Bob is allergic. If you can bring a dish, please contact the office at office@indyfriends.org or phone.
 

Beneath it all some children go bare.
Those kids need some underwear!
So go and shop because Quakers care.
Briefs and bras, undershirts and camisoles,
socks for the feet, new things without holes.
Underneath It All – First Friends ninth annual underwear drive ends August 31st! We are asking for donations of new underwear, as well as socks, t-shirts, bras, etc, from toddler to adult sizes! Cash or checks are also accepted and may be made out to First Friends and placed in offertory plates if labeled as donations to the Underwear Drive. Contact Linda Lee if you have questions.

 

Indians Ball Game with Friends! Join First Friends on Sunday, August 27th at 1:30 PM to see the Indianapolis Indians! This is a time of fun for anyone to join in from First Friends and ticket costs will be free! Friends are encouraged to carpool with each other to save on parking, and we will all meet at the ballpark. It’s also the last home game of the season and kids 14 and under eat free! Contact the office if you're interested. Please RSVP as soon as possible—first come, first served!

 

Did you know the Quakers helped the Japanese after WWII? All are invited to visit a small exhibit at the Bona Thompson Memorial Center in Indianapolis to commemorate the 75th anniversary of the signing of executive order 9066, which sent Japanese Americans into the internment camps. Around the country, and here in Indianapolis as well, Japanese families had to start their lives over. As it turns out, Quakers, who could see the injustice of this incarceration of innocent people, stepped in and helped many Japanese families restart their lives during this time. The exhibitor herself, Anne Moore, was part of a family that was helped by the Quakers. Come see her exhibit--running through October 1, 2017. More details can be found at http://www.discoverirvington.com/venue/bona-thompson-memorial-center/

 

New Library Books Ready for Checkout! Now that the library committee under John M's direction has purchased 30 new books, brief descriptions of them will slowly appear in Friend to Friend. In the library, you will find a clipboard with a sign out sheet. Please remember to let us know when you return the book, as well as when you check it out. Here are some more of the new Library Books Ready for Checkout:
 

Living the Quaker Way: Discover the Hidden Happiness in the Simple Life
By Philip Gulley
In his usual lively style, Phil Gulley, perhaps the most famous contemporary Quaker, conveys the elements of what makes this faith so attractive. Simplicity, Peace, Integrity, Community, Equality—each of our testimonies is given a chapter and then a 30 day guide to spiritual reflection is included. This book was a Publishers Weekly "Top 10 in Religion" selection.
 

Holy Silence: The Gift of Quaker Spirituality
J. Brent Bill
This is a revised and expanded edition, 2016, of the 2006 book about the uses and practices of silence. Brent Bill shares personal experiences along with poems, quotes, and lyrics from other writers. Added to the new edition is a section of 12 practical steps to experience silence. The queries in each chapter remain. As Parker Palmer wrote it is "A beautiful introduction to the depths and riches of silence." I am reminded of the joke, "I'm a Quaker. In case of emergency please be quiet."
 

Decision Making and Spiritual Discernment: The Sacred Art of Finding Your Way
By Nancy L. Bieber
The author is a Quaker, clinical psychologist, workshop leader, spiritual director, and author. In this book she examines Willingness—to be open, to face fears. Attentiveness—listening to the inner self, noticing, making a habit. And Responsiveness—step by step testing our decisions. ""With the Spirit illuminating the complexities of our decisions, we can see and understand more about ourselves and our choices." "Staying spiritually grounded and open to divine wisdom as you shape your life."  She has included practices with each chapter and at the end a guide for six group sessions that could be used by one of our Sunday school classes.

 

Valley Mills Friends invites you to a Quaker Concert with Annie and Peter Blood Patterson Thursday, August 24 at 7pm. If you know the songbook "Rise Up Singing" that has been used at many fun Quaker sing-alongs, you might know of Annie Patterson and Peter Blood-Patterson who compiled it. They are released Friends who travel in Quaker circles bringing their ministry of community-building through singing together. Committed to fostering Hope, they are coming to Indiana in August. This is a fundraiser for Valley Mills Friends and the Blood-Pattersons' with a suggested donation at the door and opportunity to buy songbooks and CD's. The concert & singalong will take place in the meeting room of Valley Mills Friends, 6739 W Thompson Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46241.  Refreshment to follow. For more information, see the flyer here: https://goo.gl/f814qw.
 

Earth Care 101: Faith in Action ~ Every faith tradition recognizes the importance of caring for God’s creation.  If you would like to learn more about environmental action from a faith perspective, you may consider attending a 4-session workshop hosted by Indianapolis Green Congregations entitled “Earth Care 101: Faith in Action”.  This free workshop will be given on 4 consecutive Saturday mornings (September 16, 23, 30, and October 7) from 8:30 to 10:30 at St. Thomas Aquinas Catholic Church, 4600 N. Illinois Street, 46208.  Attendance at all four sessions is encouraged, but each session stands alone.  For more information and to register, send an email to greencong1@gmail.com or call Alice Miley, 317-842-7901.

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August 2, 2017

As Way Opens

Ground of Being - Paul Tillich
 

"There is no tyranny in your Divine essence.  Rather, you are part of the cause and effect of this intrinsic world and of our very self.  You, the solid base upon which all exists, remain beyond our greatest comprehension.  We can only speak about and proclaim you through the guiding help of symbol and story.  Still, we dare to approach and believe in you, because somewhere deep within our soul, we know you are who you are."

 

Our comprehension of the mystery of God is limited, small and always lacking because God’s essence and love is far beyond our understanding.  We catch a glimpse of God through symbol and story but it is only a glimpse and offers a small window into the nature of God.  And yet that glimpse of seeing and knowing comes from God within me.  I was raised in a faith tradition that taught about the depravity of man and that we must be saved from our sinful, fallen nature.  I never understood this when I consider that we are all made in God’s image.  I like what Richard Rohr says about understanding God.  "Remember, it’s God in you that loves God. You, on your own, don’t really know how to love God. It’s Christ in you that recognizes Christ. It’s the Holy Spirit, whose temple you are (see 1 Corinthians 3:16), that responds to the Holy Spirit. Like recognizes like. That’s why all true cognition is really recognition (“re-cognition” or knowing something again). Only so far as you have surrendered to Christ and allowed the Christ in you to come to fullness can you love Christ. It’s Christ in you that recognizes and loves Christ."

Beth


Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

 

Free ink – Thanks to Laura Cruise-Gibson, we have two ink HP 564XL ink cartridges up for grabs. They are free to anyone who needs them. Please contact the office if you’re interested.

 

Please join us for Community Soup this Thursday, August 3, sponsored by Witness & Service. Come by anytime between 5:30 – 7:00 p.m.  Since it is summertime, we plan to serve salads, bread and desserts. No cooking, no dishwashing, and no charge.  If you are able, please plan to attend and bring a salad and/or dessert to share.  Hope you can make it.

 

Friends Education Fund Scholars will be honored this Sunday, August 6:  A Quaker college scholarship program for African American students was created in the mid-1940’s by several members of Indianapolis First Friends Meeting who were the surviving governing board of the only orphanage for African American children in the state of Indiana.  Since that time, a great number of scholarships have been awarded, and many students have gone on to academic life.  Come and hear the story of how it all began, and celebrate with these fine young people – both in worship and Fellowship Hour.

 

Beneath it all some children go bare.
Those kids need some underwear!
So go and shop because Quakers care.
Briefs and bras, undershirts and camisoles,
socks for the feet, new things without holes.

Underneath It All – First Friends ninth annual underwear drive ends August 31st! We are asking for donations of new underwear, as well as socks, t-shirts, bras, etc, from toddler to adult sizes! Cash or checks are also accepted and may be made out to First Friends and placed in offertory plates if labeled as donations to the Underwear Drive. Contact the office if you have questions.

 

Calling all ice cream lovers! First Friends will be working at the Dairy Bar at the Indiana State Fair on Saturday, August 12th all day. We have one more spot we need to fill, from 3:30-9:30pm. It is fast paced but lots of fun! Volunteers will receive a free ticket to the State Fair for that day, as well as unlimited ice cream, shakes and cheese sandwiches. Please let the office know if you’re interested in volunteering, or use the signup sheet in the hallway!

 

Feminist & Theologian Grace Ji-Sun Kim ~ Join us to meet and hear Grace discuss her work for her forthcoming book, Planetary Solidarity, Global Women’s Voices on Christian Doctrine and Climate Justice, hosted by Fairfield Friends Meeting, Saturday, August 5, 9am-noon. Grace Ji-Sun Kim is an Associate Professor of Theology at Earlham School of Religion and an ordained minister of Word and Sacrament within the PC (USA) denomination. She is the author or editor of 11 books and is co chair of a steering committee, “Women of Color Scholarship, Teaching and Activism.” She sits on the editorial board for the Journal for Religion and Popular Culture, is a referee for 3 journals, and has written for Huffington Post, Sojourners, EthicsDaily.com, and more. This lecture is free and open to the public. A light lunch will follow the presentation. Held at Fairfield Friends Meeting, 10441 E. CO. RD. 700 S, Camby, IN. Please RSVP by emailing Fairfield Friends.

 

Indians Ball Game with Friends! Join First Friends on Sunday, August 27th at 1:30 PM to see the Indianapolis Indians! This is a time of fun for anyone to join in from First Friends and ticket costs will be free! Friends are encouraged to carpool with each other to save on parking, and we will all meet at the ballpark. It’s also the last home game of the season and kids 14 and under eat free! Contact the office if you’re interested. Please RSVP as soon as possible—first come, first served!

 

New Library Books Ready for Checkout! Now that the library committee under John M's direction has purchased 30 new books, brief descriptions of them will slowly appear in Friend to Friend. In the library, you will find a clipboard with a sign out sheet. Please remember to let us know when you return the book, as well as when you check it out. Here are a few of the new Library Books Ready for Checkout:

Simply Quakers: Who are the Quakers and what do they do?
A comic book for beginners

This thin, colorful book condenses history (including biographies), beliefs, worship and processes of Quakers in clever cartoons. There are several pages of advices and queries. And a brief, interesting section comparing Quakerism to other religions. Erick Dries is Dutch. The book's publisher is FGC Quaker Press.

Gathered: Contemporary Quaker Poets
Edited by Nick Mcrae

Here are deep and powerful poems from Quakers across the religious and cultural spectrum. Many of the poets have won awards and been published in prestigious journals, several have been editors of prominent literary magazines. A valuable collection!

A Living Faith: An Historical and Comparative Study of Quaker Beliefs
Wilmer A. Cooper

After ten years here is a new edition of a favorite book popular among Quakers for discussion groups, Sunday School classes, and as an introduction for newer attendees and members.

 

Did you know the Quakers helped the Japanese after WWII? All are invited to visit a small exhibit at the Bona Thompson Memorial Center in Indianapolis to commemorate the 75th anniversary of the signing of executive order 9066, which sent Japanese Americans into the internment camps. Around the country, and here in Indianapolis as well, Japanese families had to start their lives over. As it turns out, Quakers, who could see the injustice of this incarceration of innocent people, stepped in and helped many Japanese families restart their lives during this time. The exhibitor herself, Anne, was part of a family that was helped by the Quakers. Come see her exhibit--opening August 5 and running through October 1, 2017. More details can be found at http://www.discoverirvington.com/venue/bona-thompson-memorial-center/

 

Valley Mills Friends invites you to a Quaker Jamboree with Annie and Peter Blood Patterson Thursday, August 24 at 7pm. If you know the songbook "Rise Up Singing" that has been used at many fun Quaker sing-alongs, you might know of Annie Patterson and Peter Blood-Patterson who compiled it. They are released Friends who travel in Quaker circles bringing their ministry of community-building through singing together. Committed to fostering Hope, they are coming to Indiana in August. This is a fundraiser for Valley Mills Friends and the Blood-Pattersons' with a suggested donation at the door and opportunity to buy songbooks and CD's. The concert & singalong will take place in the meeting room of Valley Mills Friends, 6739 W Thompson Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46241.  Refreshment to follow.

 

Shalom Zone Electronics Recycling Event ~ If an item runs (or used to run) with a plug or a battery, you can recycle it! This includes (but is not limited to) appliances, TVs, DVD/VCRs, gaming consoles, fax machines, Christmas tree lights, calculators, toner cartridges, hair dryers, and more! The Shalom Zone is holding their annual Recycle Force event at Epworth United Methodist Church, 6450 Allisonville Road, on Saturday, October 7, 10am-2pm. Please bring any items you wish to recycle to Epworth on the day of the event. A $10 donation is requested for CRT type monitors/TVs smaller than 27”; a $20 donation is requested for appliances containing Freon (fridges, freezers, A/C units, etc) and TVs larger than 27”; any other monetary contributions are also greatly appreciated.

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July 26, 2017

As Way Opens

On Sunday we celebrated the conclusion of our wonderful week-long Vacation Bible School with a special VBS Meeting for Worship. Our traditionally unadorned meetinghouse was filled with brightly colored gears, robots, paint buckets, singing children, and yes, even a rocket! If you weren’t there, it was a sight to see!

As part of our worship we sang a long-time VBS favorite, which most Friends know, “Joy in my Heart.” Not only does it have a familiar tune, I find it’s simple lyrics unforgettable.

I’ve got the joy, joy, joy, joy…

I’ve got the peace that passeth understanding…

I’ve got the wonderful love of my blessed redeemer…

[Where?]...down in my heart.

Much like watching our children singing and doing the actions to this song, true joy, peace, and love should be contagious and extremely hard to contain. Yet just saying we have love, joy, and peace “down in our hearts” is just the first step. Once we recognize it inside ourselves, we must proceed to see it activated and filtered out into our relationships, communities, and workplaces.

If there is one thing children are able to do it is activate joy, peace, and love without much resistance. This was evident all week at VBS. What a child’s heart feels and experiences is often immediately manifest in their actions and words - a response to what they know inside. At VBS we witnessed children of all ages engaging what was “down in their hearts.”  Children befriended guests and included everyone. They shared uplifting qualities, encouraged, and cheered each other on. As they worked together on lessons and games you could see that they had embraced the theme of the week that they were created by God and built for a purpose.

Watching our children interact was a great reminder to me of the importance of knowing what’s down in our hearts and allowing it to become observable in our outward lives.  

It seems as we grow older too many things get in the way and block what is at the depth of our being. So much so, that we create resistance and no longer respond from that place. For some of us, what is “down in our hearts” may have slipped too far away to tap. That timeless VBS song should be a reminder for us to re-engage, to seek again our inner light and teacher and respond to our world out of a deep sense of joy, peace and love.

If you need another reminder this week, take some time to watch a child and see their activated joy, peace and love emerging from their depths.  

 

Grace and peace,    

Bob


Joys & Concerns

 VBS – A Success! We had a great time during Maker Fun Factory, this year’s Vacation Bible School. We had 32 kids in attendance. We had so much fun learning about how we were built by God, and made for a purpose. Also thank you to our many volunteers who helped make VBS possible this year: Bob H, Jim K, Chelsea T, Kendal T, Meshach T, Lucy K, Rik and Linda L, Carolyn T, Katie H, Jane W, Beth F & Jeff S, Amanda C, Erin T, Michelle T, Aaron T, Beth K, Logan K, Trent S, Chrissy S, Megan W, Tim W, Cindy K, Ruth K, Kim H, Nancy S, Dan M, and Rebecca L.

Many thanks to our volunteers who helped at Mid-North Food Pantry last week: Bill and Kathy F; Ray G; Phil K; Beth, Sylvie and Emerson S; Jim K; Carol and Jim D. We are grateful for your service!


Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

 

This weekend all are encouraged to attend Western Yearly Meeting’s Annual Sessions. As such, this Sunday, July 30, we will hold unprogrammed worship in the Parlor at the usual time of 10:15. Thank you to Mary Blackburn for leading this time of worship.

 

Free to a good home! The meeting has a few young Phalaenopsis Orchids which are looking for a home! Please let the office know if you are interested.

 

 

Western Yearly Meeting Annual Sessions are this weekend, July 27-30. The theme of this year's session is, "Joined by every supporting ligament." Our own Beth H is among the speakers!  Other speakers are: Max Carter, Oscar Mmbali (the new minister for Belize), Kathy Luethje, Ann Carter, Keith Glasgow, Jeff Wells and Andrew Heald. A concert by Tim Grimm will be Saturday evening.

 

Free Tim Grimm Concert! The Indiana Friends Committee on Legislation (IFCL) will be sponsoring a concert with folksinger and Earlham alum Tim Grimm on the Saturday evening of Western YM's annual sessions - Saturday July 29 at 7:30 pm. The program is open to the public.  Please save this date on your calendar, and help spread the word.  Western YM's meetinghouse is located at 203 S East St., Plainfield, IN 46168.  Admission is free, with the opportunity for a freewill offering to benefit IFCL. For more information about the concert and about Tim, visit https://goo.gl/PgfxW1. Friends who use Twitter are strongly encouraged to check out and follow IFCL's Twitter feed at @INQuakerPolicy. There are many ways to support IFCL and keep abreast of IFCL priorities and activities, but Twitter is surely one of the easiest and best. 

 

The Overman Family Scholarship, in memory of Jess and Mark Overman, is available again this year. High school seniors through graduate students are welcome to apply.  Undergraduate students will be given first consideration. The scholarship fund is designated to support the members and attenders of Indianapolis First Friends Meeting. Scholarship funds may be applied to any school related expense, i.e. books, supplies, tuition, housing, computer, etc. The deadline for application is July 31st, 2017. For an application please contact the office atoffice@indyfriends.org.

 

 

Please join us for Community Soup on Thursday, August 3, anytime between 5:30 – 7:00 p.m.  Since it is summertime, we will serve, and are asking folks to bring salads rather than soups. No cooking, no dishwashing, and no charge.

 

 

Calling all ice cream lovers! First Friends will be working at the Dairy Bar at the Indiana State Fair on Saturday, August 12th all day. We have one more spot open, from 3:30-9:30pm. It is fast paced but lots of fun! Volunteers will receive a free ticket to the State Fair for that day, as well as unlimited ice cream, shakes and cheese sandwiches. Please let the office know if you’re interested in volunteering, or use the signup sheet in the hallway!

 

 

Valley Mills Friends invites you to a Quaker Jamboree with Annie and Peter Blood Patterson Thursday, August 24 at 7pm. If you know the songbook "Rise Up Singing" that has been used at many fun Quaker sing-alongs, you might know of Annie Patterson and Peter Blood-Patterson who compiled it. They are released Friends who travel in Quaker circles bringing their ministry of community-building through singing together. Committed to fostering Hope, they are coming to Indiana in August. This is a fundraiser for Valley Mills Friends and the Blood-Pattersons' with a suggested donation at the door and opportunity to buy songbooks and CD's. The concert & singalong will take place in the meeting room of Valley Mills Friends, 6739 W Thompson Rd, Indianapolis, IN 46241.  Refreshment to follow.

 

 

2017 Friends Mission Project For FUM - Belize ~ Friends United Meeting (“FUM”)’s Mission project for this year focuses around Belize. There are three ways you can help this project!

1.    FUM operates a small school in Belize which offers a “second chance” for kids failing the high school test to further their education. The FUM vision is to raise $25,000 to expand the school, establish a Quaker meeting where there currently is none, and create a community center.

2.    In addition to renovating the new facility, Oscar Mmbali, a Kenyan Friend, has accepted FUM’s call to serve as the first Friends pastor for Belize.  Oscar is traveling among North American Friends raising support for his new ministry.

3.    Finally, we at First Friends are honored to have one of our member families, the Thornburgs (Aaron, Michelle, Kwali, and Meshach), feeling led by God to go to Belize and help with the facility renovation and provide other assistance to the Friends school (come this Sunday for more details). The Thornburgs will need your financial assistance in order to make their Belize leading a reality.

Your prayers and financial support are needed to accomplish each part of this mission project.  Your contribution can be to all or any one of the parts of this Belize Project (checks can be made out to First Friends; please designate how your contribution is to be allocated among these 3 needs).  Please give prayerful consideration to how you might be led to provide support for this Project.

 

Shalom Zone Electronics Recycling Event ~ If an item runs (or used to run) with a plug or a battery, you can recycle it! This includes (but is not limited to) appliances, TVs, DVD/VCRs, gaming consoles, fax machines, Christmas tree lights, calculators, toner cartridges, hair dryers, and more! The Shalom Zone is holding their annual Recycle Force event at Epworth United Methodist Church, 6450 Allisonville Road, on Saturday, October 7, 10am-2pm. Please bring any items you wish to recycle to Epworth on the day of the event. A $10 donation is requested for CRT type monitors/TVs smaller than 27”; a $20 donation is requested for appliances containing Freon (fridges, freezers, A/C units, etc) and TVs larger than 27”; any other monetary contributions are also greatly appreciated.

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July 19, 2017

As Way Opens

It has been a whirlwind two week period at First Friends.  We hosted a wedding, a funeral service, welcomed our new pastor Bob Henry and started our Vacation Bible School with over 30 children in attendance.  I think this is what a faith community is all about.  Embracing, encouraging, joining together in joy and sadness through the high moments in our lives and the times when we mourn.  And then there are all of the daily opportunities in between to connect, pray for, show our love to each other and participate in those experiences where we celebrate our children.  Vacation Bible School has been a blast this week and a chance to share, teach and have fun through a program that talks about how much God loves us all.  A message we all need to breathe into our being.

These activities are vital to our health as a congregation.   I was particularly struck by the service for Gerald Mills.  He was one of our “weighty friends” over the last 60 years and his imprint on First Friends will live on in our future.  Our Quaker values (testimonies) were lived out in his life every day.  Simplicity, Peace, Integrity, Community and Equality were foundational principles in his life.  We had a wonderful service on Friday and then had a procession to the gravesite in West Newton where Gerald’s wife Arzella and first son Paul were buried.  We traveled a distance in our procession and during a stretch of construction on 56th St, all of the road workers took off their hardhats and put them over their heart.  Many cars pulled aside to give a moment of respect for a beloved person that they did not know.  Watching this ritual was awe inspiring to me.  Total strangers that never knew Gerald stopped their daily routine to honor the life of a man in that moment.  

I appreciated being asked by Gerald’s family to officiant at the service.  I have lived through losing my parents and my husband and know the many emotions that a family will experience during this time of loss.  I was given a poem after Jerry passed away last year that was a powerful expression of loss and I shared it during Gerald's service.  I share this with all of you today.

Love Doesn’t Die

Give what’s left of me away

now that I’m gone.

Remember me with a smile and laughter

and if you need to cry…

cry for your brother or sister, who walk in grief beside you.

And when you need me,

put your arms around anyone and give

to them what you need to give to me.

I want to leave you something…

something better than words

or sounds.

Look for me in the people

I’ve known or loved or

helped in some special way.

Let me live in your eyes

as well as in your mind.

You can love me most

by letting love live

within the circle of your arms,

embracing the frightened ones.

Love doesn’t die, people do…

so when all that’s left of me is love,

give me away as best you can.

I’ll see you at home,

where I will be waiting.

Poem by Mary Frye

May we all live today in the reality that love never dies!

Beth
 


Joys & Concerns

A BIG thank you to John M. and Chelsea & Kendal T. for their help in the woods last Saturday. We got the weeds pulled from the Peace Pole area as well as around the Circle. Thank you again to the three of them for their help. All are invited to the next work day, Saturday, September 16 from 9am-12pm. -Mindy & Mary of the Meditational Woods Committee


Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

The Overman Family Scholarship, in memory of Jess and Mark Overman, is available again this year. High school seniors through graduate students are welcome to apply.  Undergraduate students will be given first consideration. The scholarship fund is designated to support the members and attenders of Indianapolis First Friends Meeting. Scholarship funds may be applied to any school related expense, i.e. books, supplies, tuition, housing, computer, etc. The deadline for application is July 31st, 2017. For an application please contact the office at  office@indyfriends.org.

Church Picnic! All are invited to join us for our annual picnic that is taking place Sunday, July 23rd. Our honored guests will be our new Pastor Bob Henry and his family. If you are able, please bring a dish according to last name; A-J: Desserts ; K-Z: Sides and Salads. There will also be fried chicken, hot dogs (& veggie dogs), rolls, ice cream, and drinks all provided for free. As always, there will be kickball afterward, weather permitting. Please join us!

Oak Leaf: Meeting for Reading:  Luncheon of the Boating Party by Susan Vreeland book discussion will be held Tuesday, July 25 at 7 pm in the Parlor. All are welcome! Becki H. will be leading the discussion.  If you're interested in reading ahead for next month, the August 25th title will be: The Husband's Secret by Liane Moriarty.

Western Yearly Meeting Annual Sessions are coming up July 27-30! It is now time to register for the annual session of Western Yearly Meeting in Plainfield, July 27-30.  Theme of this year's session is, "Joined by every supporting ligament." Our own Beth Henricks is among the speakers!  Other speakers are: Max Carter, Oscar Mmbali (the new minister for Belize), Kathy Luethje, Ann Carter, Keith Glasgow, Jeff Wells and Andrew Heald. A concert by Tim Grimm will be Saturday evening. Registration is only $15 for adults. Yes, there is also activity all days for school-age children.   For more information and to register go to:  westernyearlymeeting.org and scroll to yearly meeting sessions.

Free Tim Grimm Concert! The Indiana Friends Committee on Legislation (IFCL) will be sponsoring a concert with folksinger and Earlham alum Tim Grimm on the Saturday evening of Western YM's annual sessions - Saturday July 29 at 7:30 pm. The program is open to the public.  Please save this date on your calendar, and help spread the word.  Western YM's meetinghouse is located at 203 S East St., Plainfield, IN 46168.  Admission is free, with the opportunity for a freewill offering to benefit IFCL. For more information about the concert and about Tim, visit https://goo.gl/PgfxW1. Friends who use Twitter are strongly encouraged to check out and follow IFCL's Twitter feed at @INQuakerPolicy. There are many ways to support IFCL and keep abreast of IFCL priorities and activities, but Twitter is surely one of the easiest and best.  

Calling all ice cream lovers! First Friends will be working at the Dairy Bar at the Indiana State Fair on Saturday, August 12th all day. This is a major fundraiser for our youth programming. We plan to have two 6 hour shifts, 9:30am-3:30pm, and 3:30-9:30pm. It is fast paced but lots of fun! Volunteers will receive a free ticket to the State Fair for that day, as well as unlimited ice cream, shakes and cheese sandwiches. Please let Beth Henricks (beth.henricks@indyfriends.org) know if you’re interested in volunteering, or use the signup sheet in the hallway!

Shalom Zone Electronics Recycling Event ~ If an item runs (or used to run) with a plug or a battery, you can recycle it! This includes (but is not limited to) appliances, TVs, DVD/VCRs, gaming consoles, fax machines, Christmas tree lights, calculators, toner cartridges, hair dryers, and more! The Shalom Zone is holding their annual Recycle Force event at Epworth United Methodist Church, 6450 Allisonville Road, on Saturday, October 7, 10am-2pm. Please bring any items you wish to recycle to Epworth on the day of the event. A $10 donation is requested for CRT type monitors/TVs smaller than 27”; a $20 donation is requested for appliances containing Freon (fridges, freezers, A/C units, etc) and TVs larger than 27”; any other monetary contributions are also greatly appreciated.

2017 Friends Mission Project For FUM - Belize ~ Friends United Meeting (“FUM”)’s Mission project for this year focuses around Belize. There are three ways you can help this project!

  1. FUM operates a small school in Belize which offers a “second chance” for kids failing the high school test to further their education. The FUM vision is to raise $25,000 to expand the school, establish a Quaker meeting where there currently is none, and create a community center.

  2. In addition to renovating the new facility, Oscar Mmbali, a Kenyan Friend, has accepted FUM’s call to serve as the first Friends pastor for Belize.  Oscar is traveling among North American Friends raising support for his new ministry.

  3. Finally, we at First Friends are honored to have one of our member families, the Thornburgs (Aaron, Michelle, Kwali, and Meshach), feeling led by God to go to Belize and help with the facility renovation and provide other assistance to the Friends school (come this Sunday for more details). The Thornburgs will need your financial assistance in order to make their Belize leading a reality.

Your prayers and financial support are needed to accomplish each part of this mission project.  Your contribution can be to all or any one of the parts of this Belize Project (checks can be made out to First Friends; please designate how your contribution is to be allocated among these 3 needs).  Please give prayerful consideration to how you might be led to provide support for this Project.

Jeff Rasley's tenth book, Polarized! The Case for Civility in the Time of Trump was recently published by Midsummer Books. It's available through any bookstore and can be ordered on Amazon. Political polarization has become so extreme and toxic - and yet the norm - that it took the attempted murder of Congressional Representatives at a baseball practice to draw national attention. Jeff's book explores the roots of hyper-partisanship and describes the US's "culture of outrage". “The Case for Civility” offers suggestions for how "regular citizens" can help cure the sickness of our body politic based on the values of civility, tolerance, pragmatism, and moderation.

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July 12, 2017

As Way Opens

Part of getting adjusted to our new community was taking our family to obtain library cards this week. With all of our books in storage for the next couple months, we would go into withdrawal without having an actual book in our hands. A book that I have been wanting to read for some time, but haven’t had the chance with all the transition is Imagine: How Creativity Works by Jonah Lehrer. Creative freedom and the creative process have always been important and an intriguing study for me, especially in how it relates to our ministry as Friends.

In the first chapter of Imagine, Lehrer talks about a time of struggle, reflection, and surrender for singer and songwriter Bob Dylan. Dylan had lost all inspiration and desire to produce music - so much so, Lehrer says Dylan was literally “sick of his own music.” He was running through the motions and feeling hopeless. Without even his guitar, Dylan left the folk scene in 1965 and drove up to an empty home in Woodstock where he planned to give up music altogether.

The quote by Bob Dylan that opens the first chapter of Imagine is “Always carry a light bulb.” To me that sounded rather Quaker. Don’t we always carry with us a light bulb - that inner light within each of us. For me, the light bulb is a symbol of new and unique ideas, aha moments, and creative inspirations that God is igniting in our souls. Yet, how often do we ignore, forget or simply not acknowledge those light bulbs glowing in our lives? In reality, God may actually be giving us the means to make a difference in our world.  

Bob Dylan’s creative desert didn’t last long. In the silence of that empty home and while completely in solitude, Dylan’s “lightbulb” re-lit. In less than a month, Dylan was back to writing music. He said, It’s just this sense that you got something to say...I’d never written anything like that before and it suddenly came to me that this is what I should do. The album he was inspired to create would include the song Like a Rolling Stone which many consider a musical and lyrical achievement.

This week remember Dylan’s words, Always carry a light bulb.

Grace and peace,

Bob


Joys & Concerns

Many thanks to those who helped at Mid North Food Pantry last week: Kathy and Bill Farris, Phil Kitchel, Ray Guest, Christie Moulton, Dan Rains, & Carol and Jim Donahue!  91 families were served.

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This past Sunday we welcomed Bob Henry and his family after his first Sunday as our Pastor with a special Fellowship Hour. Thank you to the Fellowship Committee for hosting this lovely gathering.

First Friends Members attend the FUM Triennial in Wichita - Every three years, the global community of Friends United Meeting gathers to celebrate life together, to grow in ability to serve the world, and to worship. First Friends members Carolyn H., Ray G., and Norma W, are at Friends University in Wichita, Kansas to participate in this global gathering of Friends. Major presenters at the Triennial include: Miriam Khamadi, C. Wess Daniels, Jan Wood, and Colin Saxton. Other activities include a variety of workshops, reflection groups, social time, and USFW and Quaker Men banquets. Watch for information sharing when Carolyn, Ray and Norma return. 


Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Monthly Meeting Notice: Due to Vacation Bible School and Western Yearly Meeting conflicts, our Monthly Meeting for Business for July has been moved to August 6 which will serve for both months.

Seasoned Friends: Please be advised that the Seasoned Friends Luncheon scheduled for July 26th is being postponed to August. Please keep an eye out for details in the coming weeks!

Vacation Bible School is next week! It will begin this Sunday, July 16 from 12:00-2:00pm and will continue Mon.-Thurs. from 6:00-8:00pm. Lunch will be provided for all who attend on the 16th. We welcome all our kids, grandkids and friends of our kids to participate in this fun and special time of learning that we were created by God and built for a purpose. We’re registering now! To sign up your kids, contact Beth Henricks at beth.henricks@indyfriends.org.

Western Yearly Meeting Annual Sessions are coming up July 27-30! It is now time to register for the annual session of Western Yearly Meeting in Plainfield, July 27-30.  Theme of this year's session is, "Joined by every supporting ligament." Our own Beth Henricks is among the speakers!  Other speakers are: Max Carter, Oscar Mmbali (the new minister for Belize), Kathy Luethje, Ann Carter, Keith Glasgow, Jeff Wells and Andrew Heald. A concert by Tim Grimm will be Saturday evening. Registration is only $15 for adults. Yes, there is also activity all days for school-age children.   For more information and to register go to:  westernyearlymeeting.org and scroll to yearly meeting sessions.

The Meditational Woods Committee is meeting this Saturday, July 15 to tackle the invasive euonymus (winter creeper) and honeysuckle. Winter creeper is an invasive ground cover that smothers the native wildflowers that we are trying to restore to the landscape. Come join us from 9- 12 noon or any time you have to share. Contact Mary or Mindy for questions.

Church Picnic! All are invited to join us for our annual picnic that is taking place Sunday, July 23rd. Our honored guests will be our new Pastor Bob Henry and his family. If you are able, please bring a dish according to last name; A-J: Desserts ; K-Z: Sides and Salads. There will also be fried chicken, hot dogs (& veggie dogs), rolls, ice cream, and drinks all provided for free. As always, there will be kickball afterward, weather permitting. Please join us!

Oak Leaf: Meeting for Reading Luncheon of the Boating Party by Susan Vreeland book discussion will be held Tuesday, July 25 at 7 pm in the Parlor. All are welcome! Becki H.  will be leading the discussion.  If you're interested in reading ahead for next month, the August 25th title will be: The Husband's Secret by Liane Moriarty.

Free Tim Grimm Concert! The Indiana Friends Committee on Legislation (IFCL) will be sponsoring a concert with folksinger and Earlham alum Tim Grimm on the Saturday evening of Western YM's annual sessions - Saturday July 29 at 7:30 pm. The program is open to the public.  Please save this date on your calendar, and help spread the word.  Western YM's meetinghouse is located at 203 S East St., Plainfield, IN 46168.  Admission is free, with the opportunity for a freewill offering to benefit IFCL. Friends who use Twitter are strongly encouraged to check out and follow IFCL's Twitter feed at @INQuakerPolicy. There are many ways to support IFCL and keep abreast of IFCL priorities and activities, but Twitter is surely one of the easiest and best. 

2017 Friends Mission Project For FUM - Belize ~ Friends United Meeting (“FUM”)’s Mission project for this year focuses around Belize. There are three ways you can help this project!

1.    FUM operates a small school in Belize which offers a “second chance” for kids failing the high school test to further their education. The FUM vision is to raise $25,000 to expand the school, establish a Quaker meeting where there currently is none, and create a community center.

2.    In addition to renovating the new facility, Oscar Mmbali, a Kenyan Friend, has accepted FUM’s call to serve as the first Friends pastor for Belize.  Oscar is traveling among North American Friends raising support for his new ministry.

3.    Finally, we at First Friends are honored to have one of our member families, the Thornburgs (Aaron, Michelle, Kwali, and Meshach), feeling led by God to go to Belize and help with the facility renovation and provide other assistance to the Friends school (come this Sunday for more details). The Thornburgs will need your financial assistance in order to make their Belize leading a reality.

Your prayers and financial support are needed to accomplish each part of this mission project.  Your contribution can be to all or any one of the parts of this Belize Project (checks can be made out to First Friends; please designate how your contribution is to be allocated among these 3 needs).  Please give prayerful consideration to how you might be led to provide support for this Project.

Jeff Rasley's tenth book, Polarized! The Case for Civility in the Time of Trump was recently published by Midsummer Books. It's available through any bookstore and can be ordered on Amazon. Political polarization has become so extreme and toxic - and yet the norm - that it took the attempted murder of Congressional Representatives at a baseball practice to draw national attention. Jeff's book explores the roots of hyper-partisanship and describes the US's "culture of outrage". “The Case for Civility” offers suggestions for how "regular citizens" can help cure the sickness of our body politic based on the values of civility, tolerance, pragmatism, and moderation.

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July 5, 2017

As Way Opens

I was lucky enough to have friends get me a ticket to join them to see the musical Hamilton last weekend in Chicago.  This is an incredible production and I had to purchase the two Cd’s of the show and have been listening to them in my car every day.  This play has brought the story of the birth of our nation into a real and tangible expression of men, events, ideals, and principles.  While we celebrate our Independence on July 4th, 1776, this was just the beginning of the road to our freedom as a group of colonies of England.  The war lasted a number of years and many men lost their lives and at times winning this war seemed hopeless.  And yet with the bravery of many and the determination for a new type of govt, this revolution of America succeeded in breaking its bondage to England.  As difficult as this war was for our 13 colonies, the really hard part had only begun - how to lead and govern ourselves would be far more difficult than winning our freedom from England.

While all sides in the revolution were united in their pursuit of freedom from England, the ideas of how to set up a govt were varied and our first leaders were very divided in how to move forward.   Listening to this Hamilton depiction of the birth of our nation has given me hope in a time of deep political division today.  The political divisions were profound back in the late 1700’s and yet these great men found a way to come together and create the foundation of this country that has changed the world.  

What gives me hope today is what I observe of our founding fathers.  These articulate and intelligent men were flawed and yet they were able to rise above their frailties and limits and do something everlasting.  We view them as heroes today but in their time they were petty, entrenched in their positions, full of ego, positioning for power and yet they somehow came together to create something that would endure for centuries.  These leaders ultimately understood that they had to compromise.  Alexander Hamilton was a hothead and believed deeply in the need for a centralized monetary system and as Secretary of the Treasury he dug in his heels for what he believed.  The wise President Washington told him that he had to negotiate with James Madison and Thomas Jefferson who supported states’ rights and come together for a compromise which he did.   Compromise is essential in governing and leading.  

Since our beginning this has been a country of immigrants that were given opportunities based on their accomplishments and not their family heritage.  This meant that every person had an opportunity for success.  I am grateful today for living in the United States and for the ability to express my satisfaction and deep concern for actions taken within our government and society.  I am thankful for the freedom to choose my job, my spouse, my religion, my destiny.  We have much to celebrate about America and much work to do towards a better union.  This is what our founding fathers were counting on - this country would continue to evolve into something better - and we have!   And each of us is responsible for contributing for our continued evolution.    241 years of freedom!

Beth


Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

Please Note: There will be no gentle yoga this Friday, July 7.

Welcome, Bob! Bob Henry is here! As of July 1st, Bob has begun his work as Pastor of First Friends. He will be giving his first morning message this Sunday, July 9! Afterward we will join for a special fellowship hour to honor and welcome Bob and his family. We hope you will join us!

Monthly Meeting Notice: Due to Vacation Bible School and Western Yearly Meeting conflicts, our Monthly Meeting for Business for July has been moved to August 6 which will serve for both months.

Seasoned Friends: Please be advised that the Seasoned Friends Luncheon scheduled for July 26th is being postponed to August. Please keep an eye out for details in the coming weeks for the new date!

Have some soup cans? We’ll take them! We are gathering metal soup cans for Vacation Bible School. If you have any old or empty soup cans of any size, please feel free to bring them to the meeting and drop them in the bin next to the table in the corner of the hallway. Your help is much appreciated!

Vacation Bible School is only a few weeks away! It will begin on Sunday, July 16 from 12:00-2:00pm and will continue Mon.-Thurs. from 6:00-8:00pm. Lunch will be provided for all who attend on the 16th. We welcome all our kids, grandkids and friends of our kids to participate in this fun and special time of learning that we were created by God and built for a purpose. We’re registering now! To sign up your kids, there are registration forms in the hallway! Contact the office with questions or to register.

Jeff Rasley's tenth book, Polarized! The Case for Civility in the Time of Trump was recently published by Midsummer Books. It's available through any bookstore and can be ordered on Amazon. Political polarization has become so extreme and toxic - and yet the norm - that it took the attempted murder of Congressional Representatives at a baseball practice to draw national attention. Jeff's book explores the roots of hyper-partisanship and describes the US's "culture of outrage". “The Case for Civility” offers suggestions for how "regular citizens" can help cure the sickness of our body politic based on the values of civility, tolerance, pragmatism, and moderation.

You’re invited to the wedding! Our beloved organist and choir director Shawn P. and Dr Brett P. invite you to their celebration of marriage on Saturday July 8th with a musical prelude starting at 3:00 and ceremony at 3:30 p.m. This ceremony will be held at Indianapolis First Friends Meeting in the Meetingroom and all are welcome to gather together for this joyous occasion.

Western Yearly Meeting Annual Sessions are coming up July 27-30! You can find all of this year’s information & registration online at https://www.westernyearlymeeting.org/wymsessions/.  First Friends will be leading the morning worship service on Friday, July 28 from 9-10:15am, including Beth H., Ben W. , and Paul and Helena R. Online you’ll find all the details of the sessions such as menus, the preliminary program, housing, and more. There are also chances to volunteer for the Festival of Fun and Fellowship, the Indian Table and Interest Groups. In addition, you can see photos and videos of last year's Annual Session. Discounted pre-registration is due by July 13! We hope you are planning on joining us!

The Meditational Woods Committee is meeting Saturday, July 15 to tackle the invasive euonymus (winter creeper) and honeysuckle. Winter creeper is an invasive ground cover that smothers the native wildflowers that we are trying to restore to the landscape. Come join us from 9- 12 noon or any time you have to share. Contact Mary or Mindy for questions.

Church Picnic! All are invited to join us for our annual picnic that is taking place Sunday, July 23rd. Our honored guests will be our new Pastor Bob Henry and his family. If you are able, please bring a dish according to last name; A-J: Desserts ; K-Z: Sides and Salads. There will also be fried chicken, hot dogs (& veggie dogs), rolls, ice cream, and drinks all provided for free. As always, there will be kickball afterward, weather permitting. Please join us!

Free Tim Grimm Concert! The Indiana Friends Committee on Legislation (IFCL) will be sponsoring a concert with folksinger and Earlham alum Tim Grimm on the Saturday evening of Western YM's annual sessions - Saturday July 29 at 7:30 pm. The program is open to the public.  Please save this date on your calendar, and help spread the word.  Western YM's meetinghouse is located at 203 S East St., Plainfield, IN 46168.  Admission is free, with the opportunity for a freewill offering to benefit IFCL. Friends who use Twitter are strongly encouraged to check out and follow IFCL's Twitter feed at @INQuakerPolicy. There are many ways to support IFCL and keep abreast of IFCL priorities and activities, but Twitter is surely one of the easiest and best. 

2017 Friends Mission Project For FUM - Belize ~ Friends United Meeting (“FUM”)’s Mission project for this year focuses around Belize. There are three ways you can help this project!

1.    FUM operates a small school in Belize which offers a “second chance” for kids failing the high school test to further their education. The FUM vision is to raise $25,000 to expand the school, establish a Quaker meeting where there currently is none, and create a community center.

2.    In addition to renovating the new facility, Oscar Mmbali, a Kenyan Friend, has accepted FUM’s call to serve as the first Friends pastor for Belize.  Oscar is traveling among North American Friends raising support for his new ministry.

3.    Finally, we at First Friends are honored to have one of our member families, the Thornburgs, feeling led by God to go to Belize and help with the facility renovation and provide other assistance to the Friends school (come this Sunday for more details). The Thornburgs will need your financial assistance in order to make their Belize leading a reality.

Your prayers and financial support are needed to accomplish each part of this mission project.  Your contribution can be to all or any one of the parts of this Belize Project (checks can be made out to First Friends; please designate how your contribution is to be allocated among these 3 needs).  Please give prayerful consideration to how you might be led to provide support for this Project.

We’re Hiring! First Friends Meeting is seeking a qualified applicant for the job of Music Director at the meeting. The Music Director is a part time salaried position, responsible for developing and leading the worship music, in collaboration with the pastor, in a way that is consistent with the mission, values and theology of Quakers. The applicant need not be a Quaker, but should have a knowledge of, and appreciation for, the worship experience. If you’re interested or know anyone who may be interested in this position, please visit our website at https://www.indyfriends.org/musicjob/ for more information and to apply!

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June 28, 2017

As Way Opens

This past Thursday we heard terrible news over the phone.  One of my son Greg’s closest friends from high school had been killed (Marshall Pendleton).  He was traveling with friends to Southeast Asia over the last month and was in Ho Chin Minh City in Vietnam in a popular tourist area and encountered a Vietnamese man and had an exchange that ended in an altercation and this man used a knife to take Marshall’s life.  A 22 year old that will never get married, never have children, never experience a rewarding career, never fulfill his destiny.  It is so hard to process a loss like this and Greg keeps asking me how God could allow this to happen.  And I keep telling Greg that this was not God, this was the opposite of God and that we can’t deny that evil is in our world. 

It is difficult to understand anything about this tragedy.  The only way I can blot out this violence for Marshall is believing that my husband Jerry is welcoming and embracing Marshall in the beyond.  Marshall spoke out of the silence at Jerry’s memorial service talking about how special Jerry made Marshall feel every time he came to our home.  Jerry adored Marshall for all of his amazing characteristics and I have to believe that Jerry continues to show him love.

What I take away from this devastation is the fragility of all of our lives.  In a blink of an eye something can happen to us or our family members or friends.  We need to embrace every moment with joy and love and express how we feel to every family member and friend and never leave anything behind.   We need to forgive, we need to reconcile, we need to love.  Can we live each day like this is our last day?  Think about the difference this would make in our world.

"In desparate hope I go and search for her in all the corners of my room; I find her not.

My house is small and what once has gone from it can never be regained.

But infinite is thy mansion, my lord, and seeking her I have come to thy door.

I stand under the golden canopy of thine evening sky and I lift my eager eyes to thy face.

I have come to the brink of eternity from which nothing can vanish - no hope, no happiness, no vision of a face seen through tears.

Oh, dip my emptied life into that ocean, plunge it into the deepest fullness.  Let me for once feel that lost sweet touch in the allness of the universe.”

A poem by Rabindranath Tagore

Beth


 Joys & Concerns

Great work done by our volunteers last week at Mid-North Food Pantry! Our volunteers were Ray G., Rik and Linda L., Phil K., Dan R., Nichole Y., and Carol & Jim D. A big thank you to our volunteers! 103 families were served!

SAWs Ramp Build ~ Some of our friends joined others from Shalom Zone last Saturday for SAWs—Servants At Work—to help build a wheelchair ramp for someone in need. They were able to help Gerald, who is confined to a wheelchair as a result of a gunshot. Thank you to Jim D. and Derek S. who participated in this project on behalf of First Friends!


Announcements, Reports, & Opportunities

We Can’t Wait for Bob! Bob H and his family will be arriving in Indianapolis later this week. We are very excited to welcome him to our Meeting, and to hear his first Morning Message on Sunday, July 9th. The picnic we are having on July 23rd will be in his honor, as well. Let’s be sure to give Bob a very Friendly welcome!

We hope you will join us for Meeting for Worship this Sunday, July 2, to hear our next guest, Jon Berry!  Jon is a lifelong Friend who has been active in meetings in New York, California, and Indiana. After a career in journalism and business, he earned a Masters of Divinity (M.Div.) in May 2017 from Earlham School of Religion. He plans to begin training for chaplaincy and to write about religion.

Have some soup cans? We’ll take them! We are gathering metal soup cans for Vacation Bible School. If you have any old or empty soup cans of any size, please feel free to bring them to the meeting office! Your help is much appreciated!

Vacation Bible School is only a few weeks away! It will begin on Sunday, July 16 from 12:00-2:00pm and will continue Mon.-Thurs. from 6:00-8:00pm. Lunch will be provided for all who attend on the 16th. We welcome all our kids, grandkids and friends of our kids to participate in this fun and special time of learning that we were created by God and built for a purpose. We’re registering now! To sign up your kids, there are registration forms in the hallway! Contact the office with any questions.

Welcome Your Neighbor Signs ~ The Welcome Your Neighbor signs have arrived!  Please pick one up after Meeting at the table in the corner of the hallway.  Proudly display them at your home and/or place of work to provide a welcome to everyone, particularly to certain ethnic groups that some have tried to marginalize.  Contributions for the signs are appreciated but not required.

We’re Hiring! First Friends Meeting is seeking a qualified applicant for the job of Music Director at the meeting. The Music Director is a part time salaried position, responsible for developing and leading the worship music, in collaboration with the pastor, in a way that is consistent with the mission, values and theology of Quakers. The applicant need not be a Quaker, but should have a knowledge of, and appreciation for, the worship experience. If you’re interested or know anyone who may be interested in this position, please visit our website at https://www.indyfriends.org/musicjob/ for more information and to apply!

2017 Friends Mission Project For FUM - Belize ~ Friends United Meeting (“FUM”)’s Mission project for this year focuses around Belize. There are three ways you can help this project!

1.    FUM operates a small school in Belize which offers a “second chance” for kids failing the high school test to further their education. The FUM vision is to raise $25,000 to expand the school, establish a Quaker meeting where there currently is none, and create a community center.

2.    In addition to renovating the new facility, Oscar Mmbali, a Kenyan Friend, has accepted FUM’s call to serve as the first Friends pastor for Belize.  Oscar is traveling among North American Friends raising support for his new ministry.

3.    Finally, we at First Friends are honored to have one of our member families, the Thornburgs (Aaron, Michelle, Kwali, and Meshach), feeling led by God to go to Belize and help with the facility renovation and provide other assistance to the Friends school (come this Sunday for more details). The Thornburgs will need your financial assistance in order to make their Belize leading a reality.

Your prayers and financial support are needed to accomplish each part of this mission project.  Your contribution can be to all or any one of the parts of this Belize Project (checks can be made out to First Friends; please designate how your contribution is to be allocated among these 3 needs).  Please give prayerful consideration to how you might be led to provide support for this Project.

You’re invited to the wedding! Our beloved organist and choir director Shawn P. and Dr Brett P. invite you to their celebration of marriage on Saturday July 8th with a musical prelude starting at 3:00 and ceremony at 3:30 p.m. This ceremony will be held at Indianapolis First Friends Meeting in the Meetingroom and all are welcome to gather together for this joyous occasion.

Western Yearly Meeting Annual Sessions are coming up July 27-30! You can find all of this year’s information & registration online at https://www.westernyearlymeeting.org/wymsessions/.  First Friends will be leading the morning worship service on Friday, July 28 from 9-10:15am, including Beth, Ben W., and Paul and Helena R. Online you’ll find all the details of the sessions such as menus, the preliminary program, housing, and more. There are also chances to volunteer for the Festival of Fun and Fellowship, the Indian Table and Interest Groups. In addition, you can see photos and videos of last year's Annual Session. Pre-registration is due by July 13! We hope you are planning on joining us!

Church Picnic! All are invited to join us for our annual picnic that is taking place Sunday, July 23rd. Our honored guests will be our new Pastor Bob Henry and his family. If you are able, please bring a dish according to last name; A-J: Desserts ; K-Z: Sides and Salads. There will also be fried chicken, hot dogs (& veggie dogs), rolls, ice cream, and drinks all provided for free. As always, there will be kickball afterward, weather permitting. Please join us!

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